In other words, would you mind if your significant other was married?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-08
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Nowadays, men and women are very open-minded and don't care much about these things. Elementary school students are all starting to fall in love, let alone an adult, who doesn't have a past.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It depends on the situation, see why they get married and divorced, if you can accept it, just like that, if you can't accept it, then separate, don't force it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What I want to say is that it's impossible not to care about each other's past, but whether you should care or not, everyone has a degree in their own hearts, and they can weigh whether they should mind or not, and if they break it clean, then let it go slowly.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't mind, just break it. Even if you have children, don't have too much to do with it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you really love each other, you won't care if the other party has been married or divorced, because what you love is the present, the future, not the past, and the past can only show that the other party is not ladylike, and you haven't met someone who is suitable for you, so you have taken a lot of detours.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No! After all, loving someone can't mind his past, he didn't have you in his past life, so he can't predict the current situation! What I care about is him since I knew him, as long as he loves me with all my heart, it's all worth it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    That's for sure, think about it when you are in a dazzling array of goods, you have to choose a satisfactory one, some are used and returned, some are unopened, what kind of do you choose?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't care, because I haven't been involved in your past, my present is my privilege, and I will accompany you in your future, because you are my world and my future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Probably not, people are emotional animals, if they really like each other, they don't have to worry about each other's past, the other half has been married and divorced before, it is already a great misfortune for her, if she still has to care, it can only make his heart hurt more.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't mind, I only care about the present, but I also hope to know more about her, so that I can better love her and protect her, if she doesn't want to mention the past, I won't go, I am willing to believe in her, respect her choices and decisions!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Marriage is not child's play, and we cannot gamble with the happiness of our own lives.

    If I find out that he still has someone else in his heart after marriage, then I will immediately choose to divorce, and timely stop loss is the best result for both parties. I love him again, so what, a pot of heat.

    can't cover a cold heart. And he obviously loves someone else in his heart, but he chooses to marry me, so this kind of man is also very irresponsible. This kind of person is typical of eating from the bowl and looking at the pot, and the woman has to bear the pain in the days after marriage.

    <>And as the saying goes, long pain is better than short pain, since he doesn't love me, he just treats me as a partner to live, so why should I? Do you like to be masochistic? No, I don't want to live like this.

    When I got married, I was blind and saw the wrong person, but I wouldn't take my life for the other party's mistakes.

    Divorced, life can go on, and I can continue to find someone who really loves me. But if I still barely maintain this loveless marriage, I am like a trapped prison bird.

    Pain and struggle every day.

    So I chose not to look back and strode forward.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If there are other people in his heart, he will choose to talk to him seriously first, and he can be clearly told that I can not care about his dispersion in the past, but I hope he can cherish his current life, after a serious conversation, I will also choose to manage this marriage well, so that he can experience the happiness of married life, and slowly if he can let go of that person, I think life can be very good, but if he has been burying other people in his heart, then I will choose to end this marriage relationship with him, Make it easier for both of you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I will divorce the other party directly, since the two people are married, and the other party is still missing the other person, it means that the other party does not love me at all.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I will take the initiative to communicate with the other party, and I will also have a very calm negotiation with the other party. And will tell the other party to forget this person's attack, because the two are already married, and the other party must be responsible for himself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    As a boy, after getting married, I will be very mindful of having friends of the opposite sex, which is not conducive to the consolidation of marriage and family and the deepening of feelings.

    Communicate effectively with the other half in a timely manner, and make clear your views, ideas, and attitudes. The other half has friends of the opposite sex who behave unacceptably, and their hearts are unhappy and their emotions are impassioned.

    Therefore, it will be clearly told that the other half is not allowed.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Since it is a state mu married, you should put your mind on the small family of the couple to think about doing things, and there should not be other friends of the opposite sex, this problem will definitely affect your family happiness and harmony, and affect your husband and wife feelings, whether it is a man or a woman.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    For men, they are very mindful that their wives have friends of the opposite sex after marriage.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I mind Qiao Min very much, it can be said that I can't tolerate it, and I don't allow the other half to have friends of the opposite sex after getting married. After getting married, the other half of the friends of the opposite sex have little role and value, but they may set off a wave of marriage and filial piety. Relationships are hard to maintain, and trust is hard to build.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I will mind, after marriage, I must ensure that my feelings are single-minded, and I can't have an ambiguous relationship with the opposite sex, because I think there is no real friendship between adult men and women, and after marriage, you should keep a distance from the opposite sex, if you have friends of the opposite sex who can't hide when you contact friends of the opposite sex, it's best to turn friends of the opposite sex into friends shared by your husband and wife, so as not to have a bad impact on the stability of the family.

    In my usual life, I will definitely care about the other half, I have good friends of the opposite sex, this will make me insecure, I will feel that his feelings for me are not single-minded, I may lose confidence in the management of this family and marriage, especially when he has a private relationship with a friend of the opposite sex or has an ambiguous relationship, it will make me hate it even more, at this time I will choose to communicate with the other half, to see if he can keep a distance from the application friend, or give up this friend to return to the family, if not, I may choose to give up the marriage.

    Although I would suggest that the other half has a good friend of the opposite sex, but I will also understand his friend of the opposite sex, if it is a childhood sweetheart who grew up together or a childhood playmate, he has always maintained a good relationship with the opposite sex, but there is no ambiguous relationship, and it will not involve privacy, just a simple friendship, I can accept the existence of such a friend of the opposite sex, but there is a premise that he also introduced this kind of friend to me, and he can make him our mutual friend, we can play together and eat together, travel together, but they can't be intimate in private.

    I suggest that my other half has a good friend of the opposite sex, when he can't correct the relationship with a friend of the opposite sex, I will let him make a choice, if he chooses his friend of the opposite sex, I will give up directly, this will make me feel more secure, I may meet a better other half after putting him in, I will feel his love, if he can give up a friend in the process of falling in love with me wholeheartedly, then I will love him more in the future, Such a choice will also make the relationship between us sweeter and more secure.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    My perception may be different from others because everyone's values and perceptions are different.

    As for whether the other half has friends of the opposite sex, I think it needs to be based on trust, respect and understanding, mutual understanding and support. I don't mind if the other half has more friends of the opposite sex, but I would also like to be able to understand the nature and relationship of these friends, and whether the relationship between the other half and them is appropriate. If something goes wrong, I want it to be resolved through communication and proper handling.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The opposite sex also depends on it, their relationship, if it is really too close, will definitely mind, but it is just ordinary friends, then it is still okay.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I don't mind, the object is attractive, which shows that I have a lot of room for effort!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    After getting married, no one can accept that their other half has friends of the opposite sex.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Mind! There is no pure friendship between boyfriend and girlfriend!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In fact, for most people now, in fact, when we are with others, if he can give us a good feeling, it will make us have a good impression of him, and the feelings between us are mutual. So some people will have such doubts, that is, why did you marry your other half? From a personal point of view, because I have a kind of admiration for him, and he also cares about me very much, let's learn more about it.

    1 The psychology of worship

    Now I think it is very normal for everyone to fall in love, especially for girls around 20 years old, and now we can see a lot of students in college, they are all in love, at this time they have found another person, there is a place they like, it is at this time, two people can try to fall in love, if after getting married, we find out that there is something bad about each other, we can separate in time, But the reason why I chose to marry my other half is because he has a lot of excellent shining points, and they all have adoring eyes for him.

    2 cares about me a lot

    Now for many people's mate partners, they are actually looking at the other party. Character, and if the character is good, it is really for the sake of being popular, so in my personal opinion, I think my other half has a very good character, and he usually cares about me. Being with him gives me a sense of security.

    Therefore, we should pay more attention to this aspect of the problem in our daily life, for everyone, we must choose carefully when choosing our life partner, and we must keep our eyes open, because after all, this is our life event, and it is also related to our future life. The above is my summary of some of the relevant understandings of this issue, I hope these can be helpful to you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The reason why I married my partner and my partner is because we were in a relationship and got married, and after a certain period of time, we felt that it was almost over, and then we got married, and our married life was no different from our pre-married life.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The main reason for getting married is that I feel that the age between the two people has reached the age of marriage, and the personalities between them have been almost the same, so I hope to stay together often, and finally the marriage relationship is determined.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The reason why I married him is because our three views are more consistent, and our hobbies are more consistent, we often have a lot of common hobbies, we can support each other together, and because his personality is very good, I can tolerate me, and I also feel that he can bring a very good sense of security, so I will marry him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Because my partner and I are very much in love, and both of us are full of expectations for life, so the two of us will get married.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I didn't talk about it in college, but after graduation, I met together, and people introduced me to a blind date, and when I saw a so-so, I talked about it first, and then I got married.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's because my other half is very good to me, and his family conditions are also very good, he is very handsome, and he is also very good to my parents.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I got married to my significant other because we really love each other, we have a common language and interests together, and we can understand and tolerate each other, so we got married.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Because when I met him, I thought he was very simple, honest and generous, and very able to endure hardships. The important thing is to be good to me, and to my family, although he is not rich and rich, and he does not give my family a lot of dowry, his sincerity makes me willing to share weal and woe with him.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Because I think that two people are really very suitable, so no matter what kind of thing we do, we will always be happy. The main one is the problem. Therefore, it is really important for two people to get along.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Because I like him, I want to accompany him to old age, and I want it to accompany me to old age, and I want to have a common child and a happy family, a warm harbor.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Because my other half and I love each other, are in love, are willingly together, and have a better relationship, we will naturally go to the palace of marriage.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Because apart from him, I have never met a boy who makes my heart move, because they are each other's first love, and I can't think of anyone else to marry except each other.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Why do you want to marry your significant other? Because we've been in love for a while. I feel happy and happy together. I am willing to live with him for a long time. So they got married.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Because we love each other, the depth of love is like getting married, and when we get married, we have a family. This is normal.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    No, I don't regret marrying him or her now. Although there are some difficulties in married life, these difficulties can be overcome through mutual love and understanding. The two of us are together, we respect each other, we help each other, we have experienced many things, we have gone through many battles.

    From the day we know each other, we know that our love will never disappear, just like the sun hidden deep in our hearts, warm and bright. Even though there are many challenges in life, we still love each other so much and stay connected instead of pulling each other.

    In addition, we often participate in sports activities together, appreciate **, enjoy all good things, experience wonderful trips, do many interesting things, maintain a happy mood, and share exciting moments together.

    All in all, I think it is the best choice to treasure our love in our sensitive hearts, as long as there is love in our hearts, our lives will be full of happiness, and I will not regret marrying him (her) now.

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