How does a person behave when they no longer care about someone

If a person is content and accustomed to the present life, he does not expect another person to participate in his life. Therefore, any love affair is actually a person whose eggshell of life has broken somewhere, and another person appears at the right time, relieving or comforting his anxiety or expectation. Caring is actually to perceive with your heart what the person you like really needs, maybe he doesn't know what he or she is vulnerable, and then satisfy him.

In fact, it's very simple, life is trivial, and what you really care about a person embodies is also trivial behavior. For example, what she likes to drink when she is thirsty, whether she likes to snack after eating or whether she likes to eat fruit or nothing, what kind of topics she likes, what kind of color she likes, what kind of life and rest pattern she likes, whether she wakes up early and goes to bed early or is a night owl, or irregular... Interests and hobbies can complement each other because of different and attract each other, but life and rest are difficult to change in a lifetime, and these aspects also reflect a person's fundamental principles and a person's bottom line.

For example, a person may not mind when he and coffee are only drunk with orange juice; He'll definitely mind if you put the toothpaste back in the toothbrush jar after you've squeezed it, if he's someone who keeps things in one place forever. I think that caring is something that can be done and can be done well with your heart, but at the same time, you need to confirm whether the person can adapt to the fundamental principles after you put your heart into it.

When a person no longer loves you, there must be these four manifestations.

The relationship between people is the most real. As the saying goes: it's easy to fall in love but hard to get along.

I think this sentence is difficult for both lovers in love and two acquaintances. When two people get along, their feelings for each other are the clearest, whether they like, care, or hate, and their reluctance are all shown at a glance.

I don't know, will you meet such people who don't care about you, so, what will be the performance of not caring about a person?

1. Unwilling to spend time with you. Liking someone is like being tired of each other all the time, and it feels sweet to do nothing. If he'd rather play games and drink with friends than with you, he doesn't care about you that much.

And always shirk your thoughts and demands, that is, deliberate avoidance and unwillingness to spend time on you.

3. I won't take the initiative to look for you. A person who doesn't like or is not there is no way to take the initiative to find you, know your dynamics, know your joys and sorrows, and will not think about how to meet you, because if you like someone, meeting is the best**.

4. There is no you in the other party's plan. If you want to develop with a person for a long time, then he will definitely have you in his future plans, if not, it means that he doesn't care about you. Because together, everyone wants to be able to live for a long time, and they will see you as a part of the future whenever possible.

In other words, caring about a person is that you always think about a person's condition, always want to know what he is doing and who he is with, what he is eating and eating well today, whether his work is not going well and whether he is unhappy, whether there is anything he wants to do, whether there is anything he wants to talk to others, which means that he has entered your heart, and you have done it very much and loved him. Although these things are very trivial and detailed, at this time, love has reached a certain level and has been loved to the bones. When you wake up in the middle of the night and see your partner frowning, you will wonder if he is too tired, or if something unpleasant has happened?

And don't care, none of this will appear, and it won't make you have any relationship with you. Well, such a relationship is not love at all.

Clause.

1. Ignore your love. Clause.

2. When you do something wrong, you are sneering and mentally suppressed, which is obviously a personal attack on you, so how can you care? Clause.

3. When you say the wrong thing or do the wrong thing, you lose your patience and lose your temper and get emotional.

The main manifestations are as follows:

The first manifestation is very perfunctory to you. If you want to know whether this person hates you or likes you, then choose to chat with him and finally count the number of times you both talk. If you say one sentence and the other person replies with you ten words, it means that he has a crush on you.

On the other hand, if you say ten words and the other person only replies to you, and this sentence is still very short, then there is no doubt that this person does not like you at all.

The second manifestation is that emotional intelligence becomes very low. Emotional intelligence in relationships is all about great interpersonal skills, including making the other person comfortable and making yourself comfortable. But it is clear that there is a conflict between the two.

Many times, in order to make the other person comfortable, we need to make ourselves feel uncomfortable. If the other person hates you, the option to "make you comfortable" will not exist at all, so the other person will not bother to bother with you at all. Outwardly, it may be that it looks like it has low emotional intelligence.

What's more uncomfortable than the false mask between people is that the other party doesn't bother to disguise you.

The third manifestation is hatred of the house and the black. We always say that loving someone will show "love for the house and the house", and in the same way, when a person looks down on others, it will also behave this way. Not only do we hate to look down on this person, but we also hate to despise everything that this person loves, including anything he has, his thoughts and opinions.

Generally speaking, it is very simple to hide the contempt for a person, but it is very difficult to hide the contempt for all things that a person has.

Well, if you ask if you care about a person's performance, it may be easier to answer. And don't care about a person's words, because it is possible that he is pretending. obviously cares a lot in his heart, but he is cold to you in his behavior, this is the so-called desire to get away with it.

If you don't care about a person, you don't care about his business! cares about a person, as long as he hears something about him, he will pay attention to it inadvertently.

Don't reach out to each other. Perfunctory attitude, impatient. Half-hearted, ambiguous with others. Put you in a very low position and don't value you. Acting rude in front of you and having low emotional intelligence.

For example, there are many parents who don't care whether their children's grades are good or not, and they will encourage their children regardless of whether they do well or badly. Another example is that some people don't care if their friend is good-looking or not, and they are still willing to play with him.

In interpersonal communication, whether a person cares about you or not, not depends on what the other party says, but on how he treats you.

I don't care about a person's performance, I don't care about a person, I don't care about it, I don't care about it, I don't care about it, I don't care about it, I don't care about it, I don't

Didn't see it, ignored it, etc. I don't care if a person just doesn't see a sense of existence, and ignores it and takes the initiative to approach.

Whoever scores this score with whom, the stranger in the aisle definitely doesn't care about his performance, because it has nothing to do with me!

A person who doesn't care about you can be seen by that person's performance. The person who cares about you, he will pamper you like a child, whether it is male or female, the man finds the feeling of being cared for like a mother; Women have a sense of steadiness to rely on like a mountain.

Someone who really cares about you, he will find all kinds of ways to make you happy, reluctant to let you cry, even if two people have conflicts because of disagreement, even if you are wrong, he (she) will find a reason to admit that she (he) himself is wrong, because you don't care about him (her) on your birthday It feels very uncomfortable to ......

If a person really cares about you, he or she will hear the difference from what he or she calls you: someone who really cares about you will definitely give you a name that is different from what others call you.

Because he or she thinks it is a way of distinguishing her (him) from the distance between her (him) and other people and you, this title belongs only to him ......

If a person cares about you or not, you can get the answer from his mobile phone: the person who really cares about you will turn on the phone for you 24 hours a day, so that you can find him anytime and anywhere, and he will also reply to your messages in seconds, because he is afraid that you will miss him and be anxious for him; Because he is afraid that you will not find him, and you will be angry; Because he has your ...... in his heart

If a person really cares about you, he will look at you and giggle while you eat, you ask him why, he himself doesn't know, and then, he will give you the best meal....

Licking the dog "has no future. This is true not only in relationships between men and women, but also in any form of interpersonal relationship. True friendship can only be achieved if both parties respect each other.

But in reality, there are still many people who keep their voices down in a relationship and give a lot, but in the end they can only fail. When a person shows you these things, there is no doubt that they don't care about you at all.

Never look you in the eye.

When a person never looks at you squarely, it means that he doesn't care about you at all. Such a person looks down on you at all from the bottom of his bones, and thinks that communicating with someone like you will make him very faceless, so his attitude towards you is also hot and cold. In the process of our normal relationship, if you attach great importance to each other, especially when you are talking to your teacher or parents, we usually look into his eyes to talk to him, sometimes although we don't need to look at the eyes, but we will also stare at him.

It shows a kind of respect we have for each other, but those who don't care about you, they never do.

Acting rude in front of you and having low emotional intelligence.

Maybe you have encountered this situation before, someone who has a good reputation in the eyes of most people, but behaves very rudely, very unfriendly, and low emotional intelligence in front of you.

So, there are two possibilities, one is that the other party likes you and behaves a little childish. Another is that the other person doesn't care about you at all. Because emotional intelligence in interpersonal communication is essentially an act that makes others happy, but many times, satisfying others will wronged oneself.

Therefore, showing "high emotional intelligence" is actually a very psychologically energy-consuming thing.

Always perfunctory to you, ignoring your existence.

When a person is always perfunctory to you and ignores your existence, it means that he doesn't care about you at all. This should actually be the best understanding, when you value something, pay attention to someone, you will be very detail-oriented, and always strive to be more perfect in front of him or in this matter.

But when you don't care about a person, no matter what kind of thing he does, you will feel very bored, when he asks you something, you will be very perfunctory to him, and when he asks you to do something, you will also be very impatient.

It's always rude in front of you.

When a person is always unreasonable in front of you, it means that he doesn't care about you at all. The 5,000-year-old excellent cultural history of the Chinese nation has taught us to be polite people, no matter what we say on what occasion we say or what clothes we wear.

But when a person behaves normally in front of others, but always has a very unreasonable attitude in front of you, either he likes you and wants to behave differently, or he hates you very much and doesn't bother to treat you with normal etiquette, only these two situations.