Children s Social Skills How to respond to someone else s call

It is recommended that parents take their children to children's activity places, which is very helpful for children to learn to get along with others. Before the age of 3, most children are still in the stage of personal activities, and they may insist on playing their own things in such places. However, she can feel the emotions of the children around her, observe the behavior of the children around her, and can also appreciate the importance of public order and the rules of the game in this environment, and learn the skills of conflict resolution and getting along with others.

In addition, in the process of observing and feeling the child's surroundings, parents should guide the child to learn to understand the emotions and feelings of others, so that the child can gradually de-centering himself in the interaction with peers. Mom and dad can simulate the scene of children playing at home, and play different roles with children, so that children can put themselves in other people's shoes and experience the feelings of others, so as to adjust their own behavior.

What social skills parents need to teach their children?

1) Learn to praise.

Compliments are one of the best little gifts you can give to each other in interpersonal interactions and can enhance friendships. Students who are praised see their strengths or strengths, increase their sense of accomplishment and self-confidence, and will try to keep it up; Students who praise others not only exercise their expression skills, but also learn to respect others, pay attention to others, and discover the strengths of others. Therefore, enhancing training in this area can improve students' communication skills

When complimenting, pay attention to the main strengths or specialties of the other person, and the content should be specific. For example, "what we all like most is your personality, you can talk to anyone, and you feel comfortable talking", "This dress of yours is so beautiful and suitable", "Your smile is the most beautiful in our class", etc., rather than outrageous flattery or ill-intentioned hypocrisy.

2) Learn to be tolerant.

Elementary school students are prone to impulsiveness, and misunderstandings between friends are common. However, some classmates often love to hold grudges, and they are always misunderstood, and often end their friendships due to a lack of tolerance and active understanding. What is needed to maintain friendship is open-mindedness, understanding and tolerance, and parents should teach their children to be tolerant according to the age characteristics of primary school students.

3) Learn to help others and cooperate.

Helping others is the premise of cooperation and the driving force for promoting interpersonal communication. To help others is to unite people, and you will get help from others in the future. On the contrary, selfishness and self-interest at the expense of others and self-interest are tantamount to cutting off contact with others.

As a parent, you should teach your child to help others when they are in trouble, know how to help others, and learn to cooperate. "My son is 9 years old and I've been trying to guide him to be helpful. Last weekend, my son and I took out all his books and picture albums, carefully identified the ones that I no longer needed, and then donated them to children in poor areas with him.

My son was very happy and said that he had done the most meaningful thing. Recently, I heard that the little one was giving his lunch to other children who had nothing to eat at school. "In order for children to behave considerately, generously, and helpfully, parents must demonstrate to their children.

If your parents are not in line with their words and deeds, your children will only imitate your negative behavior, and even if you explain the principles and instructions to the truth, it will not be useful at all.

4) Learn to be patient.

As the saying goes, "if you suffer a loss, you will fight a heap", forbearance is for friendship and unity, for the overall and long-term interests, and in the end it is beneficial to others and yourself. The so-called "harmony generates wealth", both are prosperous, and both fights are injured.

Of course, forbearance also requires skill. If you tolerate it yourself, you must clearly let the other party know that you are intentionally forbearing, and let the other party know your views and positions. Criticism and heart-to-heart communication on the premise of forbearance will have good results and will be very conducive to the coordination of interpersonal relationships.

Be self-reliant, behave in the world, and protect yourself.

Have you ever wondered why those people are so du?

What about you? A person will not do this for no reason, is it jealous? Envy?

Hate? Or is it that some of your own actions are offending the interests of others? Actually, none of this matters, it's mainly you.

Many people don't understand all their lives whether they live for others or for themselves. Isn't it good to socialize? So what?

One person can't always satisfy everyone, you just need to be yourself, why care so much about other people's eyes, what others think? Although it is a bit unreasonable to say this, human beings are social animals, and it is impossible for them to live in their own world, but they always have to come into contact and communicate with other people or things. You remind me of a quote:

No matter how deeply you have been hurt, there will always be someone who will show up and ask you to forgive all the difficulties that life has done to you before. You can't stop eating because of choking, because of other people's words, serious injuries or something, close your heart, learn to accept, accept others, and yourself.

It's good to be yourself, and other people's discussions are someone else's business, calm down! There are such people in **!

Be yourself....Those who are clear will clear themselves, and those rumors will be self-defeating.

1.Books on interpersonal relationships, although Carnegie has been hyped up in the past few years, his books are indeed worth reading.

How to Win Friendships and Influence Others

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