I don t know if there s anyone who s as entangled as me

Happy New Year, friends!

I think so, it's very difficult to regulate things involving money just by lip service, and sometimes even more and more chaotic, so it's better for you to wait for both parties to calm down a little and take some action yourself. The premise is that you can control the financial power of your family, and you still have some control over the family.

My brother-in-law is in difficulty, and your family always has money to support, which means that you still have some spare money, you can use this spare money for financial management or buy a fixed ** or something, which are many times higher than the bank current interest rate, and you can also make a little money. At the same time, these financial management items cannot be moved for a few months or a few years, and no one can borrow them if they want to.

I don't know if you have children, if you have, you shouldn't have too much spare money, so if you don't have children, you can consider having a child, and you should be in your thirties or early thirties after five years of marriage.

Of course, you also have to keep a little money in your hand, and the money you leave for emergency use must have the ability to bear it in an instant, after all, the parents are getting older and older, and there will be children's growth expenses in the future, you have the opportunity to talk to your wife alone, if she is still a little rational, she should listen to you. If your wife's poor relatives have any big deals, it's not good not to give them at all, they are all brothers and sisters in the initial stage, and it is still necessary to help a little at this time, but you want to keep as much as you want.

That's all for my advice, if you think that your wife may not agree or even turn her face by doing this, then think of another way, in short, I wish you a smooth solution!

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. I chose such a daughter-in-law and such a family, so bear it. Sometimes having the courage to show them the facts can solve the problem. Do you know that people are good and are bullied, you deserve to be bullied if you are kind.

I've had almost the same experience as you, I've cried every time, I've shouted, I've had a nervous breakdown, I can't listen to others, I have to rub my ears, rub my eyes, blow my hands after others finish speaking, I don't want to live anymore, I don't have a friend, I need to be quiet! However, my heart tells me that it doesn't matter if you're lonely, it doesn't matter if you're interpersonal, the most important thing is to believe in yourself, believe in the future, don't care about other people's eyes, and strive for the future.

I always think a lot, so it's tiring and I can't do it, but luckily I'm optimistic, and the next day will be fine.

Freud's "The Interpretation of Dreams", I'm reading it now, 35 yuan, go to Xinhua Bookstore to buy it, but you have to be very patient to read it.