The girl in a long distance relationship said that the two of them were not together

The most lacking thing in a long-distance relationship is a sense of trust and security, so the usual communication is so important when you find that there is less communication with each other. This is a problem that every long-distance couple encounters. Because of the different circles in different places and different work and rest times, it is difficult to have new topics in addition to the memories of the past and talking to each other about the daily flow account life.

So how do long-distance relationships find topics to start communicating?

From food, clothing, housing and transportation, talk about what happens every day, and express your own views on certain things. Some long-distance couples exchange ideas by watching news, entertainment programs, etc., which is worth learning from. Through the collision of views and ideas, you can also understand each other's three views and grow each other, which is a very good way.

Besides, the news is updated every day, so I'm not afraid there will be no topics to talk about, right?

It is the topic of concern and greetings to the other party. For example: Are you feeling better now?

That is, if he goes to work, you can have more to do with his work, don't call each other too often, that is, you don't always chat with him, you always have to find a topic to talk about, and secondly, you will be disgusted after a long time.

Find a topic of emotional interest in the other party, a program or a certain celebrity, and opinions as a topic.

You can talk about each other's or your current career development, as well as your dreams and future plans. Isn't it great to look forward to the future?

What did you eat" and "what you did" are almost every daily topic that long-distance couples can't avoid, and a month or two is still caring and considerate, but after a long time, it really consumes the will. "Plain is true" is all self-consoling nonsense - bland is not true, bland is really boring. When things aren't interesting in themselves, stretch your mind and find new ideas.

Find topics here according to the target and your own situation. (e.g., talk about each other's school life or your own school life, or talk about memorable things in school before; Talking about each other or their own majors, many people talk about their specialties to be special and be able to talk about special dedication; I also talked about my career story and career.

A successful person, a person with a successful career is a person with a very good story, when talking about the bumpy journey before success, it is very tasteful, very meaningful, and very moving.

Separate from each other, but still have a lot to do, it will make your communication colorful. You have to find a common hobby between the two of you, or his preferences, for example, your boyfriend likes to play online games, this is a starting point, you can find more topics around online games, and turn his preferences into your own preferences, which is very important!

Let the other person be affirmed and full of pride. People like to be affirmed and praised by others, and become his loyal fans.

Communication is a key part of a long-distance relationship, once the communication is blocked, it is difficult to continue to maintain the relationship.

Long-distance relationships can be tiring after a long time.

Hello, long-distance relationship.

The girl said that she hadn't arrived home yet, so you told her to be careful and safe on the road, and you must tell me when you get home, so that I can rest assured, because he is your girlfriend, and you will always care about each other. When he gets home, let him tell you, you will rest assured, care more about your girlfriend, long-distance relationships can't be together, only chat more, increase your feelings, greet more and care more, let him feel you, care about him as much as he is by his side.

Boys can't be distracted.

My boyfriend walks to the ** and hangs me on his lips, and when he mentions me, it's beautiful. The lab thinks he loves his girlfriend very much, so the junior sisters don't think much of him. There was a girl who was very tired of him and always looked for opportunities to get close to him.

He told me when he noticed it, and then he hid from the guy and went around promoting how good his girlfriend was. I usually don't joke with female classmates about gags. So I'm very relieved of him.

Sometimes he will do a little exaggerated in order to reassure me, such as not listening to the girl's in-depth conversation, and not taking a photo with the girl alone. But it was precisely because of these exaggerations that I trusted him so much. He is also a typical male engineering student, who is obtuse to ambiguity and does not understand the amorous feelings.

So it's good to find an engineering man.

Both sides have to have their own lives.

He is a male engineering student with a slightly boring personality, and he quickly takes the lead in the laboratory when he does experiments and publishes sci. I am a young woman who is curious, likes to travel and finance, loves to read, likes to play the piano and listens to ** meetings, and watches stage plays. Our concerns and visions are complementary, and the three views are slightly different but not very different.

The things I like make him feel fresh and cool, and I admire the scientific research he does.

We are all very self-motivated. In school, his circle and vision are relatively simple, and he has seen fewer setbacks. I have a lot of difficulties in my work and a lot to overcome.

So he has a lot of psychological pressure on the big hurdle, I can understand his pain, and I can also channel his emotions very well, although I am not around, but my experience can make him believe what I say, every time I cheer him up, it can hit the nail on the head is very effective, he feels that he has a backing in his heart.

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Normal care, tell him that when you get home, remember to tell me, I'm worried about you.

Generally speaking, if you can, it is most appropriate to be able to meet once every two or three months. Of course, if there is a condition, of course, the more people we meet, the better. But for most long-distance relationships, it's very good to be able to see each other once every two or three months.

If you are in a long-distance relationship, it takes half a year or even more than a year to be able to meet, which is still more difficult. The distance is too close, and it is inconvenient to ask for leave to meet, it is recommended that both parties coordinate and be able to work in the same city is the best. Because no matter how frequent you send messages in normal times, it is not as good as meeting in person.

If you don't see each other for too long, the two will have too little common experience, too little common experience, fewer topics, and less understanding of each other, which may lead to chatting and chatting without knowing what to talk about, and even when chatting, there is an embarrassing situation where there is nothing to say.

Although the long-distance relationship is difficult, if it is over, once it is cultivated, the relationship between the two will be very stable and can still last for a long time. For the sake of the future relationship stability of the two, it's okay for the ex-wife to work harder, so let's keep seeing each other more.

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The girl said I didn't express it enough? I said that we need to be together for a while, not a long-distance relationship.

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The girl said I didn't express it enough? I said that we need to be together for a while, not a long-distance relationship.

How to reply to the message.

If you can go back to the current one, even if we are in a long-distance relationship, I will try to prepare to go to your city. Love will not change because of distance, and love you will not change.

For his girlfriend, maybe what she wants is a close relationship, not a long-distance relationship. He thinks it's normal to see each other every day.

Now it may be like a friend, because he can't feel love, and it is also a sign of insecurity, so he can find a way, can he not be in a different place.

It means that she hasn't agreed to be with you yet, after all, long-distance relationships are difficult, and she may not want to talk about long-distance relationships, so she refuses to admit that she is with you.

She said that she was not together in a long-distance relationship, because falling in love needs to start with a formal confession and sending a bouquet of flowers, so you should meet her and give her flowers.

It means that your girlfriend doesn't love you, so she hides this relationship from outsiders, afraid of delaying her to find a new candidate.

The two places are separated, and they are indeed not together.

From an emotional point of view, the avoidant type prefers to be alone, has a relatively stable mood, tends to be introverted, and is unwilling to take the initiative to express the interaction between two people, and is unwilling to say what he thinks; The other type tends to be emotional and emotionally unstable, accompanied by pain, tearing, fear, and worry. I want to be loved, but I'm afraid to devour myself.

From an emotional point of view, the avoidant type prefers to be alone, has a relatively stable mood, tends to be introverted, and is unwilling to take the initiative to express the interaction between two people, and is unwilling to say what he thinks; The other type tends to be emotional and emotionally unstable, accompanied by pain, tearing, fear, and worry. I want to be loved, but I'm afraid to devour myself. From an emotional point of view, the avoidant type prefers to be alone, has a relatively stable mood, tends to be introverted, and is unwilling to take the initiative to express the interaction between two people, and is unwilling to say what he thinks; The other type tends to be emotional and emotionally unstable, accompanied by pain, tearing, fear, and worry.

I want to be loved, but I'm afraid to devour myself.

The long-distance girlfriend replied to a message and stopped talking, indicating that he was thinking about your relationship, and it is actually very difficult for a long-distance relationship to last.

There are a lot of situations, one is that he is too busy, he doesn't have time to reply to you more, one is that someone around him is embarrassed to reply to you, and then she has another relationship, so people won't reply to you.

If your long-distance girlfriend ignores you, she must be dissatisfied with you, do you think about it yourself, do you usually care too little about her, and have too little time to chat with her? Often forgetting what she likes and what she has said? Don't pay enough attention to her?

Not being honest with her? Think about it, and you should be able to find the answer.

This long-distance girlfriend replied to a message and stopped talking, she just didn't care much about you. I don't want to talk to you.

In a long-distance relationship, your girlfriend replied to a message and didn't speak, maybe there was a communication problem between you, or the distance problem caused you to have fewer topics.

Maybe it's about the situation you both were in at the time and your information at that time! It's not that long-distance relationships say that, maybe something happens to the couple in front of them!

I'll be honest, long-distance relationships are inherently difficult.

Your girlfriend replied to a message and had nothing to say, then it is possible that the relationship between you has faded and you don't want to talk anymore, or it may be your girlfriend. Suddenly, something didn't have time to reply to your message.

But it is estimated that it is unlikely, because basically if you are in a long-distance relationship like this, if you don't get together often, then the relationship will really fade.

Maybe the two people have less common topics in a long-distance relationship, or maybe this girl has something to do, so she didn't reply.

It depends on the situation, if you have been together for a long time and have a good relationship, maybe she is very busy, maybe she thinks it's okay to go back, and she doesn't think about it so much, if you are new to each other, it may be that she is still hesitating.

Maybe it's because the messages you send are a bit boring, for example, do you post often, then she replies to what you are in, which is normal without it.

This one has something to do with your relationship, and it may also be too busy to see it, or it may be problematic.

It may be that he has something to do, so he didn't have time to get back to you.

It's possible that he's busy, it's possible that she's not interested in the topic you're proposing.

If that's the case, I think he's probably angry, right? I'm mad at you.

Maybe your long-distance girlfriend suddenly has something wrong, so she didn't reply to other messages in time. Sometimes there are all kinds of small things that come out of nowhere in people's lives, so don't get too entangled. If you really think there's something wrong, it's good to ask your girlfriend about it, and it's good to ask for warmth.

Good luck!