If you don t get in touch after dating, do you lose the chance to love?

According to this situation, there are two possibilities, the first is that the boy is not very interested in this girl, maybe he just wants to be friends first, and briefly understand the situation of the other party, I don't know if you have known each other before or were introduced by others, it should not be the first time you met, right? If that's the case, it's better not to reach out to him again. Because it's not a good thing for a guy to be too active for a girl, this time he has a bad perception of you, or he is very traditional.

The second situation is that the boy is very introverted and not very good at communicating, so the girl should not always take the initiative to contact him first, so that she will form a habit, or then he does not contact because he wants to make sure that you are not suitable for further communication, if it is not suitable, then there will be no contact, so give him a period of time uh to consider, he will take the initiative to contact you after thinking about it, if it is very introverted, then you directly ask him how you think you get along, can you go together? It's so direct, it's not good to drag it all the time. Otherwise, don't contact him, wait for him to take the initiative to contact you, let him know that your life is rich, and he is not the only one, and there are many better than him waiting for you.

1.Not an opportunity, it's a possibility. You contact him!

2.More contact, texting works better, don't give up. Prepare more good topics.

Girls: It's better to be reserved.

Boys may not like girls.

If the man has a good impression of the woman, it is recommended to take the initiative to contact! Because the girl has already taken the initiative to show love, if the man doesn't react and doesn't take the initiative, it will be considered insincere! After a long time, the girl will give up!

If the two are happy, what does it matter who takes the initiative!

It may take time, and you may find that the other person is not suitable for you.

The reason is not you, but in the boys.

Many people who have dated boys in their 20s should have encountered such a situation, that is, they have a good chat when they are dating, talk and laugh, and release good intentions; But after the date ends, the person seems to disappear, there is no connection, people are so lost, and then they begin to wonder if their performance on the date day is not good enough, or if he has no feelings for you.

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Ad. In fact, the problem is really not with you, this situation will occur, which can be roughly divided into 4 reasons:

1.The mind is not yet mature.

Because of the lack of experience and understanding of gender relations, I did not take the initiative to contact the girl after the date. Boys generally think it's not a big deal, but for girls, they will be a little concerned, and even if they don't want to have a relationship, don't forget the message of being a friend.

2.Selfish.

only thinks of himself, and ignores the feelings of the other party, so he doesn't even dial a **. If you meet such a boy, then there is no need to maintain even a friend relationship.

3.I really don't have time.

In the eyes of many boys, feelings will not be the first priority in their lives, and the first place may be achievement, fame, wealth or work, so they often allocate their time to these things first, so they have no time and no heart to call you. For such enterprising boys, some girls are very appreciative, so if you want to have further possibilities with this type of boy, girls should take the initiative.

4.Self-doubt.

He felt that he was not good enough to shout and hold well, so he didn't have the courage to hit you. Such a boy may be a herbivorous man, who is less confident in infiltrating himself, so in order to avoid being rejected by the girl, he chooses to cut off contact. This type of boy is usually more introverted and needs a girl to guide him, and once he starts dating, he will be considerate to the girl and care for him in every detail.

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Love is not restricted by factors such as time, environment, conditions and age, so even if there is no contact for a while after dating, it does not mean that fate has come to an end.

If a girl still likes a boy after dating, should she continue to keep in touch? It's a must. The boy may not be in contact with the girl, or for other reasons, he may be very busy at work and have no time to work outside to talk about relationships (this is not a lie, in reality, this often happens to ambitious men); After his date, he had the same worries as the girl:

Will she like me in the back of the date anymore? So he chose to escape for a short time.

Fighting for your own love requires courage and persistence, don't let the opportunity pass, hard-won fate, don't give up easily! Is it not worth letting go of the reserve in your heart in exchange for the happiness of your life?

Therefore, this girl should open her heart, leave a little reserve for her happiness, take the initiative, be brave, and come on. We will always support her and bless her! (However, pay attention to the way and keep a calmer snack, and don't be too outrageous to be "active", so as not to disgust the boy).

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If the girl likes the boy, she will continue to chase, as long as she is attentive, she will definitely be able to do it, because the boy still attaches great importance to the girl, if you don't like it, don't think about it. In fact, men are very objective emotionally, if they don't like it, they will be very cold, boys may not like girls very much, but feelings need to be slowly accumulated and get along slowly, so that they can understand each other and get along meaningfully.

Be brave and pursue the people you like, don't be so cringe, one is to make people think that you have a distance, the other is that you are uncomfortable, but the most important thing is: in the end, you will not get anything. Happiness is always earned by yourself, don't expect others to give you handouts, love must be said out loud!

This situation shows that the boy has no intention of continuing to associate with the girl, no need to contact again, everything is about fate, there are many boys in the world, and then look for it.

Maybe the boy doesn't contact the girl because he is not familiar with the girl yet, I think if the girl thinks that the boy is worth fighting for, continue to take the initiative, anyway, you have already taken the first step, why give up?

Not in touch does not mean that you do not have a chance Two people must have one person to take the initiative Girls love noodles As a gentleman, take the initiative so that you have a chance!

Or take the initiative to care, maybe the boy is busy. Send a text message and make a **, or continue to maintain the previous attitude.

1.How can you say that, there is a chance, it may be that he is busy, or he is the kind of person who is more introverted, and if you take the initiative to care about him, he will be moved.

2.Contact as usual If you want to continue, you can contact and ask the other party what you mean If you don't want to continue to be cold like this, you can go out and hang out together when he comes back.

1 The probability of occurrence is quite high.

2 Give up, because that would be too tiring.

There will be a deeper understanding of getting along, too little time will be a bit dangerous, and external factors will affect a person's judgment.

Maybe the boy is used to the girl taking the initiative to find him, try to contact him, maybe he is also waiting for the girl**.

If it is difficult to break the situation you have stated, it may not be possible for the two of you to do so, but it will take a long time to get out of the impact of this on you.

Rather than worrying and worrying about yourself for so long.

It's better to take the opportunity to work harder.

Even if in the end, everyone walks together without fate.

At least I've tried.

That's the way it is: the most frustrating thing is not failure, but the lingering after giving up halfway.

Probably only when you're friends.

It is also possible to surprise you.

Guess what, unless you ask yourself.