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Give up, don't continue. It's just a blind date, I haven't met yet, I can't even count as a couple, don't have any burden, if it's not suitable, just share, there's no need to waste each other's time.
Based on your current situation, I think you are suitable for finding a new love, unless one of them can take the initiative to solve the problem of being in a different place, otherwise this relationship is meaningless. Only when the distance is solved can the relationship be regarded as having a real sense of understanding and contact.
Introduce. When going on a blind date, it is mostly contacted by spontaneous or marriage matchmaking, **, human resources department, relatives and family, and matchmakers, and the two parties meet to discuss marriage. The form of blind date in the past generations is much the same. In the old days, the male and female parties did not exist, but were arranged by the eldest parents.
Some of them are so-called "meetings" between men and women at fairs and temple fairs. Both men and women are brought to the rally by matchmakers or their parents. In the cognition of young people, blind date in modern society is to expand their social circle and give both parties a way to get to know each other.
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I think there are several possibilities:
1. This blind date has no feelings for you, so he will not take the initiative to contact you. Even, maybe it's already time to start the next relationship.
2. This blind date is just busy with work recently, so he can't find time to reply to your messages in time for a while.
3. Introversion: The personality of this blind date is more introverted and subtle. Maybe he's in the same mood as you at this time, but he's too embarrassed to go to you. You can take the initiative, try to talk to him, contact him if you have anything to do, and slowly you will get acquainted.
4. The man is a more extroverted and lively personality, so if he still doesn't contact, he may not like it. Or he wants the woman to take the initiative to find him and pursue him in order to satisfy her vanity.
5. Blind date is coping: If a man really cares about this blind date, then how can he play disappear? There is only one reason, that is, the blind date is not willing to do so at all, perhaps because of the pressure of the elders, or because he doesn't want to be laughed at by his friends.
6. The man doesn't like your appearance: If the man doesn't contact the woman again, the first thing is that he is not very satisfied with each other's appearance. Inner beauty is known only after a long period of contact.
So, if the man doesn't contact you, then he probably doesn't like your type of beauty.
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It's possible that she doesn't have feelings for you, but after a while, it's possible that it's basic politeness.
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If there is no drama, you can take the initiative to contact him and ask what is going on.
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Summary. Hello dear, good morning.
There has been no progress in four months, I believe my dear, I must be more worried now, do I think I should give up this blind date?
It's been almost four months since I got to know each other, and I haven't made any progress.
Hello dear, good morning. There has been no progress in four months, I believe my dear, I must be more worried now, do I think I should give up this blind date?
My dear, the purpose of the blind date is to get married, and if there is no progress in four months, then I think you can actually give up the current blind date. The rule of "if you agree, you will come, and if you don't agree, you will disperse" is actually in the blind date, we all understand.
It has taken four months for you to make no progress, which means that there is no communication between you, no running-in, and you can't find a common topic, which is actually more worrying and hesitating. So, my dear, if you don't think it's time to continue grinding, then it's understandable to give up.
That's all for me. Do you have any more questions? Feel free to consult me and wish you a happy life
I guess cold treatment is okay?
Yes, dear, because when we are cold, we will give the other person a message that we are alienating her, and naturally the other person will be aware.
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Summary. I have the following views on the problem you described:
1.It depends on the situation, why there is no contact, if it is because the other party is busy, and the conversation is good at the beginning, I think there is hope.
2.If you start with a general situation, you haven't been in touch for a month, and you have half hope, that is, you have to get to know each other.
The above is my advice, I wonder if it helps you? If not, please tell me and add a description, I will analyze all aspects for you! Because specific problems need to be analyzed in detail, I hope it can be understood. Thank you very much for your inquiry.
If the two people on a blind date haven't been in touch for a month, is there any hope?
1.It depends on the situation, why there is no contact, if it is because the other party is busy, and the conversation is good at the beginning, I think there is hope. 2.
If you start with a general situation, you haven't been in touch for a month, and you have half hope, that is, you have to get to know each other. The above is my advice, I wonder if it helps you? If not, please tell me and add a description, I will analyze all aspects for you!
Blind dates are not understood in the first place, and can only be understood by chatting with each other, and if you don't chat often, it will indeed reduce your good feelings for each other. So I still need to chat more.
Last time, I didn't contact me for more than ten days, and then he took the initiative to find me.
This time it was more than ten days.
So how did you talk to each other? Have a good chat?
Because you don't know each other very well, you're testing each other's tolerance.
The chat is very good, but he won't take the initiative.
Is it his personality problem? Have you met?
He doesn't take the initiative, have you taken the initiative?
I met, he was the kind of straight man who was very straight, and I had taken the initiative to find him before.
Have you ever said you have a crush on each other? What does he do to you? I think you're feeling good.
Maybe the other person doesn't know how to deal with girls, you can sometimes tell him.
Maybe the other person doesn't know how to deal with girls, you can sometimes tell him.
None of us said that.
I haven't said it, which means that you are very introverted.
Boys shouldn't have bothered to it, but they won't.
Boys shouldn't have bothered to it, but they won't.
I went to his place of work to play, and he would come to me, but I didn't talk actively, so I was worried about whether to talk to him anymore.
I think the other party is more straight, so you should be more direct. Ask him why he doesn't talk to you often?
Only by opening the knot can we determine whether it is time to continue.
Only by opening the knot can we determine whether it is time to continue.
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When two people feel okay on the first side of the blind date, after the blind date ends, the feelings of both parties are usually not bad. But sometimes the behavior of the blind date after the blind date is incomprehensible, and then I don't know what he is thinking, such as the blind date man disappears for 5 days and then contacts you, is this the case?
If you disappear for 5 days and then contact you, it may be that you are really busy at work, or it may be that you have been on a business trip for a few days, and you will naturally come to you after you are busy. If he doesn't look for you for a few days because he's busy with work, he'll be more enthusiastic about you, or he'll apologize to you for disappearing for a few days.
There are also cases where you want to get away with it, making you feel that he doesn't care about you so much, and using your psychology to make you start thinking about him. If he wants to get away and disappear for a few days and then look for you, then he will continue to contact you as usual, pretending that nothing has happened, saying what to say, and looking like a light person.
It may also be that he went on a blind date with you and then went on a blind date, relatively speaking, he has a better impression of the person he met later, so he is chatting with another girl these days. After a few days, I came back to you, maybe I didn't talk so well with another girl, and there was no possibility of development, so I came back to you again.
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