Will you regret it if you don t confess? Am I going to confess first or keep the relationship,

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you want to get, you must give, and your giving must be seen by others what your true will is.

    If you want to get, you have to give, you can not pay unless the other person pays first.

    If you want to get, you must give, but you must lose at the same time, whether it is the relationship between friends or the right to communicate.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1. You are very unrighteous and be a third party!

    2. She is a little irresponsible to you!

    3. Are you at ease with such a woman?

    Forget it!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you are warped on the fourth floor, you must be very cool!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think the people upstairs are all very good.

    But I don't approve of your relationship.

    There should be fair competition, and I think the first and second floors are very good.

    But I think you should confess to others, and if you don't succeed, you don't have regrets, at least you have tried.

    But be sure to be friends and find the right opportunity to talk to her.

    Don't be afraid of anything, big man

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Take the courage to go up to her and confess to her, if you don't confess, you won't have to complain if you regret it

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't feel much hope, you have to know that she has a boyfriend, your chances are slim after all, unless his boyfriend treats her badly, it is difficult for you to have a chance, it is better to be friends, so long, and it is easier to get to know her.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    At the beginning of a beautiful relationship, one party must confess first, even if two people are happy with each other and never get tired of seeing each other, one person must confess to pierce this layer of window paper. The reason why many people have been single is because they dare not confess, and they obviously like each other very much in their hearts, but they are ashamed to express it. In fact, in love, not daring to confess is the most wrong idea, because if you don't dare to confess, you may miss a good fate.

    But there are still some people who dare not confess because they are afraid that they will fail. So, after the confession fails, will you regret taking the initiative to confess? I don't think I will regret confessing for the following reasons.

    1. As long as I confess, I will not have regrets in my heart, if I fail to confess, I will not regret taking the initiative to confess. Because in my opinion, as long as I confess, I will not have any regrets in my heart. If I don't confess all the time, after a few years, I may feel regretful in retrospect, and I will think that it was my timidity that caused me to lose a perfect relationship.

    So even if I confess my failure, it's nothing, and when I look back on it later, I will only praise myself for being really brave.

    Second, only when you confess yourself can you let go of this relationship, if you don't confess, you may not be able to let go of this relationship in the next few years or more than ten years. After the confession, although I failed and was rejected, I can let go of this relationship from now on, start the next beautiful relationship again, and reap the happiness that truly belongs to me.

    3. The failure of confession can only mean that the two of us are not suitable The reason why I will not regret taking the initiative to confess after I confess failure is because I feel that there is nothing wrong with confession failure, it is not that I am bad, but that the two of us are not suitable. I'm such a brave person, I must be able to wait until someone who really thinks I'm good and really suits me. Therefore, if you like someone, you must be brave to confess, because after the confession, you will have more confidence to meet the future life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't regret it, at least I've tried it, and I'll regret it even more if I don't try.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes, I feel that I am sloppy and reckless, and I should not confess to the other party easily, I should see the right time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't regret it, because I've taken this step and bravely confessed my inner thoughts to the other party, even if I am rejected, it is not a regret.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't regret it, although I failed to confess, I finally tried hard.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After the confession fails, I will not regret the confession, because the person I like always has to take the initiative, and taking the initiative to confess is also to give myself a chance to release love, and I will go backwards with confidence.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't regret confessing my initiative, at least I'm brave enough to try, and I don't have any regrets.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There is no one set standard answer to this question, as every person and every situation is different. However, in general, there are a few things you can consider before deciding to confess:

    1.How well you know the other person: Do you know each other's interests, values, and personality traits? If you know enough, you will be better able to judge whether the other person is a good match for you.

    2.Awareness of your inner feelings: Self-awareness is very important, and you need to ask yourself: Does your crush respond to your feelings? Are you prepared to deal with the possible pain and feelings of loss in a case of rejection?

    3.Assessment of the relationship: Is your relationship already close enough to consider developing further? Before confessing, you can try to communicate further to assess the other person's interest and willingness in you.

    All in all, whether and when to confess ultimately depends on what you know about yourself and the other person, as well as the risks and benefits of your actions and results. If you're feeling unsure, start with small actions, such as more communication and interaction, and gradually build up your understanding and trust.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Frankly say that you have someone you like.

    Tell the other party directly that you reject him not because you hate him, but that you already have someone you like and can't accept his confession. This method of refusal may sound a bit hurtful at first glance, but if you can clearly tell the other person why you rejected him, he will feel that there is no way to do it, and the damage can be minimized.

    Make your attitude clear.

    Show your attitude and leave no way back. When many boys confess to girls, they have already made a choice in their hearts, and no matter what difficulties they have, they will rise to the occasion. And at this time of rift, the attitude of the girl is very important, and it must not be tactful.

    Like is to stand up, don't like to resolutely refuse, there is nothing to give a few more days or let me be a little surprised to let me think, seepage pants must not be. If you don't like him, you should explicitly reject him, no words. Of course, the sincerity is very sudden, and you can't grasp your heart, let yourself think about it for two days, and your attitude must be good at this time.

    Do your best to maintain the other person's self-esteem.

    In order to reduce the psychological harm caused by rejection of love to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party. Specifically, you might as well first praise the other person's character and talent, and then explain why you can't accept the courtship. The reasons to be said should be reasonable, and it is best to put forward favorable aspects from the other party's point of view, so that the other party feels that the rejection is also for his (her) good; If you need to explain to others, you may want to attribute the reason for Cong Jian's negativity to yourself to avoid giving the impression that you have rejected him.

    Choose the right way.

    You should take into account your normal relationship and the personality characteristics of the other party, and choose to treat it coldly, or interview, or letter, but it is recommended that you do not use the method of asking someone to tell you, because it seems that you are not respectful enough to the other party, and it may also cause unnecessary trouble.

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