How to educate a bear child at home?

Having a bear child at home is indeed a particularly headache, for this kind of non-words, it is really useless to fight, and it is useless to scold, but you know that you can't let them go like this, but you don't have a good way, it's really a special sadness and headache. Because he is not only very skinny at home, he also has a big trouble in society, if he is not well disciplined, he will definitely be a cancer in society in the future.

I think one way to deal with people like them is to never be tolerated, and to give them a leg up from the very beginning, so that they know that they can't be forgiven for what they do. Because of many bear children, he watches people put down dishes, bullying the soft and afraid of the hard. Therefore, when we clean him up, we must not be soft, do not say that there is such a baby in the house, so we are reluctant to fight, reluctant to scold, you have to think, if you are reluctant, there will always be someone to help you outside in the future.

Of course, they also have advantages, we must also boldly encourage them to motivate them, to be good at discovering some of their advantages, if they have achieved achievements, we must also praise them, so that they will have a better performance in the future. Always take the example of some good classmates around her to influence her, when she is studying or playing, there will always be some better children around her, so when he makes trouble himself, he will let him look at those children who are performing well, and he may be a little more restrained.

Although educating them is a very irritating thing, but we can't give up on them easily, so we must have a patience and tolerance for him, with strictness as the mainstay, supplemented by encouragement, you have to believe that in fact, they can also be successful, but parents must pay attention to the method. Yes, they must be guided to let him know the consequences of making a mistake and realize that his actions are wrong.

Don't get used to your child every day, as long as the child makes a mistake, we should immediately tell the child that we are wrong, and then we should also impose a certain punishment system on the child. Only in this way can the child correct his mistakes, and then he will turn from a bear child into a good child.

At this time, parents should become more patient, manage their children, tell them that this is not right, and also need to induce them to do something quieter.

You should make a time plan and a daily plan for your child, so that you can get a good education and not become particularly rebellious.

When the child at home does something wrong, the child's behavior must be corrected in time, and the child must be criticized and educated.

When there is a conflict between children, adults cannot completely sit idly by, and sometimes it is necessary to intervene in time.

The purpose of the intervention is not to judge right and wrong, but to help the child ease the deadlock. In other words, not to be a police officer and judge, but to be a "lubricant".

The intervention is not to be reasonable, but to provide practical help to the child on a case-by-case basis.

Parents should be role models for their children and lead by example. Then, when there is a dispute and conflict between children, it is the time to reflect the wisdom of parents, and parents can not only educate their children, but also set a good example, otherwise, in addition to the psychological shadow brought to children, it will also affect the establishment of children's future character and values.

Parents should not intervene and interfere too much, let the children deal with the conflicts between them, and let the children deal with the conflicts between them, which is also to exercise the children's social and problem-dealing adaptability, and it is also the child's establishment and formation of their own social model. Therefore, parents should give their children more initiative and autonomy, and do not interfere too much.

Article**1 But these are completely based on the equal relationship between the child, if one of the children relies on physical strength or other advantages to bully the other, as a parent must take action to correct the child's behavior.

If you are a parent with a strong child, you should properly restrain your child's behavior, teach your child a sense of equality, not rely on your own advantages to bully other children, and set an example of humility and politeness for your child at ordinary times.

Article**2 If the child is a parent who is bullied, the first thing is to review whether he is too strict with the child, resulting in the child's timid and timid character, and it is recommended that parents create an equal and warm living atmosphere for the child, encourage the child to express his wishes, and dare to say no to unfair treatment.

If there is a physical altercation between the children and injuries are caused, the parent as the child's guardian needs to intervene. However, parents on both sides must treat this matter calmly, objectively and rationally, and adopt mediation and negotiation methods to deal with it. Understand who is at fault and how to minimize the damage to the other party.

Article **3 In fact, the world of children is simple, the heart is pure, and the contradictions between them are often inadvertent, so parents do not need to pay too much attention and care too much. It should be from the child's point of view and let them figure it out on their own. Objectivity, rationality, and calmness should be the principles that parents should follow.

In fact, children were still in trouble about something one second, and the next second they forgot the previous contradictions and unhappiness, and they played together intimately. This is a psychological characteristic of children during this period, a process of exercising and improving their interpersonal skills, and a growth process of life.

1. Parents should educate their children to be polite and happy.

Parents should pay attention to all aspects of their children's education, so that their children can become a good teenager with a sense of responsibility, responsibility, politeness and civilization. Parents can remind their children that if they take the initiative to greet the teacher, then they will give the child a reward for changing their pants, which can be a snack or a toy that the child likes, and the child will have the courage to say hello to the teacher, and when the teacher also really gives the child a wedding, the child will feel sincerely happy, the child will feel a sense of achievement, and slowly will understand politeness into the norm.

2. Parents should supervise their children and communicate with them in a timely manner.

As long as many bear children are playing with other children, they are not robbing other people's toys, or don't make others cry, other children will go far away when they see such bear children, and other parents will also remind their children not to play with such children. Then, the parents of bear children should take good care of their children, talk to their children about how to get along with children, and supervise their children on the side.

3. Go to the supermarket to buy something and pay for it before you can eat it.

If parents take their children to the supermarket to buy things, many children have no sense of order, make a mess of the shelves, open what they see, and eat as they please, which is really uneducated and will cause disgust from others. Parents should make it clear to their children that the supermarket is not their own, what they want, you can send it to their shopping basket first, if you really use or eat, you need to pay the bill at the cashier, it really belongs to you, otherwise you can eat it casually, use it casually, it is the act of stealing.

The family must talk about the land, and should also make relevant comments and education according to the child's wrong behavior, and should also make the child aware of what to do and what not to do.

Parents are very tolerant of their children, and very tolerant, when the child Qinglu does something wrong, the parents do not care about the limbs, always feel that their children are very smart, as long as the child is happy, so it will create a bear child.

There should be a very good concept of education, when the child encounters any problems, he should help the child to solve it, and he should also teach the child to bend the disadvantages of raising children in life. Orange Mountain.

Ying Song shouted that the child should be educated according to the correct moral style of some Qing Ying, so that the child can have a better moral concept and will not do something unreasonable.

Educate bear children to be patient enough, because bear children are more naughty and very difficult to discipline. Then in the process of education, you must reason with the child, and you can't beat him or scold him. In this way, we can reduce the anxiety symptoms of Yanchang's children.

When parents of bear children educate their children, they will face the child's naughty and slippery core, and let the child praise the child in disguise. Let the child think that he is not useless, but also has strengths, and such a bear child will slowly change his luck.

There must be many kinds of parents of bear children, and some parents of bear children will protect their children and spoil their children.

Parents must set rules for their children and not spoil their children excessively, which is the correct way to educate.

Parents encourage their children to behave well, because the children of bears want to get attention.

When you meet the bear parent, even if you remind the bear child of what he did, he still thinks you are nosy. For example, once when I was crossing the street, I was hit by a bear child, and then I told the child's mother that for safety, I pulled the child when crossing the street, and there were many cars. The mother bear gave me a blank look and said that you don't have long eyes when you walk, do you blame him for being hit by a child?

Tut-tut......These three views, I'd better hide.

Communicating with the parents of bear children requires certain skills, and poor communication will backfire.

First of all, fully affirm the child's strengths. The advantages of these bear children are more difficult to find, but each child will have a shining point on the stool, we first fully affirm the advantages of the child, not to sentence the child to the "death penalty", so that the bear parents can have the face to talk to you. In short, as long as the heart is kind and truly caring, there are always more ways than difficulties.

As the saying goes, "What kind of bear children there are, what kind of bear parents are behind them." "Bear children are the hardest to do in school and in class.

Not only do you not listen carefully in class, you don't do your homework seriously, but you also often violate discipline. criticized him, not only did he not admit his mistakes, but he was still the same bear. Don't say that you can't beat, you can't scold, you can't scold, even if you persuade him, you won't listen.

If you are a little careless, it is easy to attract bear parents. Many teachers are afraid of provoking bear children, and even the head teacher is nerve-wracking. Of course, we can't let him do whatever he wants.

He has to be cured, of course, in order to completely ** this cancer, you must first get rid of the bear parents behind it. I think the best way is not to blame the head and face, but to talk to the children and parents very sincerely, so that the parents and children can think more empathetically, understand the reason, and travel with affection. As a teacher, it is still necessary to understand the characteristics of the child's age group and find his bear.

We should look at the conflicts between children rationally, and parents should not participate indiscriminately, but should give children time to think, deal with problems and solve problems.

It's normal for children to fight with each other.

When children are playing, it is normal to fight, many times, we may see such a phenomenon, that is, one moment two children are still playing happily together, the next moment two people may quarrel, no one pays attention to the other, but it doesn't take long for the two children to play together again.

Therefore, if there is no threat to the child's life and health, we can actually wait and see what happens, let the child deal with it by himself, let the child think about it by himself, and let the child deal with it by himself, so as to enhance the child's independence and social ability.

If parents intervene too much, not only will the child lose an opportunity to exercise, but it may also lead to the child's dependence and social phobia towards the parent. When the child encounters the same thing in the future, he or she does not know how to deal with it, and may not think about the solution at all, and unconsciously seek help from his parents. You know, the most important thing to do is to start your child's manuscript and don't choose to seek help from your parents as soon as you encounter a problem, you know?

Although this can make the child cry less, less bullied, less injured, but for the child's growth, but there is no benefit, as a parent, if you can't shelter the child for a lifetime, then we still let the child grow up as soon as possible!

In fact, we should help children to be more optimistic and have a good mood, which is more important than anything else, which is the best way to solve conflicts between children. Teach your child to be optimistic and cheerful about anything, so that she can cope better with various things.