How can parents educate their children correctly?

We will all encounter children's education problems in our lives, whether it is a bystander or our own personal experience, the following is how to educate children correctly.

Change your own education methods You can't get used to your children Give your children the ability to survive in society in advance and excellent overall quality If you get used to him a little bit today, no one in the society will get used to him in the future, then he will be finished.

Discover your child's progress in time and know how to appreciate your child.

Let the child's mistakes be borne by himself, try bedside education!

Verbal violence can ruin a child's life.

Educate children not to blindly scold, let's see how to better educate their children!

Disobedient children are mostly caused by parents who do not understand education, how old are the children, it is better to educate slowly at a young age, but here can be arranged according to the age and different personality of different children to guide and educate children, character determines fate, whether the education of children when they are young is very important, you can't manage it when you are older, and it is too late to regret it.

The methods used by parents to educate their children vary from person to person, but here are some principles for educating their children correctly:

Build trust: Parents should build a trusting relationship with their children so that their children feel cared for and cared for by their parents. This can help children build self-confidence and self-esteem.

Establish rules: Parents should establish rules and discipline for their children so that they understand what they can and cannot do. This can help children establish good behavior habits.

Encourage your child: Parents should encourage their children to try new things and give them enough support and encouragement. This can help children build self-confidence and courage.

Establish values: Parents should establish the right values for their children, so that children understand what is important and what is not important. This can help children develop the right outlook on life and values.

Caring for children: Parents should care about their children's needs and feelings, and give them enough attention and care. This can help children build a sense of security and trust.

In conclusion, parents need to educate their children about trust, knowledge, encouragement, values, and care, which are important factors in helping children build self-confidence, good behavior, and a healthy outlook on life.

1. Cultivate interest. When children are young, learning esoteric knowledge is not the focus, the most important thing is to develop children's intelligence, cultivate their imagination, observation, memory, regret and oral expression skills, which are all paving the way for future learning. We have to start from cultivating Bixian children's hobbies, this time can not be rushed, we must take it slowly.

2. Develop good habits. Good lifestyle habits and the ability to live independently are both important. Developing good habits from an early age will help you a lot later in life.

3. Communication. Don't scold your child when they make mistakes, try to communicate with them and tell them what is right and what is wrong. When communicating, you should lower your mentality, and you should imagine yourself as a child, so that when you communicate with her, there is no generation gap between you, and the communication is very good, and she will be easy to understand what you say, and she can understand that she is wrong, and she will not make a mistake next time.

1. Parents must be good role models for their children. For example, when you want your child to be able to read books for half an hour every day, first of all, you must form a book that you read for half an hour every day, even if you dislike reading books, but you must insist on it and be a good example for your children.

2. Don't just pay attention to your child's performance. Chinese parents generally focus on their children's scores and rankings, and take everything their children can do in order for their children to focus on learning, thus stifling their children's hands-on ability and hindering their children's right to explore nature.

3. Don't spoil your children too much. Nowadays, most families are one child, and the Chinese-style next-generation relatives are really worthy of the name, and grandparents always unconditionally meet all the requirements of the child (even if this request is excessive), so excessive pampering will make the child form a self-centered idea.

4. Encourage and praise your child in a timely manner. When the child is hesitating to do something that he is not sure about, the mother may wish to say to him from the bottom of her heart: I believe you can do it. Timely encouragement will increase your child's confidence.

5. Let children gain self-confidence from success. The way to cultivate children's self-confidence is to let children continue to have successful experiences, because too many experiences of failure often make children doubt their own abilities, and then parents need to affirm their children's efforts to motivate children to continue to explore.

Respect the child's "quibble" – the feedback effect.

Whenever parents point out their child's mistakes, the child will always find many reasons to prove his innocence. At this time, parents will generally angrily call their children's behavior "quibble", in fact, this is not a quibble, but a kind of feedback from the child's parental education.

Education is a two-way street, parents not only have to teach, but also accept children's feedback, so that education can achieve the most perfect effect. However, many parents are not aware of this, they only "teach" by Pei Feng, and do not care about the information fed back by their children, such education often fails to achieve the purpose that parents want.

Analyze and respect your child's feedback.

When a child gives feedback on our education, we must first analyze the child's feedback, of course, this analysis is not only based on the child's language, but also on the child's movements and expressions.

However, it is worth noting that regardless of whether the child's feedback is "quibble" or not, it is important to respect the child's feedback. In the above educational example, when the child said the reason for "the children in our class searched for this", the mother yelled at the child without analyzing the child's feedback, which is not a sign of disrespect for the child's feedback. Therefore, this mother also knows that the child's feedback is really --- and does not think that "you are so stupid" is a dirty word.

It is conceivable that parents misunderstand their children's feedback and suppress their children's feedback, and in the long run, the children will never give positive feedback to their mother's education again. Without the cooperation of children, parents will inevitably have no way to educate their children.

The first is to train children to be good people and good citizens. Children become good people and good citizens, so that parents do not have to worry about their children. For society, it is even better.

If the child does not become a good person and a good citizen, it will cause harm to others and society, and it will also harm himself. That is not only a matter of worrying about parents again, but this kind of worry and worry is more worrying than worrying about raising children, and it will make parents lose face;

The second is to raise children to be non-self-centered people. Children are not self-centered people, but will make their own families happy and harmonious. Whenever there are many problems in a family, there is a lot of trouble, and there are many fights, all of which are related to the fact that one or both of the family members are self-absorbed people.

If one of the members of the family is self-indulgent, it is often the other who is angry and unreasonable. If both parties are self-centered, then the contradictions in the family are irreconcilable, and the end is the disintegration of the family. The disintegration of the child's family is also a pain for the parents.

The third is to let their children have a connotative childhood. People who have had a connotative childhood will let their children have a connotative childhood, and will not use incorrect family education to force their children. Otherwise, people who have not had a connotative childhood will either deprive their children of their children's chics and make a childhood, or they will be angry with themselves because of their children's anger.

Look at the reality, because several generations have not had a connotative childhood, and they do not let their children have a real childhood, which is not only hurting children, but also making themselves angry enough because they will not educate their children correctly.