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First of all, find your own reasons, don't always blindly put the blame on others, see if your personality has changed, whether your own vision of the people around you has changed, become suspicious, maybe what you said is just a coincidence! Don't lose your best friends because of this!
Secondly, if your feeling is right, you are isolated by your friends, then I suspect that you are being said ill behind your back, it is likely that someone has put a dark arrow on you in front of your friends, and your friends have also believed it, if this is the case, it will be easy to solve, no need to deliberately find rumors, over time, you can use your actions to prove yourself, the rumors will be self-defeating, and your friends will see clearly!
In the end, there is a problem with your friend, maybe she just looks at you recently and wants to find fault with you, that is, they don't want to continue to be friends with you, you can talk to them well, if that's the case, don't hesitate, don't play with them, because friends should understand each other, tolerate each other, and support each other. You can go and make other friends!
Friends don't really care much, just see if they can make friends with you, as long as they can comfort you when you are most vulnerable, can share her happiness with you, can help you, and are the most true person to you, then she will definitely be your confidant in this life!
I wish you a close friend soon!
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This is the case between girls, especially little girls, who will have conflicts over these little things.
When we were young, we could experience that a small circle would inexplicably exclude a girl, not necessarily because of something big, it could be that the girl was stupid and easy to bully, or it could be because of irresponsible remarks about each other.
I think the landlord should be a simple, and feel like a bully girl, you should ask them directly why they do this to you, be upright, don't be too weak. There are a lot of times when people just like to bully the weak.
It seems that Xiao A is not a girl with a good character, don't want such a friend, it will only be bad for you, you can have more contact with other people.
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I think it's a problem for both sides! After all, it is impossible for one person to trigger an event.
First of all, look for the problem from yourself, whether it is because of some small problem of yours (a problem that you don't know about) that you have inadvertently annoyed them.
So your friends don't play with you anymore, you should be 15 or 16 years old now, an adolescent in your own right, and children at this age can be stubborn and rebellious. I think I've grown up, but I'm just a teenager and I don't know a few things.
Everyone's principles are different, maybe you think it's nothing, but others think it's something, and what others think is nothing, and you think there's something. So don't think about it anymore!
Secondly, that friend of yours has nothing to make friends with, but don't make the relationship stiff, after all, one more friend has one more way. Remember, when someone says bad things to you about another person, don't follow them, just be a good listener. Don't complain about how good you are to your friends, or say that others treat you badly, because those are all voluntary things that you give, and what you pay doesn't have to be reciprocated to you today, for you, now you can't get her good for you, but you give again, and one day you will find true friends.
A true friend doesn't need to play a lot and don't need to talk a lot, but they will understand your thoughts, understand you, and care about you.
Finally, I hope you can find your true self, live happily, and find real friends.
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Think for yourself, why don't they play with you anymore?
What have you done? What friends have you inadvertently hurt?
They're not good, either. You shouldn't speak ill of your friends behind your back.
You can play with other friends. Not everyone rejects you, it's actually about finding a really good friend. It's much better than finding a group of so-called friends who will only speak ill of you!
Happy to you. It won't be a problem if you don't sing well. You can talk to your friends seriously.
Why wouldn't they play with you. Find your own reason and change it. If they still talk about you behind your back.
Or bully you, then you don't want to play with them.
Play with other classmates. They're really not fit to be your friends.
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Tell you a secret.
Don't tell anyone about it.
This man. It's cheap.
When you take him seriously.
He doesn't take you seriously.
Children. Learn to be independent.
In this world, no one can rely on anyone except myself and my parents.
Don't have many close friends.
One or two will suffice.
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One has to learn to live alone.
When you grow up, you will see the ugly faces behind the people around you.
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Let's look for the problem from yourself, according to what you said, the problem should still be yours, because it is impossible for her to be like this.
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You're playing the wrong circle, just change the circle of friends, trust me.
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Sympathy I'm not so sure.
It's possible that your enemies are making up rumors behind their backs. As for how to solve it, you can get revenge on him or her
If you don't want that.
Find a way to prove that you have been wronged.
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Bear it silently, or write it in a diary. Ask directly to your face the reason why you hate you, maybe it's your personality that has become.
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Maybe you're thinking too much, try to be happy.
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It's still the age of a child, and there are some children's troubles.
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You play, ah.
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Summary. Dear answer for you, what should I do if my friend doesn't play with me? Here are a few suggestions. :
1. Just ignore him. If your friend really ignores you, no matter what the reason, you don't have to pursue it, you can just do what you have to do. In your heart, you will always treat him as your good friend, and as long as your friendship is still there, one day he will come back and continue to be your friend.
2. Make friends and don't press others. Do a self-examination, is it that you are always in the upper hand when you make friends with him. Always suppresses the friend verbally, and the friend just doesn't say it, but he feels uncomfortable, which causes him to ignore you anymore.
If there is, it will have to be changed. 3. Resolve misunderstandings. Go to a good friend and ask clearly, if there is a misunderstanding, it will be lifted.
Extended information: "My good friend doesn't play with me anymore" Reason analysis: 1. Alternative protection methods.
Maybe a good friend is in some trouble temporarily, but it's not convenient to tell you. can only bear it silently alone, and then ignore you, he doesn't want you to get involved in trouble, he is protecting you and doing it for your good. 2. Is there any difficulty?
A friend has to deliberately ignore you because of something. It's not that you have any opinions in your heart, you should think more about your good friends, and don't be angry with your friends.
What should I do if my friend doesn't play with me?
Dear answer for you, what should I do if my friend doesn't play with me? Here are a few suggestions. 1. Just ignore him.
If your friend really ignores you, no matter what the reason, you don't have to pursue it, you can just do what you have to do. In your heart, you will always treat him as your good friend, and as long as your friendship is still there, one day he will come back and continue to be your friend. 2. Make friends and don't press others.
Do a self-examination, is it that you are always in the upper hand when you make friends with him. Always suppresses the friend verbally, and the friend just doesn't say it, but he feels uncomfortable, which causes him to ignore you anymore. If there is, it will have to be changed.
3. Resolve misunderstandings. Go to a good friend and ask clearly, if there is a misunderstanding, it will be lifted. Additional Information:
My good friend doesn't play with me anymore" Reason analysis: 1. Alternative protection methods. Maybe a good friend is in some trouble temporarily, but it's not convenient to tell you.
can only bear it silently alone, and then ignore you, he doesn't want you to get involved in trouble, he is protecting you and doing it for your good. 2. Is there any difficulty? A friend has to deliberately ignore you because of something.
It's not that you have any opinions in your heart, you should think more about your good friends, and don't be angry with your friends.
You can describe your situation in detail, and the teacher can better answer for you.
Dear Are you satisfied with me? Do you still have any doubts?
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1. Social phobia.
Social phobia is a common anxiety disorder, and there are 5 reasons for this symptom: physiological, psychological, family, social and personality. People who suffer from social phobia have certain difficulties in interpersonal communication, show nervous behavior, speak incoherently, are afraid of blushing in crowded situations, sometimes avoid social interaction, and refuse to make friends with others, and this is a very serious social phobia, much like an ostrich burying its head in the sand in order to avoid danger.
The consequence is often that there is no friend around, and of course, a slight social phobia does not matter.
If a person has no friends, there are no more than these 3 reasons.
2. Solitary personality.
Being alone is an ability and a maturity. There is a saying that no one can share your joys and sorrows, and in the end it is all alone. Some people like to be alone in life, no matter what they do, they like to be alone, do not disturb others, and it is best for others not to disturb him, so that they can feel fulfilled and satisfied in solitude, and people who have reached this state have often experienced a lot of things, seen through a lot of things, and have a high level of cognition.
Some may have had the most trusted friends, and then betrayed by friends, they no longer make friends easily, and began to be keen on solitude, cutting off contact with the outside world, then, this kind of solitude is not recommended, you know, people are social animals, everyone can not do without worries to leave, so, solitude needs to be both internal and external, not only one side.
3. Poor character.
Character often needs to be verified by details and time. People with high emotional intelligence generally know how to hide their character problems, on the contrary, most people with low emotional intelligence have exposed their character. There is a kind of person who borrows a lot of money from friends and does not pay it back, and is labeled as a bad character.
Frankly speaking, this kind of person borrows money and does not pay it back, they are all taking the initiative to cut off their friend relationship, in the common saying, it is "lai", no one around is a true friend, and even some lai, even their own kinship (blood) is broken, so, this kind of character is not good, there are no friends, and we don't like to be friends with character problems.
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Maybe it's because of your personality that you started to make others hate in the first place. But even if you slowly change your way and you treat others sincerely, others always look down on you like this. It's okay, people are always so cheap, ignoring people who really want to treat him well.
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