Why does someone you like don t like you, but it makes you happy?

Because the likes in your heart are deceiving yourself, what you can't get is always the best, and the person who lives in your own imagination doesn't feel any real pain, but feels that there is a rush, maybe one day he will like you.

I still remember when I liked a boy in high school, at that time I was happy every time I thought of him, and I would feel so happy in my heart, at that time I actually knew that he should not like me, or that there was no such emotional situation, but because I liked him, I was very happy.

In fact, I know that this is just my unilateral liking, because he looks so handsome, plays basketball so well, and his academic performance is okay, in fact, he likes the kind of girl who has a lot of personality and looks beautiful, but, looking back, I am simply an ugly duckling, how can he take a fancy to me, at that time I silently liked him in my heart, and I didn't ask to say that she must like me, so I will do a lot, I pay unilaterally, I can't feel it, there is no response, I also think I am very happy. Looking back now, I actually feel quite innocent and stupid at that time. As the saying goes, what you can't get is always in turmoil, and what is favored has no fear.

I lived in the intention of liking him all over high school, and I felt that if I liked him silently like this, one day he would like him, maybe it would be done! So I actually have the hope in my heart to do this again, and there is one that I should really like her, so I will do a lot silently without asking for it.

I can't see it clearly, and the effort without asking for anything in return is actually the easiest thing to make people simple and unambitious, and they all say that it is difficult to buy me willingly, and this willingness has already put aside the fact that he doesn't like you. In fact, I feel that I am falling in love with myself, falling in love with the person I imagine, and what I imagine is always the best.

I can live a chic life without you, and I don't have to worry about your joys and sorrows, and when friends occasionally mention you, I may just frown, and then smile casually, and say something that has to do with me. Life, between joys, sorrows, and sorrows. I don't know what I'll meet, and sometimes I don't know what I'm pursuing, I just know that the sunshine is so good, don't live up to today.

The saddest thing is that the person you like doesn't like you, and the person you don't like likes you, but the person I don't like, no matter how much I like me, even if I talk 10,000 times, I won't be happy, and the person I like, no matter how much I don't like me, as long as I talk about it, I'm not happy.

What is a sense of security, is the full battery of the mobile phone the so-called sense of security? The sense of security that your phone is full is just because you are waiting for an important person, chatting with an important person non-stop, talking nonsense, if not, what is the point of whether the battery is full or not for us.

He has high emotional intelligence and understands you, so it never takes any effort to move you. But he also knows how to maximize his own interests, in your relationship, he loves himself the most, and you also ask you to love him the most. You can continue to cherish his kindness to you, or you can choose not to leave, then you will continue to struggle.

For example, when the weather is clear, he accompanies you to bask in the sun. It's raining, and you're the only one in the rain.

Don't think that they like everything you have because people spoil you, tolerate you, and care for you, and you should change it quietly, so as to be worthy of the unreserved favoritism of others. I hope the shoes you buy are the color you crave, I hope you happen to be thinking about me when you dial **, I hope you just woke up when you dial **, I hope that the book I buy is a story you appreciate, I hope you are sleepy when you turn off the lights, I hope that the fruit you buy will always feel sweet, I hope the song you order is what you like to sing, I hope you will like me.

I didn't understand why two people who were originally like glue suddenly became as strange as they had never seen before, but later I learned that once they started to doubt, even if they were small, it was difficult to trust them again. You've felt it before, when you talk a little louder, you feel like you're being hated, and then you just quietly walk away.

It's a cruel thing to like people who don't like themselves.

Because the relationship needs two people to pay and maintain.

When love becomes one-sided payment by oneself, it is very tiring and hurtful, and when you pay so much and do so much, when you meet another her, she is by his side and enjoys all the fruits of your efforts.

That's the most heart-wrenching ending.

If you can, don't like people who don't like you.

Don't believe it, there will be a reward for paying, and you may not be in love over time.

The man who is liked will only become proud because of his efforts and enjoy your efforts happily.

When he meets the person he likes, he will completely ignore your feelings and run away.

In fact, unrequited love is still a difficult thing in general, it is difficult for people to achieve a completely pure love that does not need to be reciprocated, but often if you can have it, then there is nothing to worry about. Because there is no desire for a response, then all the pleasure and pain in this liking will become pure happiness.

It's like chasing stars, people who chase stars probably know very well that they won't get a relatively equal response to like, but the process of chasing stars will be very happy and happy. Because in the whole process of chasing stars, it has become an extremely clear and pure thing, and to a large extent, this side of the matter has become his own fantasy completion, because that person is an idealized person, and seeing him or communicating with him will become a very rare and precious thing, so the whole process is a very happy existence.

It's not the person you like that makes you happy, it's the affection you give that makes you happy. It is because of the existence of this love that this person you like but don't like can make you feel excited, and make you feel unhappy.

I think every one of us feels that way. I like someone who doesn't like me, but the moment I see him, I feel that the whole world is full of sweet taste, and that kind of joy is full of joy that no words can express.

Yes, he didn't give us any affection. But at that time, we felt very happy just by seeing him. When we see him happy, we are happy. When we see his troubles, we try to share them and help him solve them.

When we fall in love with someone and he doesn't love us, we think that we are in love with this person, but in fact we are in love with ourselves. When we decide to let go, it's not that we can't let go of this person, but that we can't let go of the feelings we have paid.

This actually has a lot to do with our own mentality. When we have a good mentality, we will feel that we like each other is just our own business, and we are good to each other because we like each other and want to be good to each other, not to make each other good to us, so at this time we will not have a lot of expectations, and we will not care about how the other party treats us, we are just pursuing the person we like, just being good to the person we like. So in this process, we will feel very happy, and we will be happy when we can see each other happy, it's that simple thing.

How can we not be happy when we are doing what we love?

That is to say, if we can control ourselves and not be so greedy, and not expect so many things that do not belong to us, we can live a very happy and happy life, and we can enjoy the joy of giving. Many times, it is a very happy thing to love someone, and it is only because we want to get the love of the other person but we can't get it, so we feel painful.

Because you'd rather have him by your side than lose him! As long as he can be there for you, you will feel that it is worth it! To love someone is to become very humble, for you, as long as the other person gives you a concerned look, or an ordinary joke, it can make you very happy!

Although the person I like doesn't like me, it's enough for me to like him, and he will be happy when I think about it, in fact, liking someone is probably like that, without asking for anything in return, I will be very happy when I think about him, and his every move has something to do with me, so I will be very happy to see it.

I liked a guy when I was a freshman, and I knew that boy didn't like me, but every time I happened to see him, I was still very happy, and I was the kind of guy who would smile all over his face when I saw him. In fact, sometimes liking someone is like this, even if I know that this person doesn't like me, but when I think about it, I start to be happy, happy, and satisfied.

Sometimes, when you like someone, he just makes an inadvertent action, a look, which will make people uneasy, because you will make up a lot of pictures in your head, and you will wonder if his every move has any special meaning, and whether he will also be interesting to you and have feelings. Probably this kind of mental activity makes people feel happy.