Why do individual parents say everything else, is it not their own responsibility 10

It is a common phenomenon now, and it is impossible to talk about right and wrong, good and bad

Don't be like this, my parents are like this, my parents also care about you, and there are family members who talk about you, just smile. After all, he is your parents, if you don't let your family talk about you, you show your mother a little hard work or something, they will be pleased.

Are you kidding? If you are beaten into the police station, you see if your family will say that you have been a very good person since you were a child! I've experienced it myself.

This is also an incorrect way of education, generally speaking, they are all looking forward to Jackie Chan, bear with it, who let our old people not be cadres of the Education Bureau.

Don't say that, the parents are old, and they are very backward in dealing with problems naturally. Don't be angry, just take their words as if they are in the middle of the story, remember the road ahead, only let them know your good things, don't let them know all the bad things, and slowly scold less. The key is that you should change yourself and see if you have a problem.

But remember, every parent compares their own children to those of others. But they always give the best words to others, but spend their hard-earned money on you for school, for clothes. Why didn't they give it to others?

Someone else is so good, isn't it? Some parents love their children, but it is difficult to express love, the more they love you. The more you want your children to be sensible and talented.

If you are at odds with your parents' expectations and expectations, how can they not be sad, disappointed, and angry? Think about yourself for your hard work, and you are disobedient, who do you scold if you don't scold? To whom do you send your resentment?

Parents, it's not easy. Be considerate. Be more inclusive.

Talk less. It's just that the words they say are not very good? After all, they were born in feudal times.

Makes us angry. Can you still export elegance? That's even more ugly, there will be scolding when there is love!

Since ancient times, China has not been a godfather! Famous teachers are also high apprentices! You look at the people who have become talented.

Ask them when they were young, which family wasn't strict? So don't be too rebellious. They say to you, you can answer, I know, don't talk about me, and go back to your house and lock the door.

They won't say much if they say a few words. Hope you understand.

If you have the ability, leave quickly, I also live in such a family, every day facing their sudden abuse and ridicule, last summer I resolutely went to the south, at that time I was planning to never come back, in fact, I was still hesitating before leaving, but during that time they scolded me from morning to night because of trivial things, most of the night to slam my door to scold me, at that time the nerves were already exhausted, I knelt on the ground and kowtowed to them, I cried and begged them not to do this, at that time I had no strength. They have intensified, my dad thinks of himself as the king of heaven all day long, my mother will be a lifetime because of one thing, every three or five shake out to scold me, two days ago I forgot to lock the door, and then apologized to her (I don't want to argue, and I know that it was indeed my negligence at the time), she still did not give up, and asked "why don't you lock it?!" ”

I really feel inexplicable, didn't I just forget? Even if I say why, can I turn back time to that moment?

If you want to become a better person, you must first stay away from such parents, although it is said that it gives you life, but this way of education is simply asking for your life, you can't provoke you to hide, don't be soft-hearted, people have to live for themselves.

There's a joke about a stupid bird that lays an egg and says to pin hope on the next generation. Comparison psychology, or that they have a strong sense of frustration, do not want a sense of belonging, and hope that their children will be excellent in all aspects and increase their sense of security.

It's also negative, why some people love to talk about it, and some people hate it when they look at children.

Some people are more mature, some people are more childish, and the more mature ones will not pay attention to them, and the childish ones will be very angry.

This root person's mentality is related to psychological endurance, some think it's a joke and won't care, and some take it seriously and are very entangled.

Children in the world are not the same, and parents in the world are not the same, which is related to many things, such as personality environment and so on.

It's right to laugh it off, why care about other people's opinions. Just be yourself.

is also a parent, because everyone has a different view of their children, and education is also different, so the influence of the original family on themselves will be greater, so it depends on the parents to communicate well.

Some things are not what others say, depending on how you do it, others can say what they want, and if you always quarrel with others for small things, it will be boring. If you don't care about laughing it off, the person they're talking about won't have much energy to talk about you anymore.

I think it's a matter of generosity, and it has something to do with their experience, and it's normal for different people to have different attitudes.

Because everyone has their own thoughts, and some people have more thorough thoughts and know what they want.

Everyone's personality and temperament are different, which is normal.

Every family is different, parents are also different, each parent treats their children differently, and each family has its own way of life and education methods.

1 Of course it's not all, just because it's a teacher, it's as simple as that, your family doesn't believe you, you tell them what you have in your heart, let them understand, and communicate with them seriously until they believe you! Seeing your resolute attitude, they believe you back.

I feel the same way, there are many parents who would rather believe in the teacher than their child Yes or no, the teacher is also an ordinary person, and he is not perfect! I think you can boldly tell your parents what you think! If you let it out, it will be worse to hold it in your heart (fortunately, even parents are more open-minded).

Teachers are a profession that educates us, and of course parents will believe it, and of course, teachers are not all right, and he was for our good at the time, thank you.

For the child's learning is good or bad, no

It's a matter of one day. From elementary school, it is necessary to lay a good foundation for learning. The version is in the child's book.

In terms of power, first of all, they should be interested in learning, and the cultivation of interest should be based on themselves, parents, and schools. All three are important.

Because children are young in primary school and have poor self-discipline, they need the supervision and inspection of school parents and the help and guidance when they encounter difficulties.

There is also talent. Some children can learn it as soon as they learn it, and they can understand it at a glance. Some children need to repeat the explanation.

Of course, there are also some special families, where parents have no education, completely rely on their children, and learn very well, which is why they put the quality of learning in the first place. A strong interest is a great motivation for children to learn.

In addition, the influence of parents on children's education is very important for children's learning. Parents reading and learning every day have a subtle impact on their children, and on the contrary, parents playing mahjong all day long have a different impact on their children.

In short, there are many factors for the quality of a child's learning, and the husband and wife should not quarrel because of this, and the two of them calmly discuss how to help the child.

These parents will cause a lot of rebellion in the child's psychology. Over time, children will lose their joy in learning, and such parents are irresponsible to their children.

A child's academic performance is related to many factors. First of all, genetic factors account for a large proportion (including learning attitudes), secondly, the teaching methods and level of teachers, thirdly, the learning environment (school environment, family environment), and finally the influence of parents on children.

This kind of parent is an irresponsible parent. The education of the child is imperceptible, not simple and rude, to persevere, rather than intermittent, if the child's education is intermittent, or laissez-faire, then the child is easy to go on the wrong path.

Parents who don't care about their children's learning are mostly not good at learning when they are studying, they don't like to read, they don't realize the importance of reading, they don't have enough cultural knowledge, and they don't know how to urge their children to study hard. And shirking responsibility is even more irresponsible to children. For the sake of children's growth, parents should start by caring about their children's life and learning, be friends with their children, and care more about him, rather than blindly criticizing and blaming and complaining, if parents only blame and criticize, then the child's academic performance will be worse and worse.

For the sake of children, parents should put down their parents' shelves, communicate more with their children, and care more about them.

This is absolutely not a cultural foundation for parents, there is no family education, and they are absolutely worthy of the bottom family, because they have no ability, and they will not spend time learning dao these things, and they know too little. So stay away from such parents, they will destroy your normal personality and psychology before you become an adult. These people are seriously poisoned by the old society's ideology, and their thinking is limited, and they basically have no brains, that is, a group of fools who do heavy physical and mechanical work, and it is impossible for this kind of person to educate good children, because they are the losers who have been eliminated to the bottom.

On the contrary, children have to carry the already complicated society to avoid being led crooked by such parents. In the end, he was able to succeed, and it can only be said that this kid himself is really powerful. Most of them are still pitted.

After all, garbage parents make themselves more comfortable for that money, and those ignorant feudal ideas are really ruining people.

After reading your description above, when you meet such a father, shirk your responsibilities, you always want to be a ready-made parent, you can't manage you well, and you still tell others that you are not good, and you have a problem with your own level?

I think that when I met this Xiangzi's parents, they shirked their responsibilities, and they always wanted to be ready-made parents, and they couldn't manage you well, and they told others that you were not good, and they didn't admit that they had problems with their own level. Such parents have a bad influence on you, but if something goes wrong, it is you who will bear the consequences, or your future. Therefore, you should think about your own future and manage yourself.

I think you're really shirking responsibility when you say that, whether your parents manage it well or not, they're doing their part to do something. Do you also need to reflect on yourself and what you have done for your parents? Whether you are working hard, whether you are pushing the responsibility to your parents.

They have character flaws, thinking problems, and always have a good reputation for your good, and it is impossible for you as a child to change their minds, or change your mentality!

Some parents have their own character defects and become parents, but parents cannot choose. If you have a problem, you can communicate well, and if you can't communicate, forget it.

No, no, no, no, they are at fault, you should make them feel the feeling of being said badly in front of others, of course, most parents are like this, you can also make practical actions to prove to them, I can, and then a tooth for a tooth, we say in front of your friends that your parents are your above sentence, but you must speak with strength, otherwise you can't say it clearly.

They are a generation that is accustomed to the country, and when it comes to your generation, the country suddenly doesn't care, and they don't have a problem, since they meet such parents, they have to rely on outsiders, don't think about changing them, they are just lazy.

I think every parent has a way of loving their children, although the way is different, but the heart of loving their children is the same, but they don't know how to be a good parent, so that their children can understand their contributions, this is a process that requires your parents to learn more, you have to understand!

Although parents are their children's first teachers, many parents are not able to do it, depending on their cognitive level, and it should not be forced.

You have to rely on yourself in life, so you can complain that they don't understand you, but don't give up on your efforts.

If you don't learn, you can do it from your heart, let yourself do nothing, and what is the benefit of self-reflection and self-study.

Good morning, what did parents teach? What else do you need to learn outside? That's the contradiction.

Parents teach their own house rules. Everything else is taught in society and learned by yourself.

Some families don't have systematic house rules, so scattered parents can tell you. For example, you can't fight, you can't steal things, you have to say hello when you see your elders, you have to take things from point A, and put them back at place A when you are done with them, etc.

After I was able to read and go to school, I learned and mastered it little by little through textbooks, teachers, friends, and comrades.

It's a day when you're happy, it's a day when you're unhappy, and when you're unhappy, your enemies are stealing their joys? Finally defeated you.

I hope it can help you, and I hope to be able to adopt it.

It may just be that parents don't want to take responsibility, or parents feel that this matter is very troublesome and don't want to deal with it, or it may be that they don't have the quality, so they will push the responsibility to others.

Maybe they always feel that it is someone else's fault, and never attribute this fault to themselves or their children, which may also be a manifestation of some kind of selfishness.