He is very diligent, really, is it the reason why women are chased and unwilling to leave him in dif

No, hard-working people hate people the most.

Are those who are fostered diligent? Not diligent... Right, do you say they're cheap?

But a diligent woman may be a bully... But don't do it if you really like people. Be nice to her.

Of course, it is not excluded that a strong diligent woman ...

It depends.

To be honest, I really want to point my nose and scold these hypocritical men, women are diligent and cheap, lazy or cheap, which is not cheap? Now in this society, men and women are equal, diligent and lazy are related to the family environment from childhood to adulthood, and they can't be linked to cheap words, what questions do you ask!

Those who believe will regret it for the rest of their lives.

Well, this question is very tangled! Everything can't be generalized, isn't it said that there is no cheap woman who is not diligent? Besides, who can say clearly the concept of cheapness, what is cheap, what is not cheap, this will be different because of personal subjective judgment, diligence is a virtue!

Don't think about this big brother, it's not clear!

I think it's really cheap, why did you find a boyfriend like you.

Good luck with a lazy bug next time. Tragic.

It's very cheap, otherwise why would I still rely on you.

Feel happy, maybe she's testing your patience.

It's up to you to accommodate her or change her.

Complement each other, two people are really together, what else do you care.

Complement each other, maybe this is fate.

Doesn't it just complement each other Why do you care so much about him Is she still very diligent when chasing her?

I just like her laziness and I like to take care of her.

Just be nice to you, good to your parents.

I don't feel anything, there are a few women who are diligent now.

Kill her in minutes, I don't care how good-looking she looks!!

It doesn't matter, why can't men do anything, I'm afraid I'm tired of my girlfriend.

Convince her, if you can't convince her, just endure it, love the house and Wu!

It's okay, just like it.

I don't know, I'm too lazy to compare with her.

A successful or ordinary man, if he wants to marry a wife and have children, he will definitely take a smart and diligent woman as his wife. and completely covets a woman's appearance. Because a diligent woman is at home, she knows how to clean up and tidy up, no matter what she is in, her environment is as orderly as her.

You're never going to turn your house up and down just to find a file. I won't go home and see the miasma of smoke at home. Because diligence is their habit, she not only tidies up diligently, tidyes up the housework, cleans up the children, and even tidies up your wardrobe like a nanny.

When you rummage through the cabinets, you will be amazed at her ability to tidy up. It's as if she was born very good at these things. In fact, this is just what a hardworking and intelligent woman should do.

Even if she is very tired at times, for the comfort of this family and this man, she will always persevere. Therefore, if a man wants to marry a wife, he must marry a diligent and intelligent woman.

Of course not, marrying a diligent woman does not mean that a man can pretend to be a son or a grandfather.

But marrying a man who is a diligent woman is really a blessing - after all, there will be a lot of real "life chores" in marriage that need to be done, and the husband and wife must have someone to go, and if the woman is not diligent, the man will be tired; At the same time, thousands of years of Chinese customs show that women are indeed better and more patient than men in housework (if not impossible, but most of them), and it is hard to imagine what it would be like for a man to be busy with housework all day.

Therefore, it is a blessing for a man to marry a diligent woman, and he has to steal pleasure.

A woman's diligence is the driving force for her life, if she is lazy all day long, she will lose the big man to clean up, and why should she marry a daughter-in-law, of course, the man can't let it go, and he has to help more or less.

This is related to the problem of men's social status, I believe you also know that men often bear the biggest or even all the problems that may be encountered in the family, such as cars, food, clothing, relatives and friends, socialization, most of the problems need to be faced by men first, because if women are allowed to bear these problems, men will be despised, this is a common phenomenon, it is precisely because men bear the most responsibilities, so there is a diligent woman who can help him share the problem, even a little bit of a woman will make him feel happy, and she does not need to do everything As long as you can share it for him, it's good. It's human nature.

It's not a diligent wife, it's a husband and wife! It's that we think our wives are diligent! We feel comfortable in our hearts! With my wife! My wife cooks and we wash the dishes! Wife cleaning! We do laundry!! It's the happiness of life!

You are complaining, love is great, be more tolerant, complain less.

I don't think there's anything wrong with you being diligent, but you shouldn't let housework encroach on your emotional communication, and you should try to make your life more romantic.

In China, it is okay for a woman to be more diligent than a man, but you can't cause your husband's dependence or laziness because of your diligence, so you should be diligent and skillful, and slowly learn to change, which will be better for you and him.

I'm very happy to see your character. But don't forget to communicate with your husband, people are thoughtful, that is, between colleagues, there is more exchange of ideas, and you feel much closer. What's more, it's her husband?

Therefore, if you are willing to do less housework, you must communicate more ideas with him, care more about him, and he will change his opinion of you.

Alas, these days, women are beautiful and don't go to the kitchen, the kitchen is not gentle, the gentle is not assertive, the assertive is not feminine, the feminine is indiscriminate, the indiscriminate spending is not fashionable, the fashionable is not at ease, and the rest assured can't be seen!

Communicate more with your husband so that he can share some family affairs appropriately. It'll get better slowly.

Do you have a habit of cleanliness?

Remember that your husband needs a wife, not a nanny!

You do this, and your husband still doesn't understand. It's a pity.

There are two main reasons why these women are difficult to chase, one is because they have been sad by the man they love, and the other is that they are not bad for money, financial, and spiritually independent, and they don't need boys.

I have a heart, I don't believe in love, and I value my career more than love. A woman who has a heart does not have you in her eyes; A woman who doesn't believe in love won't easily agree to a relationship with anyone; A woman who values her career more than love is busy with work most of the time.

Relationships are a very complicated thing, everyone has a different answer, according to my own understanding, it should be like this, because I have also experienced a lot of things, and I have been in love many times.

I know a lot of people think that way.

First of all, in today's society, the pressure of survival is particularly great, we must not only learn to work, but also learn to live hard, but also to cope with various situations in the future.

When I go to work, my boss scolds me and supervises me to do my job well. When I got home, I was already very tired, and sometimes I even fell asleep, and I couldn't think about anything else, I didn't want to think about it so much.

Our mental pressure is already very great, especially need someone to accompany us, if someone can be good to us, we will be very cherished, even if that person occasionally makes some mistakes, can bear the bottom line, we will be able to accept.

And secondly! It's not easy to fall in a relationship. If you have been in love many times, in the end you don't want to talk about it anymore, you have to stick to a relationship, don't choose to give up because of some small setbacks, these are nothing in my eyes.

What if I start a new relationship, what if it gets worse than that? We didn't dare to gamble anymore, we were already very scared.

In the end, with the mentality of getting by, everything can be done, I don't want to toss, I am still a teenager, but I have lived the life of an old man.

Everyone is like this, they all say that they have a special Buddha system, a special free and easy, but their hearts are only understood by themselves.

In those dark nights, there was a person who could accompany me, and I was very grateful, and I wanted to repay the favor. I don't want to owe others, wait until I finally have enough of it and can't bear it anymore, and then choose to leave, and now it's not the time for my bottom line.

Some people are reluctant to leave a hurt relationship, that is because he is reluctant to give up, although he feels that this relationship is hurt, but from his heart, he has invested time, energy, and all his youth, so he is reluctant to give up.

There is another situation, she is reluctant to leave, a hurt relationship is because she feels that she is very wronged, she wronged her to fight unevenly, if once he leaves this hurt relationship, it proves that his whole life is a failure, he is unwilling to admit to the world that he is a failure, he was deceived, and he is hurt deeply in this relationship. Therefore, he insisted on enduring the humiliation and was unwilling to leave.

There is also a feeling, she is reluctant to leave, because he still has a glimmer of hope for the other party, and he thinks that the other party may one day change his mind? But such opportunities and hopes are too slim.

Someone is reluctant to leave a hurt relationship. Because these people are more emotionally oriented. So even if they are deeply hurt by their feelings, they are willing to remember this hurt relationship.

Actually, this is a complex that can't be imagined. This kind of plot makes them dwell on the past. Emotions are suppressed.

In the end, it is they who are hurt. I hope that everyone will have a correct look at their feelings. Don't be deceived by feelings.

Don't get hurt by feelings either. Be a clear person. In this way, you can be happy for a lifetime.

The first reason is that I am reluctant to leave a hurt relationship, mainly because I am not willing to give so much, who holds it like this, so I can't accept it in my heart.

The second reason is that although this relationship hurts him a lot, he still loves each other, and he can accept how much hurt the other party gives him, because he likes each other.

The third reason is that the other party once gave him a lot of warmth, he was very happy together, you were very happy, the relationship changed, and typing hurt very much, but he was still willing to stay by his side and was reluctant to leave.

Love is a very complicated thing, so no one else can explain this matter clearly, only the person himself knows best why he wants to stay in it and why he is unwilling to leave?

Why are you reluctant to leave a hurt relationship? Everyone will have a different answer, but this is probably the case!

Because I once loved deeply, even if I was hurt later, I can't forget the beauty of the past, and I think that there will never be such a love that makes me feel like that again, so it is difficult to give up!

It may also be that if you have a child, you think that letting go of this relationship will hurt your child a lot, and you think that you will sacrifice yourself for the sake of your child!

Of course, it may also be the good old days, and I have paid too much, it is an indispensable time in this life, and I am really unwilling to let go!

The so-called authorities are obsessed with bystanders, they don't know that a relationship that has been full of holes can never return to the beauty of the past, and it will be a harm to the children if they are not separated, and it is difficult to have real warmth in a cold home!

Life has to go on, it's better to let it go! One parting and two wide, it is best to be able to bless each other, start a new life without pain, people should not only love others, but also be merciful to themselves, love themselves, it is also a lifelong lesson!

One but no return. There may be complaints. When you give and you don't get anything.

Or should, learn to give up and choose. Otherwise, it will always be you who will be hurt. You hold on to a relationship.

But people don't appreciate it. You have lost your youth. In the end, it is always yourself who suffers.

The person who can't let go of a hurt relationship is often the one who is hurting. Because the injured person is either deceived or abandoned, and is not respected or pampered anyway, the unfinished love is called unfinished psychology. The unfinished mentality makes people have more regrets and makes people want to work hard to complete it, so they can't let go for a long time.

If he or she gave up on the other party, he or she would not be so entangled.

There are always situations in life where men are obsessed with the woman who betrayed them, and women bury the man who abandoned them deep in their hearts. Those who have been hurt in a relationship often return to the relationship without hesitation, and those who have analyzed all the pros and cons and made up their minds to leave often can't help but want to turn back, and even if they really control their behavior, the mind will still desert every now and then to pay attention to the person who has caused harm.

Why people are reluctant to leave when they are hurt.

Speaking of reasoning, everyone understands it, and everyone understands that such entanglements will only bring more harm, and there is no benefit other than straining and sadness. But in reality, often the "victim" has long since left, and the injured person is still lingering in place, as if he has lost his soul. Even the strongest people, who barely control their actions, still take a long time to calm their minds.

Most people can't escape the Gu planted by their own hands, "I just can't help it?!" ”

Why don't people leave when they're hurt? Is it just because of unwillingness? Is that little bit unwilling to gamble with all your happiness?

Needless to say, people want to be happy, and even those who are wounded are eager to be repaired. But subconsciously, we think that if the person who has hurt us can love us and treat us well, then the hurt can be dissolved, everything lost can be compensated, and the mind can be healed. This is also the embodiment of deep psychology.

Perhaps because of this, many people forgive again and again in exchange for hurt again and again. Because we always want to get up where we fell. But the damage of the soul is different from ordinary frustration, and it is often the quality of the person who hurts you, and it will not change because of your change of attitude.

Giving someone a chance over and over again will only make you hurt repeatedly, and the fantasy that "maybe he'll get better" will only get you deeper and deeper.

Caring too much about what you can get, and paying too much attention to the outside world, often makes people ignore the pain and hurt inside. Even if they are sad, many people still don't realize that their already scarred hearts need to be soothed. We all want to care and comfort others, but why don't we want to stop and listen to ourselves?!

Acknowledging that you have been hurt, paying attention to your wounded heart, admitting that you have hatred, dissatisfaction and unwillingness in your heart, accepting your true feelings, and embracing your inner fragility are all "letting go".