I m really depressed right now...

What is the cause of trouble?

In fact, everything is made by the heart. Peace of mind. Everything will be fine.

I will choose to do something that I feel very luxurious, and I hope you can live happily!

If you take things with a normal heart, you won't be depressed.

If I said I was depressed too, wouldn't you be happier?

For your timidity in the exam.

I guess in general.

On the one hand, it has to do with the education of your parents in the family, whether it is too stressful.

On the other hand, you have too high requirements for yourself, and you always want to compare yourself with others, but you can't succeed again and again

1. You don't have a reasonable positioning for yourself First of all, you must have a clear understanding of your performance ability.

Secondly, in the short term, put yourself in this position, don't ask for too high, just seek stability, slowly build yourself confidence, see that you are not worse than others, and you have the ability to catch up!

2. You overestimate the strength of your opponent There is indeed a difference in intelligence between people Some people can get good results without hard work That is a "genius" And the vast majority of people are ordinary people Their results are also obtained through unremitting efforts Maybe they will be better than you in terms of grades But it does not mean that there is a big gap between them and you eg: It is also jade It's just that they have been carved and have fewer flaws The identity of jade is incomparable to stone Don't look down on yourself and overestimate others.

3. As a person who has come over, I can tell you that being admitted to a good university does not necessarily mean that your future development will be smooth sailing College is just a life experience It is a place for people to improve their cultivation level High school is the most rare stage to acquire knowledge Don't take exams because of exams Go with the flow Adjust the mentality of reading.

4. You should also understand the feelings of your parents Don't need them to say more, you should be deeply clear that reading is for yourself, not for others, pay a little and gain a little, don't compare with others, base yourself on reality, and base yourself on ability.

Finally, I wish you a good attitude and get ready to go!

It's normal to be depressed...

Everything is done slowly.

It's not going to be okay all at once.

Self-confidence is something you have to cultivate.

Learning also depends on the accumulation of time to be outstanding.

Many times, although I work hard, my achievements are not significant.

This is why, many people will be arrogant, thinking that they can't do it, thinking that they are stupid.

This is all perfectly normal... You always compare yourself with others in terms of your bad points, and it's strange if you don't lose.

To see your own highlights, if you lose, you will lose, nothing, especially in the exam, there is no necessary pressure at all, the exam is focused, and your own review is not comprehensive, so there will inevitably be a certain loss of points.

You're too unconfident in yourself right now.

If, you want to be better than others.

Then, a new page will be opened, and the past will not be thought about.

Because people who always want to lose by themselves will not win. At least if you have already lost in the opening game, there is no hope of winning.

Therefore, as long as you believe that you can win, you will win. At least, not to fall behind in the beginning.

If you still can't let go of the past, you can say to yourself every day, "I will definitely succeed", "I am better than them" and the like, to improve your self-confidence, this is a long-term process, to the main owner of the building.

Just got a similar question.,Then you can vent it too.。。

1 about 3, 5 friends go to KTV to sing, sing loudly.

2Chat with your best friends, netizens can also (I can too, (*hehe......3 If you love sports, play sports, play basketball, run, and do the sports you like.

5. Watch jokes and watch movies to divert attention.

6. Encourage yourself in the mirror, smile at yourself, and be self-motivated.

7. If you have the conditions, you can travel, feel the insignificance of human beings in nature, and the mood suddenly brightens up because of learning, fear is because of losing to classmates, you can ask your classmates' learning methods to see if there is a problem with your learning methods, it doesn't matter if you lose, you can do your best, don't put too much pressure on yourself, as long as you are down-to-earth, down-to-earth learning, maybe you can't see any progress for a while, you will definitely see the harvest after a long time, no need to compare with others, You can make progress with yourself, so unconsciously, your grades will naturally be among the best, don't worry, don't be discouraged, take advantage of the holiday to relax your mood first, only the mentality is correct, the learning is naturally efficient, and you can get twice the result with half the effort, you can vent according to the above methods, start school and work hard, come on, you must be able to do it! (*Hee-hee.......)

First you have to know.

Reading is definitely not the only way out.

Many, many people who have contributed a lot to the world.

There is no such thing as a diploma degree.

For example, Bill Gates was once the richest man in the world.

He didn't graduate from college.

And then there's the founder of KFC who was a guy who, until he was 65 years old, was looked down upon all the time, who was constantly changing jobs, who was always considered useless by others.

Most of the people with academic qualifications went to work for their bosses.

Many entrepreneurs and small business owners do not have academic qualifications or diplomas.

There is nothing to believe in this.

If you can't get in, don't learn.

If you want to learn in the future, you can also learn on your own.

Do what you want to do.

Don't care too much about what others think of you.

You live for yourself.

Suggestion. Dropout.

Exercise every day.

Be positive about life.

Get a job. Be industrious, not do it for the boss.

It's for yourself.

In society, slowly find something suitable for yourself.

When you set a goal, go for it.

Society will train you.

As long as you have the heart, one day you will find your own strengths.

There is no rule that anyone must be admitted to university.

Be sure to have what kind of achievements at what age.

Remember that a person's achievements are not based on age.

Exercising consistently will help you get out of depression.

If you want to overcome it, if you want to cheer up, you must first think about why you are afraid of learning, why you keep losing to your two best friends.

Think it through.

Regain confidence in learning.

Believe in yourself, you can.

Your self-imposed limits are a bit high! People need to keep pursuing and surpassing! There's nothing wrong with that!

The pursuit of transcendence is a very happy thing, but when you look at all this with a utilitarian perspective (you must pay for it), your originally healthy and open vision becomes dim and distorted! In this psychological shadow you are doomed to collapse! And it's just a matter of time!

Luckily, you'll be able to find out in time to try to change all that! It's a sign of your inner fighting spirit! Because you are convinced that this battle will not end here, there must be room for redemption!

This mindset is positive! And your utilitarian mentality is the culprit of your current distraction! From today on, from now on, you will be able to gradually return to your original course!

Continue your unfinished journey! It's all up to you to change it! Don't be too demanding of yourself!

I wish you to find your lost self soon!

In fact, I am the same, I did very badly in the high school entrance examination. Hurt ......After I went to high school, I started drinking, smoking, group fights, skipping classes, I didn't let me do anything, heh, it's really crazy 1 year, there are no real friends, my classmates run away when they see me, avoid me, I'm very lonely, really, maybe it has something to do with her leaving......Before the high school entrance examination, she left, I had a crush on her for 2 years, and before I could say it, this feeling collapsed in my heart, I felt that I couldn't do it anymore, but time is omnipotent, it can numb your mind, high 2, I began to make up classes like crazy, but I still like to smoke, but I also like rain, they make me peaceful ......

What you care about is always the outcome, and this process is actually not as painful as you think, and you always have to face it.

Many people will be depressed, you can try to write some journals yourself, write down the vulnerability that you don't want to be known by others, and vent it in a diary way, or when you are really entangled, try to run, run hard, I usually vent in this way, it works, and you don't keep thinking about unhappy things, try not to think about it, I hope mine will help you.

Find some Morita** books to read, some things have to learn to accept, you can find your own pursuit, your own existence, and it feels good to find yourself back!

When you are depressed, you need to find someone to talk to or find something to vent. You can talk to your best friend and vomit all the bitterness in your stomach, or you can go out shopping and have a big meal to vent. It's really not possible to find someone to get angry, or find something to fall on.

I think it's necessary for you to go to the hospital for a check-up.

I have a student (freshman in college) who is in a similar situation as you described, and he adjusted himself for a long time without effect, and finally went to Beijing Anding Hospital to check that the result was mild to moderate depression, and now he has taken medicine at home to take medicine** and recuperate.

In a situation like the one you mentioned above, you can't solve the problem by regulating yourself and being a non-professional**.

If you can't overcome the difficulties yourself, you should learn to use external forces to get out of them as soon as possible.

I recently contacted my student and she is almost recovering and will be going back to school soon.

Nowadays, the study, life, psychology and social pressure of students are very great, and many problems are backlogged and not paid enough attention, which will gradually become serious, damaging not only the psychological but also the physical health.

When any karaoke or travel doesn't work, don't do these useless things anymore.

It is wisest to go to a professional hospital for tests and examinations.

I wish you a speedy return to yourself!!

Give yourself some self-suggestion, believe in yourself, read more stories of successful people, or read some books that interest you, distract yourself, and believe that you can do it!!

You're just unfounded. Thinking too much.

You're only 2 years old, and the road ahead is very long, although reading is not the only way out, but reading is better than not reading, in fact, you have no problem at all, but you have been suggesting to yourself: I have a problem, I am depressed, I want to vent. Try to relax, listen to your favorite **, watch a favorite movie, watch some funny**, and treat every exam as a practice.

Ordinary heart ... Don't suffer from gains and losses, and trust that you will be fine.

You are sound compared to those who are born with defects: you are happy compared to those who are born without parents: you are happy compared to those who have no money to study: you should be satisfied

Compared with those who are temporarily stronger than you, I just tell you that if you don't fight for a lifetime, you will regret it for life. Although they are better than you now (and the same thing happened to me), you must not think that you are predestined, and if you do not act, there will be no gain.

Directly recommend your baby to travel.

Hehe, I'm depressed, I'm depressed too, is it useful to be depressed? It would be better to go outside to a place where no one is around and force yourself to laugh twice and watch your favorite sketches.

Listen to a few upbeat songs.

Go out for a walk, get some wind and get some air.