A person who has no family affection at all, who doesn t listen to anyone s persuasion, and insists

The internal reason for the mother's arbitrariness and single-mindedness is a manifestation of the mother's "desire to control", as she grows older, both energy and physical aspects have declined, she is no longer the energetic, let the children rely on the admiration of the mother, in the face of their own multi-faceted "loss of power", what kind of feeling does her heart have, let's guess it, there may be helplessness, and there may be inferiority, in short, compared to the "surprise" in the family in her prime, the mother now has a faint sense of insecurity, but he was unwilling: "I worked hard to raise you, I was your heaven when you were a child, and now you have to, you must listen to me." This is the same as the wife who looks through her husband's mobile phone, because she feels insecure, so she shows a strong desire to control.

Insecurity, and a sense of inner deprivation, gradually contributed to an arbitrary, obstinate mother. We all know that the stronger the inner strength, the more peaceful the performance.

Dear, you want to thank me for reading this! Because after you understand the reason for your mother's performance, you will no longer be hurt by your mother's negative emotions, and you will no longer be distressed by your mother's performance, and you can face it with laughter.

In the face of such a mother, the best medicine is love, if the mother is old, accompany her more, take her out for a walk, or help her beat her back, press the massage, and accompany her more, so that the elderly can feel that everyone attaches importance to her, it is best to insist on giving her a massage every day, and give us full of filial piety and true love to the elderly, you must listen to me, so that you can also feel your mother's love for you, give love and harvest love, that feeling is very beautiful, after all, the most beautiful emotion in the world is family love. What a pity!

Mr. Lao She's work "My Mother" conveys to us such a truth: "If you lose your loving mother, you are like a flower in a bottle, although it still has color and fragrance, but it has lost its roots." Those who have a mother are at peace in their hearts. ”

There is a mother in the flower of our life, there are roots, use our love to dissolve! Don't expect your mother to change, when your attitude towards your mother changes, your mother will naturally change!

I have some suggestions for dealing with family and kinship:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

I have also seen a lot of people from a family like yours, one kind of child is degenerated into the same as his parents, and a child is a child who studies hard by virtue of the superior conditions of his own family, in fact, I think you may not be able to make your parents feel proud of everything you do, so they can only focus on money, who is not a parent. So let's make some achievements on our own, and don't keep staring at your parents' mistakes.