How does a wise woman take when the opposite sex gets along?

When two people get along, stupid women like to pay silently, and smart women are taking.

Interpersonal relationships are complex, and in a relationship, it is even more complicated for men and women to get along.

Under the influence of emotional factors, we will willingly give for each other, because this process of giving is a process that can convey love, which will make people feel happy.

The giver will feel happy, and the giver will also be happy. However, there should not be too much deviation between giving and taking, otherwise it will cause an emotional imbalance.

In a relationship, you must know the relationship between giving and taking, and smart women know how to take because they understand the psychological needs of men.

Asking for it can highlight the value of a man.

When two people get along, a woman's request can often highlight the value of a man. Sometimes, the more language you ask, the more capable you will be of proving the man.

Psychologically speaking, most men have a strong desire to possess and protect, and they want women to snuggle up to them.

It is because of this vanity that deep down in the hearts of men, they want women to enjoy the fruits they give her. This is one of the main reasons why most men choose to work outside the home and not choose to take care of their children at home.

Ask for the key points of the relationship.

When a woman asks for a man, it is actually a recognition of the man.

Sometimes because women accept what men give, they get a kind of happiness in their hearts.

Then naturally he will behave more in behavior, willing to care about you and take care of you, because a woman's request to a certain extent will make a man love you more.

The reason why it is said that those women who give silently are stupid, because they do not know how to weigh the relationship in the relationship.

When the two people get along, she just thinks about her own feelings, thinking that as long as she pays, she can enjoy the other party's return.

However, women must understand that love is a matter of two people, and both parties must have timely communication and psychological understanding.

A woman's taking is an inevitable way of development in a relationship, because in a customary sense, a woman's knowledge of how to take will make a man value herself more.

Because the more energy and time a man spends in the early stage, the more he will cherish it in the later stage.

Smart women usually don't ask men for things directly, but let men take the initiative to give through their own attraction and charm, such as don't hold too men, have your own work and social circle, and maintain a moderate sense of mystery, so that men will continue to spend energy on you, and naturally there will be more giving.

A smart woman will generally take the initiative to be good to the other party, and when she is particularly good to the other party, she can capture the other party's heart, and when she has any ideas, she will give the other party a proper hint, and in this way to ask for it, the other party is also willing to pay.

When the opposite sex gets along, smart women ask for it like this, the first is to ask women to do some small things for themselves, if they make tea for themselves, cook rice, and second, they ask women to remember that they wash themselves well and be able to treat themselves in the way they like.

Ask for a gift. Women are very concerned about the holiday call, every Valentine's Day, Qixi Festival, women are looking forward to their beloved men can give Liang Zheng their own gifts, and Liang but take the initiative to ask for this behavior is easy to make men disgusted.

First, money. Second, let men selflessly give your time and energy. Third, don't leave room for men to be themselves.

If a woman often asks a man for money in a relationship, the man is very disgusted at this time, and it is very likely to leave the scum, so in a relationship, the woman must learn to be financially independent.

In real life, if a woman satisfies both calculation and greed, it will be very difficult for people to get along with, because such women are very selfish, they only consider their own feelings, and they are very weak in terms of feelings, except for interests, there is nothing else in their eyes.

Don't pay, blindly ask, in real life, generally speaking, unwilling to pay is always blindly taking, women are very selfish, and they are also relatively thick in terms of skin, we can see in life that such a woman is not only like this for her family. And it's the same for outsiders, even for the men closest to them.

1.Take a man's goodness for granted, never give, just think about taking. To put it bluntly, you are a human ATM, a handy tool.

2.Whether it is a male girlfriend or Lan Yan or a recognized brother, in short, she is always surrounded by men. There are few friends of the same sex and many friends of the opposite sex. pretends to be very pure, but in fact, he is more scheming than anyone else, and often gains the trust of men by pretending to be innocent.

4.Treat a man, always an ambiguous attitude, neither refuse nor accept, you think she is hesitating, in fact she is just taking advantage of you. After all, such a good spare tire is on the ** to find.

5.It's casual in front of the same sex, and it's like a different person in front of the opposite sex6When you are tired of playing, you will find an honest man to marry, this is the truest idea of many.

In a relationship, women are weaker than men, and a woman's sense of security needs to be given and given by men. But at the same time, women should not demand unbridled demands from men on the grounds of "safety". If a woman cannot restrain herself, she will weaken the relationship between herself and the man, and even worsen the love between them.

So, what should women pay attention to in their daily lives and try not to force men?

Do not go beyond a man's abilities and ask him for expensive gifts. Many people say that the way men spend money on women can prove whether a man's love for a woman is enough. Having said all that, you have to pay attention to whether the other person can afford to spend money.

For example, a man earns seven or eight thousand a month, and a woman asks a man to buy herself a bag of two or three thousand a month, which is a bit much. Your demands are beyond his tolerance. Even if he can promise you once or twice because he loves you, he can't support your long-standing request.

If you can't quit this kind of "taking", it is easy for men to think that you are a "money worshipper" and will gradually withdraw their love for you in the future. Maybe one day, because of your unreasonable demands, he will take you out of his life. Love is not measured in terms of money.

Don't think that the more money a man spends for you, the more he loves you. This "material feeling" can never be equated with love. Of course, maybe you're lucky enough to find a boyfriend who is very rich and loves you, so he'll definitely spend a little more money for you.

Because, in his opinion, it is reasonable to give you better material conditions within your own tolerance. However, there are not many rich people in the world. Even if there were, most men have successful careers after marriage.

So, please don't prove how much a man loves you by how much money he spends on you. Because it's not fair to most ordinary men.

It is a well-known fact that recent college graduates are not wealthy even if they find a suitable job. And the reader's ex-girlfriend, because she is more serious, always likes to compare with other female classmates. Today she told him that a female classmate bought a luxury bag; Tomorrow, she tells him that a female classmate is married to a rich man; The day after tomorrow, she told him that a female classmate bought a lot of expensive cosmetics.

The purpose of saying this is to abandon readers who can't satisfy her, watching others basking in "luxury" in the circle of friends, and taking a few hundred yuan of "cheap" every day, she is naturally unbalanced in her heart. After that, she begins to ask the reader how much money he can spend on her to prove his love for her. At first, the reader was able to satisfy his ex-girlfriend and did not hesitate to borrow money from classmates and family.

But as the number of times increased, the items requested by the ex-girlfriend became more and more expensive, and the reader couldn't stand it anymore and broke up with the ex-girlfriend.

When they were about to break up, their ex-girlfriend angrily asked, "What's wrong with spending me some money?" Don't you love me?

His range of abilities is limited, and his ex-girlfriend's demands are unlimited.

Take the initiative to ask for attention, demand more and more, regardless of the reality of the situation, ask the man to give up his dignity and give her everything she wants.

Usually she doesn't understand men, she doesn't empathize, she just blindly asks, this kind of woman makes people very tired.

Men must abide by certain rules, a boy's future, a boy's ability not to lie, and a desire for a better material life. Ask a man to give you visible happiness.

Take the initiative to ask for a man's money, and take the initiative to ask for a man's love for himself, so that the man will want to leave, because the man just doesn't love you at all.

Always ask men to buy you things, and ask men to pay unconditionally, to be on call, women's personalities are particularly abrasive, and especially dependent on men, which will make men want to leave.

The promise of the opposite sex, the money of the opposite sex, the confession of the opposite sex, these things that a wise woman will never covet the opposite sex.

It could be the money and status that the other party has, it could be the property and other deposits that the other party has acquired.

will not covet the tenderness of the opposite sex, as well as money and filial piety to their parents, and will not always be tolerant, and handsome.

1. Encourage men.

A smart woman is not easy to always dislike her man for not being as good as other men, nor will she always compare her man with other men, accusing him of being worse than others, but will encourage him to learn from successful people. Because she figured it out, the more and more she looked down on her, the more unwilling men were to develop, and they would be more resistant to her, no matter how good a smart woman did with her man, no matter how much she was unhappy in her heart, she would not complain to him. It is said that there is an outstanding woman behind successful men, because they understand how to apply to men, inspire men, and stand firmly behind men at all times, how to make men and make men love themselves more.

2. Be tolerant of men.

Marriage is the integration of two men and women with different family situations, everyone has different educational experiences, and different lifestyles, so women inevitably feel that men have some defects. Stupid woman, I want you to rely on the man's love for him, and make him change. To remember this defect, it is very likely that it has been waiting for him for a long time, and it has long become a habit, and besides, most of the defects are not worth mentioning.

If you have been bluntly asking him to change, once the man has not changed, he will feel that the man does not love him, which is particularly easy to make the man feel bored and seriously harm the relationship between the two people. A smart woman will choose to be understanding and tolerant, because after all, it is just a small thing, and she is not easy to let this little thing harm her own feelings and that of men.

3. Give men face.

Men are all about saving face, especially in front of others. Loving a wife and spoiling a wife is a plus for men, but if a woman relies on a man's spoiling and scolds and refutes the man in front of others when she encounters a problem, it will make the man feel very embarrassed. A man lets you, in fact, it is a manifestation of his love for you, and a silly woman will explain that a man is "afraid" of himself, and will recklessly scold a man in front of others.

A man humbles you, it doesn't mean that a man has no temperament, a woman's heart scolds you comfortably, but the love that a man gives you in his heart is reduced. Slowly, he will no longer tolerate you and let you. Don't think it's the man who has gone bad, think about it, the culprit is you.

Therefore, a wise woman will give a man face, understand how to maintain a man's self-esteem, and can casually damage her own man in private, but in front of others, they will definitely leave room for the man, not only is it not easy to hurt him in public, but they will continue to cooperate with each other to talk and do things with men. This kind of woman, men can regard her as a treasure, and the relationship between them will get better and better.

She will give a man all her love, will take a man to meet his parents, will often prepare some gifts for men, and is a wise woman in doing so.

They will give comfort and care to each other, can make each other feel comforted in your soul, know how to lower their stature, satisfy men's machismo and protective desires, they will give each other respect and trust, and will support each other unconditionally no matter what.

Under normal circumstances, they will take the initiative to give men a sense of security, give men their empathy, and give them long-term companionship and care.

There are men who are very smart and Lu Min, while some men are stupid and only know how to pay. So what do smart men take the initiative to ask for? Personally, I think that in life, it is possible that he will want to AA with you before taking it, he will account for the gains and losses of money, and sometimes he will even let you spend money to buy things for him.

They may ask for a kiss from each other, they may want to know that the other party is clear, and they may take the initiative to ask for some needs.

Smart women are actually very confident, and they also have their own talents, so they can attract the opposite sex.