Don t put too much energy into talking psychology

Is it good to add it after the sentence in the mental learning, it is the meaning of discussion!

I think it's good, because it makes people think about it at the end of a sentence.

The meaning of question, plus a question mark, is the meaning of not understanding things well.

Understood from the point of view of the speaker (not the judge), there are two types of speech that are considered to be without the brain.

The first is "without the brain", which is relatively close to the original meaning of the word: the direct brain, psychological, and physiological first reactions are expressed through "language".

The second is the words that come out after adding the first level of association to the operation of the first type (or the first mental or physiological association, because it is so fast, so fast that you can't grasp the kind of "direct association", so fast that you almost don't think of this association as a kind of thinking).

When this association is positive, positive, and liked, it will be defined as "really quick response, this person is really nice, very brainy, really likable" and so on.

And when this association is negative, unliked, and aggressive, it is defined as "speech without the brain".

Speaking without going through the brain is essentially a natural act of undisguised one's emotions and doing what you want.

The reason why some people don't speak through their brains is because such people rarely have inherent concepts, rules and regulations, and the constraints of rules and precepts in their minds, so they can do whatever they want and speak freely.

In fact, how can you speak without going through your brain?

Any desired action is controlled by your brain to give instructions, for example, if you put your hand in a very hot place, you will immediately dodge it, even if it is so fast, it is also your brain to give you command, we say that someone does not think through the brain, just want to express that someone is not responsible for speaking, it is not good.

Believe in your IQ and definitely believe in your EQ. But if you trust others too much, you often feel that it is okay to say something, but it is precisely the other person's vital point.

To guard against this phenomenon, be skeptical. Learn to be cautious.

According to Freud's theory.

He believes that there are conscious parts and unconscious parts of the human brain.

Speaking without going through the brain should be spoken.

What is to be said is not consciously processed.

I don't think it's that it's that the process is not noticed, and the high-level processing is not carried out.

This is a matter of your sensitivity, insensitive people are often not so delicate, big grin, so some details of the problem is not easy to attract his attention, the other is your thinking function, people with weak thinking function do not think so much when thinking about the problem, it is not that he does not think about it, but can not consider, the other is the brain potential, the brain potential of the medium people think about the problem is relatively simple and direct, not too complicated, and there is a person's control ability, that is, a person's persistence and stubbornness index, People with low persistence also have relatively weak control skills. All of these reasons cause you to speak quickly but not fully thought through. Specific to the individual's situation, it also depends on the distribution of the person's brain potential, if it is appropriate, do a brain multiple potential assessment, you will know the innate cause of the symptoms.

IQ lags behind, or the ability to accept is not good.

Follow-up question: "Someone likes to speak in a limited sentence, and it's clear that he's a bit of a neurotic person. "What does the qualifying sentence mean here,,, can you give a specific example, thank you, I want to know what is the way of speaking the qualifier sentence,, I wonder if you have some misunderstanding of neuroticism!

It's not neurotic to speak in a limited way, it's not to be completely open, to be completely open, for example, how do you feel about the weather today? For example, do you feel good or bad about the weather today? Limited contents.

It is often used to limit the content of the person by asking questions. Follow-up question: So what if there is a person who is a taciturn person himself, but usually speaks in limited sentences, this is also normal?

In general, people who don't talk much tend to think, that is, they often think about problem situations in their heads. Speaking in a limited way, however, is only to confirm whether the results of Yu Yu's own thinking are consistent with those of others.

At the same time, they may have a strong desire to control. This is normal Follow-up question: Well, can you give me a case,,, if it's not the general situation :

I'm sorry, although I have explained a little bit of this stuff, but I haven't encountered a specific case, so I can't tell you.

From this way of speaking, you can't see a person's personality, in fact, people's personality can be slowly understood through the process of chatting. There is a big difference between these two sentences! If a man is willing to look you in the eye and say the words "I love you" seriously, it means that he has a serious relationship with you.

And if he just says "love you" without a subject, deliberately ignoring his role, it doesn't sound so sincere, as if he is avoiding something, and the meaning is self-evident.

The psychology of love.

Second, see how he does it.

1. Treat you unreservedly.

The person who truly loves you is willing to treat you without reservation, can generously show all his strengths and weaknesses in front of you, and is willing to let you into his mind, get to know him and get close to him. He likes to share his hobbies, thoughts, aspects of life, and past experiences with you, and is full of enthusiasm and interest. If he does, it means he trusts you a lot.

2. When you're not by his side.

When you are not by his side, or when you are away for a short period of time, he maintains a certain frequency to send you messages, or shouts to express his concern and thoughts for you. Even if they are not together, they naturally keep you in their hearts and are willing to get all the news related to your Tongbu, which shows that you are very important to him.

3. Help you in a natural way.

A person who truly loves you, who loves the actual you, not the ideal lover in your mind, will not let you lose your original appearance and become another person who is not you. He understands your true appearance, and he will not avoid the immaturity of your personality and behavior, nor will he forcibly correct it, but will make you aware in a comfortable and friendly way that you can accept. Rather than criticizing, he is more willing to get along with you in a healthy way, whether it is a good you or a bad you, he is willing to keep you true and gradually get better.

4. Close up and respect your ideas.

He is willing to help you appreciate the effect of your new clothes, the difference between different bags, the effect of your new hairstyle, and all your joys and sorrows. He is also willing to get your advice and opinions, no matter how big or small, and he is not only interested in his own thoughts, but also pays special attention to your feelings. Maybe a difference of opinion can lead to conflict, but it doesn't matter to him because he loves you – that's the power of true love.

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This is an explanation in psychology of micro-movements, such as hands on the hips, expressing a strong sense of self-confidence and determination to control. People who can't stand still when they stand have an extreme personality, constantly change their ideas and concepts, like challenges, and are typical of practitioners.

Psychology and micro-expressions, micro-movements; Expressions and movements are important body language in interpersonal communication and are key steps in expressing oneself and getting to know others. Micro-expressions and micro-movements are a person's most real inner reaction, which is difficult to be controlled by the mind, and is an important way to directly attack the inner truth. This book analyzes the change code of micro-expressions and micro-movements in detail, so that you can know the behavior code of the other party from the subtleties, so that your reading skills will be greatly increased, so that you have the ability to decipher expressions and body language, so as to be like a fish in water in the communication field.

This situation is mostly seen in people with poor psychological quality, and the body will unconsciously shake when talking in public or communicating with others.

If you can maintain a good mindset, you will be very close to success. In this life, how to cultivate the body and mind and make yourself proficient in the way of state adjustment is a compulsory course for us. With a good mindset, your life path will be much smoother.

This is an explanation within micro-movements, such as hands on the hips, expressing a strong sense of confidence and determination to control. A person who cannot stand still when standing, has an impatient personality, constantly changes his thinking and concepts, likes challenges, and is a typical practitioner.

You're in this situation where you're too casual and don't think about what to say and what not to say. You must learn to restrain yourself from speaking, for example, give yourself a second to think about it before speaking, whether you can say it or not!

From a psychological point of view, it will not be in general, but if you want to know, you can induce, but the premise is that he feels that you are friendly and that you have no malicious intent, and then he trusts you and feels that you are a reliable person, and then you can slowly induce it.

Suppress it, maybe you just want to vent it by talking! It's actually good to vent through talking, but it's not a good thing to talk too much, and it's enough to stop.

You can try to accept and do other things, so that you will find that there are still some things in the world that you are worthy of nostalgia and are beautiful!

In psychology, the love of whispering means that this person is more sensitive, pays attention to details, is not very open-minded, and must be very cautious in doing things, in addition, this kind of person is not easy to trust others, has more things on his mind, and has rich inner emotions. FYI. Because the information you provide is limited.

I think too much, but I don't have enough energy to speak.

Loving to talk is like to express yourself, and liking to be quiet is a manifestation of not being confident in your own opinions;

All kinds of speculation, all kinds of nonsense.

Whispering is a behavioral habit, family, society, and physiology. What causes cannot be formed.

The most unreliable thing is "not confident", does it have a dime to do with it?

Lack of self-confidence, or reluctance to disturb others.

In fact, it is not necessarily, some people who speak with a small voice are more able to take into account the feelings of others, and those who are more gentle and kind, that is, the kind that is quiet and soft is not the kind of chatter, and generally people who speak with a small voice have very good hearing.