How to make friends for children from an early age?

1. Be a good friend to your child: Parents play the most important role in the process of building a true friendship with their baby, because friendship means caring for others, understanding and reacting to social information, and parents are the first to deal with their children. Respond quickly to the baby's needs, deal with patience, and often "talk" with the baby, which is very helpful for the baby to make friends in the future.

2. Cultivate children's communication skills: Parents should let their children learn communication skills, and pay more attention to communication skills when making friends with others. It is inevitable that there will be various problems in children's interactions with friends, and they should be carefully observed and given guidance.

At the same time, it is also necessary to teach children to be more kind to others, start from greetings, learn to appreciate and praise others, and try to express themselves tactfully when encountering problems, so as to enhance the goodwill of the other party. Parents can also play games and roles with their children, imitate their children's daily friendship activities, and give them proper guidance.

3. Encourage and guide children to make some like-minded friends: If children like football, parents can take their children to the football field, participate in kickball classes, and find friends who also love football to play and chat with them; If your child likes to draw, you can encourage your child to spend more time with classmates in the class who love to draw, or go to a children's art exhibition, go to the Children's Palace to study, and communicate with children who are better at drawing than themselves**. Like-minded friends can let children taste the tacit understanding and happiness of friendship and improve their own level.

4. Be a good example for your children in making friends: As a parent, you must make reliable friends, set a good example for your children, and have a good impact on your children through your own exemplary role. Adult interpersonal skills are often role models for children, and if parents have qualities such as enthusiasm, helpfulness, and honesty, children will inevitably learn from you.

1. Create conditions

Babies don't make friends naturally, and now babies are only children, and they usually come home by themselves. A baby can only enhance friendship if he is often with his friends.

Therefore, parents should match their babies with friends, such as dealing with neighbors more, inviting children to play at home, taking children to play in parks near home, and socializing with families with children of the same age in relatives.

2. Let your child choose his own friends

Parents generally want their babies to make friends with good character and learning, but in fact, babies don't know how to tell. Parents should not force the baby to cut off the relationship with children with bad behavior habits, but should guide the baby so that the child can distinguish which friendship is worth it and which friendship is not worth it. For example, if the baby has a friend who likes to argue with others, his living habits are not good.

When I go to the house to play, I go to the kitchen to get something to eat without permission, and I rummage things around. Parents can offer their opinions to the baby, but never force the baby to stop associating with the friend. Soon in the contact, the baby will personally feel that this friend is arrogant and vulgar, and he will no longer want to come and go.

3. Respect the child's character

Babies' social needs are also different, which is related to their natural personality. Making friends is not about quantity, quality is the most important thing. A friend who is suitable for the baby, even if he only wants to let one go, it is enough.

4. Cultivate children's interests

If you can't swim, you won't be invited to swim; If you can't dance, you won't be invited to the prom. If your baby has some strengths, it will increase their self-confidence and provide them with the opportunity to meet new people.

Friendship is based on common interests. If your child doesn't have many friends, develop a wide range of interests. In this way, friendships can be established between friends and trillions in the activities of participating in and returning to the bureau and together.

5. Parents should be good role models

Parents who remember someone's birthday and arrange a party with friends will learn a lot from their interactions with friends by telling their babies how to build friendships with their friends.

In many families, listening to others and caring for others is passed down from generation to generation as a family motto. There is no more precious gift than friendship. Wuhan Tutoring Network reminds parents that under the long-term edification of love, patience and warmth, parents can accept and learn these methods for their babies.

Parents should guide their children to find friends.

If your child wants to make friends, then you can give your child some specific guidance on making friends. For example, you can start with classmates near your seat, and look for those who are more cheerful and easy-going to take the initiative to talk to them.

You can start with a lesson that the teacher has just attended, ask something you didn't understand, or check the homework that the teacher has left. Tell your child that if he feels nervous about speaking for the first time, prepare a sentence or two. If the classmate is not very enthusiastic, then you don't have to worry, it may indicate that the other person is thinking about something else.

It is also necessary to tell your child some communication skills, such as being enthusiastic and generous with classmates, and trying to talk about topics that everyone is interested in. Don't tell right and wrong, don't demean any classmates. Actively participate in group activities, help students more, slowly deepen their understanding, and let more students understand themselves.

The most important thing is to tell children that even if their academic performance is not very good, as long as they are kind and enthusiastic, they can make friends.

Parents should also guide their children to do some reflection and find out the reasons from themselves, such as their behavior makes others hate and they don't know, they can't accept their classmates if they speak too bluntly, they are hungry and stingy and selfish and their classmates don't like it, etc., after finding the reason, parents guide the child to correct, and he will be easier to socialize with his classmates.

Note: It is necessary for parents to give their children specific instructions on how to make friends, but do not specify who your child wants to play with and who not to play with. Some parents are afraid that their children will not make friends carelessly, so they subjectively decide that their children should play with children who study well in the class, or play with children with good family backgrounds, and do not allow children to play with children whose academic performance is not satisfactory or whose families are relatively poor.

In fact, there are good children with good academic performance and good family backgrounds, and there are also problem students, and some problems are very serious. Therefore, it is unwise to use these as criteria for making friends. Children tend to make friends more simply, and they play together when they get along.

Therefore, what adults have to do is to roughly check it, as long as the quality of the child's relationship is good.

1. Encourage your child to go out and make friends.

In the case of safety and filial piety, let the child socialize independently as much as possible. Children will become the "protagonists" when they go alone, which will naturally inspire children to think about how to socialize. You can let your child invite friends of the same age to come to your home and let your child get toys, books, candies and other things, warmly receive partners, and play and communicate with others.

2. Create opportunities for children to participate in group activities.

When children work together with others, they will learn to magnify the strengths of others, form a sense of unity, and at the same time, they will be able to take better care of the emotions of others, and will not be self-centered in everything. Be good at guiding children to understand the importance of mutual respect and humility, and solve problems in a friendly way.

3. Parents can often let their children complete some things independently.

For example, shopping, asking for directions, meeting new people, etc., can also improve children's communication skills when they are in contact with others.

There are many ways for elementary school students to make friends, so let's introduce the following types of morning socks

1. Parents should correctly guide their children on how to interact with their friends, communicate with their children in a timely manner and discuss their needs and confusions;

2. Parents should understand the needs of their children, because each child's needs are different, and some children may have one or two friends who play very well;

3. Respect children's own choices, actively guide, don't interfere too much, etc.