A man says he wants to buy something for you, how can you be better?

Updated on technology 2024-03-05
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No matter what he buys for you, smile and decline first! If this man really loves you, he must be choosing a gift with good intentions, and wouldn't it be better for him to beg you to accept it.

    A woman must learn to be shy and noble, if he really wants to send you, he will definitely tell you again, and when you promise him, everyone will be very happy. This is also a good way to test whether the man is sincere in giving you a gift Accept his heart sincerely, if you refuse it, he is not mentioning it, then this gift is not accepted!

    Worried that their girlfriend didn't like the gift they gave, they were more pragmatic and practical, and they respected their girlfriend's opinion when they asked. Of course, I agree, there will definitely be this kind of boy, just like a comment said, no one's money is blown by the wind, and it's not good to waste money after all.

    Some boys are worried that the things they buy are very expensive and their girlfriends don't like them, so they really need to be observed more. I can only speak for myself in this regard. I don't accept expensive gifts, and even if I do, I will give them back.

    Another answer is that boys just want to move their mouths and don't want to take action. Always thinking about giving you a gift (in fact, just moving his mouth), he can talk about it when he is looking for something. I don't particularly want to say anything about this answer, just one sentence, break up.

    When you fall in love, you are so insincere, all kinds of routines, stingy, too risky, please consider carefully.

    Although money is not the only measure of whether a person loves you or not, if he refuses to spend money for you, then he may not love you that much. Generally, when you ask if you want to, it means that I hope you refuse, but the boy is not stupid, he just doesn't want to buy it for you. There are so many excuses for that.

    If he really wants to buy it for you, he will buy it directly, not so much nonsense, and a guy really loves a girl and will be willing to spend money for her.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you need it, just tell him thank him, if you don't, say you don't need it and thank him!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Thank him, express great appreciation for his generosity, and then find a way to give him a little gift back, so that he also feels loved.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Look at what that man has to do with you.

    If it's that man who wants to chase you.

    It depends on what you mean.

    If you're not interested in him.

    He politely declined.

    Otherwise, he will be blind.

    If it's a friend in general.

    It can be appropriately accepted according to the ** of the item.

    It's best not to accept gifts that are too expensive.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Whether you want a man to give you something or not, your best reply is thank you, I don't need it. As for whether men will buy you things, and how many things they buy you, that's a man's business.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Men are rarely sincere, and they are usually tempted or deceived.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Who is this man? Are I in love with you? If you are in love, of course, you can let him buy things, otherwise you can't accept other people's things, that is to say, if you eat other people's things, you will have a soft mouth and short hands on other people's things.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

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    The boy said how to buy you delicious food, if you like him and want to continue to associate with him, you can reply like this, I hope you buy me a lot of delicious food, the world is better enough for me to eat for a lifetime!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think it's actually quite a normal thing, and there is no need to be particularly resistant. It's normal for you to want to say no, but don't think too much about it.

    Your boyfriend asks you to buy him clothes and things, which is divided into two situations, one is that he bought it for you before, or you asked him for it and missed it, and now he asks you to buy it, then it's just too normal, if you don't plan to break up, it's better not to refuse casually, otherwise it will break his heart. You make him feel that the relationship is unequal, and he gradually stops loving you.

    The second is that he didn't buy you anything, but asked for it. Your boyfriend probably wants to enjoy the feeling of his girlfriend buying something for him, and more importantly, he wants to enjoy the feeling of "if he doesn't buy something for his girlfriend, his girlfriend will buy something for himself first".

    If what he asks for is not very expensive, he can buy him a try, and then the boyfriend may have several reactions:

    1.I'm more clingy to you and love you than before. It shows that he just wants to enjoy you and spoil him, and the little thing you bought is definitely worth the price for the relationship between the two. If you feel that you are at a loss, you can also ask him for something, in which case it stands to reason that you will not be refused.

    2.I'll give you a gift right away. It shows that your boyfriend doesn't want to take advantage of others, but he has a good face and wants to be the one who receives the gift first in the gift exchange, so that he is valued, and in most cases, your boyfriend's return gift will be more expensive than what you send, at least **approximately.

    3. Without any feedback, but continue to ask for something, keep looking for something. It means that you are treated as a financier and a wallet. What you want to do after that is entirely up to you.

    Of course, since others ask you for it, then you have the right to refuse, you can refuse directly, the simplest way to say is "not good", a sentence of "not good", neither seems blunt, but also does not appear strong, but also expresses what should be expressed.

    Or you can put forward conditions and let him call a good sentence or something, depending on you, you can take the opportunity to play tricks on him, if you don't want to be straight.

    Human dignity, which is also a good way to warm up the feelings of a couple.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    How can a man who has been married next to Li Qi ask you to buy clothes for him, you can say, I have never bought clothes for men, I am afraid that it will not disturb the silver if I buy it, the clothes on your body are your wife's, your wife's vision is so good!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can say no outright. Or you can say it's inconvenient, ask your boyfriend to pick you up, etc.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The man asked you to buy him clothes, are you sure you want me to buy you clothes? Your boyfriend asked you to help him buy clothes, which shows that he agrees with your vision very much and thinks that the clothes you bought for him are good, so he will let you buy them for her, you can reply to him like this, let me buy Kezi Lu boring, but I need to pay for errands For lazy friends, I always ask you to help him wash clothes, in fact, under normal circumstances, if you want, it is normal to help your boyfriend wash clothes, after all, the traditional concept of Jiwan is that women do housework and wash clothes This Xihong problem first depends on who pays for it as soon as possible. If a man wants to eat soft rice, then basically this man is unreliable, you expect him to give you a good life, it is impossible, break up as soon as possible.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If a man tells you that he planned to buy something, but didn't, you can reply in the following way:

    1.Ask why: First, you can ask him why he didn't buy the thing. It may be that he has a legitimate reason, such as forgetting, lack of time, better options appearing, etc. If you can understand his situation, then you don't need to be too harsh.

    2.Express disappointment: If you're disappointed in a man's slipping out of stupid promises, you can tell him how you feel. For example, you can say that you are expecting him to deliver on his promise because you are expecting something from the item he bought.

    3.Come up with solutions: If a man doesn't deliver on his promises, you can offer some solutions. For example, you can offer to buy the item yourself, or suggest other alternatives.

    4.Emphasize trust: Finally, you can emphasize your trust and expectations of a man. If you believe that he intended to fulfill his promise, then he should try as hard as he can to achieve it.

    Whichever way you choose, pay attention to your attitude and tone of voice when you respond to the criticism to avoid hurting the other person's feelings.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The man said that he bought you something but didn't buy it, and he ignored him, this kind of person doesn't count, what do you say to him, if he pesters you, then you ask where the thing is? Did you lose it on the way?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Didn't you say you bought something, why haven't you bought it yet, or said that you have bought it, but you haven't given it away, and a lot of times it just takes a moment.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. 1.Thank you very much for your recognition of me, I also think the things I bought are quite beautiful, because I only bought them after doing the strategy, and the things I bought were more useful to me.

    1.Thank you very much for your recognition of shouting socks, I also think the things I bought are very beautiful, because Zheng Qi did a strategy for me to buy, and the things I bought are also useful to me.

    2.No, I'm just buying something I like, and if you like it, I can share it with you, or you can pick up something you like.

    You can reply to him like this, in fact, I think you can buy more and more beautiful things than I do. I should learn more from you. In this way, it will improve my vision of buying things, in fact, I am buying things well now, and you also have half the function.

    I won't buy anything. Under the guidance of Wu Lao, I have a sense of accomplishment more and more! That's why I'm going to have to walk around with you more often in the future.

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