What should I do if I feel that my parents are not visible?

I think this sentence itself is wrong, and it is impossible for my parents to be unpopular. Because everyone's parents are different, everyone's parents are unique, and it is impossible to be unsightly. If it is really his own parents who have an unsightly situation, he should start with his own children, whose children did not use their own reasonable ways to let their parents appear in front of others.

If you feel that your parents are not good, you need to make them feel confident and don't let yourself feel too low, because this is always bad.

I feel that my parents are not good, so I should change my thoughts and concepts, my parents have left the best things for us, and we dislike them, which is a very wrong kind of thinking and behavior.

Parents are the parents who gave birth to you and raised you, and you are not qualified to dislike them. Think about what they did for you, they were not willing to spend money on clothes for themselves, and gave you all the money, and you still feel that they are not ashamed?

As for the unsightly words of my parents, I feel that it is better to say to some of my own parents that she should respect her parents and should not have such thoughts.

If I feel that my parents are not in sight, then I should discuss the seriousness of the problem with them and persuade them not to do so.

If you are talking about your own parents and family, I feel that in the first battle, ten days is to exercise some of your own ways of doing things, and your behavior is more important to your parents.

Is it dear! Every parent hopes that their children will become dragons and phoenixes, and the children are good This is what parents expect, which is incredible.

Maybe it's because your mind has changed, and I don't think it's possible for every parent. I don't want my children to be good if, I don't want you to be good, I think it's definitely not my biological parents or. You are adopted.

Those who are held will also have feelings. Maybe it's because you think differently, think about it from a different angle.

It may not be that your parents don't want you well, just that he may want you to do better, or that he wants you to be more down-to-earth and less impetuous. Because some parents may not be able to say that, even if they are very clear with you, then you may think that they are not very good to you either. But if you can get to know it well, maybe what they think is not quite the same as what he does.

We are all pursuing a better life, wanting to grow faster than our parents age, and wanting to mature and become strong as soon as possible, so that we can protect the people we love. Sometimes, however, it doesn't always work out.

The other party's parents don't look down on themselves, so they can do this.

Communicate with the other parent to understand your own shortcomings.

The reason why the other party's parents look down on themselves is mainly because they have some shortcomings, and these shortcomings make the other party's parents feel at ease about handing over their children to themselves. In the face of this situation, then I need to reflect on whether there is insufficient communication with the other party's parents, and the other party's parents do not know the real self, so they will not look down on themselves.

You can make an appointment with the other party's parents to go to the restaurant for a meal together. Many questions can be brought up at mealtimes, and during meals, you can take the initiative to talk to each other's parents about yourself and introduce the most authentic self to each other's parents。Only after understanding the most authentic self will the other party's parents discover the shining points in their bodies, and it is possible to finally agree to the marriage.

Be kind to the other parent, so that the other parent can increase the other parent's good opinion of you.

You can choose to give a little gift to the other party's parents during the Chinese New Year, or often go to the other party's parents to help. These small actions can increase the other parent's good impression of themselves, so that the other parent feels that they are a good person, so that they will believe that they will be good to their children in the future married life.

Let her object convince her parents.

As long as two people really love each other, and the other party can perceive that they are sincere to her, then this relationship will be more than half successful. Her partner will tell her parents that she is good for her, so that her parents will believe that they are really good to her, so that her parents will also change their original opinion of herself.

Questions to think about when the other parent's parents don't accept you:

1. Are you ready to suffer?

First of all, we need to be able to understand why the other person's parents are against you. Because they see not love, but bread in the future. It's a very realistic thing, you can't say you only have love and no bread. Parents can't bear to let their children suffer with you.

2. What should I do if the man's parents disagree?

Not only will the man encounter the disapproval of the woman's parents, but the same woman will also encounter the disagreement of the man's parents.

The man's parents will come up with various reasons to break you up. For example, the eight characters do not match, the fate of Rickfu, the height is not enough, the appearance is not good, and the rules are not understood.

In short, he can only say all kinds of reasons if he can break you up.

Then in this case, you have to make it clear that you are not dealing with the other person's parents but your boyfriend.

Some men are mothers, and they have to listen to their mothers for everything, according to Brother Quan's ideas, such a man doesn't care, but most women actually have no choice.

So you can only find a way to get your own boyfriend, how to get it is a technology, not to let your boyfriend conflict with his parents, but also to make two people achieve positive results.

If you do have a hard wound that cannot be repaired, then it is best to prepare for the end of the relationship.

First of all, the opinion of the parents is not without merit, because in their opinion, this man is not a good match. That's right, you haven't done anything unreasonable, and you don't have a big problem of right and wrong. However, there is a high chance that you will not succeed in maintaining your marriage in the future.

There are many reasons why parents dislike, and we must find out the reasons and try our best to correct them if we can.

Therefore, his career is likely to be not good in the future, and in turn he will become a person full of complaints and anger, such a person cannot be very patient and loving to his lover. So I think you should carefully consider your parents' opinions.

In fact, there are many now, the bride and groom are from the long-distance relationship, there is a good saying, I don't know if you have heard: "long-distance relationship is a lifetime, but it can't survive for a while" But I believe that the word long-distance relationship, in the eyes of many people, is a word with little success rate, indeed, because both parties are not visible, intangible, to maintain this relationship, very hard, not a long time to start a long-distance relationship, may be in the end both parties will be in a process of mutual suspicion.

China is so big, there are all kinds of ethnic cultures in every place, in the hometown here, the uncles and aunts here don't want their daughters to marry far, so if you come to the time to talk about marriage, when you go to meet each other's parents, you must have some preparations, you must first talk to your girlfriend and boyfriend clearly, what gifts to visit, you must understand clearly! This is the first step to prepare!

After the first step is done, the second step is to choose a time to visit the other party's parents, and then try to do one, so that the other party's parents feel that you are a very sunny and cheerful boy, the most important point is to be diligent and polite, if there are friends here who are smoking, go to the other party's parents' house to smoke as little as possible, because the smell of smoking is too strong, so that those who do not smoke, smell very uncomfortable, try not to be good!

In fact, the third step is similar to the second step I just said, if the other party's parents have to leave you at home to eat, kind words still have to be said, after all, it is troublesome, if you see the other party's parents are busy, you have to take the initiative to help, if people say no, you can say: "It's okay, Auntie, I usually help my mother at home, get used to it", at this time the impression of the aunt is basically very good for you, and the woman's father has a habit of smoking or drinking, You can use this to say: "Uncle, I just have a friend who is abroad, and the wine over there is very good, next time I ask my friend to help me get some, and bring it to you to taste when the time comes", so that it is okay, that is, to promote the relationship between you and the other party, and you can come to the other party's home again, wouldn't it be better to have one more opportunity to express yourself?

When you meet your parents, you have to disguise yourself very well, very well, pretend to be strong, distangle not to pretend to be a little bit of success, and pretend to be the kind of very, very deep successful person. If the other party's parents don't like these, these people pretend to be the kind of people that the other party's parents like, and these families have become a drama in life, and it all depends on your acting skills, and this is the time to squander your acting skills, and the time to fly to show your acting skills. Before you go to meet their parents, for the sake of your girlfriend's parents, first make these batteries better, first imagine yourself as a very deep color, first get ready, first buy some very beautiful clothes to wear, pretend to be the things they need, such as those real estate certificates, those car keys, those BMW Mercedes car keys, those very high building real estate certificates, very rich real estate certificates.

If you still don't like these things, then you have no choice but to give up on him. As the saying goes, there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower, there are everywhere in the world, there are people you like, rest assured.

The reality is like this, what should you do if you ask someone else such a question, it is impossible for everyone to help you crowdfund and marry this woman. I can only say one thing. If he doesn't give you time, it will be tantamount to people who are unwilling to gamble their youth on tomorrow and can't see the hope of the future, so let go and work hard to move bricks.

Many people always have this kind of problem, asking others what to do, and you can do what others say. Even in reality, many young people have to deal with each other's can't afford to pay each other, so they empty their parents' pension money, and it is a matter of course, which is simply inexplicable. Don't tell me that you will provide for them in the future.

In real life, if you go and visit casually, how many children are particularly filial to the elderly. This phenomenon is a common sadness in China. Many people empty their six pockets just so that their children can get married, but they didn't expect that they would break up for financial reasons after marriage.

It's been a lifetime of tossing.

If you want to be looked up to, you must first look up to yourself. It takes courage to bow your head, it takes strength to look up, it's as simple as that.