What should I do if I am 20 years old and feel that I am not beautiful?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-04
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I am a person who has come over, reminiscing about the past, looking forward to the childhood when I was small, and I found:

    Around the age of 20, it was an ignorant era, not only myself, but also between men and women, they would feel that they were not beautiful, and they were very helpless. Because everyone is "talking" about the stars of the entertainment industry, although the cultural and entertainment resources at that time were very poor.

    This problem naturally subsided after many years, and the facts tell you: men are not handsome and ugly, but attractive; Women are not pretty, but temperamental. You don't see:

    The old cow eats the tender grass, the ugly man hugs the beautiful woman, and the flowers are inserted in the cow dung. And charm and temperament are the accumulation of life, what is life? Down-to-earth work, gain survival experience and coping solutions at work, get a good income, plan a good spare time arrangement, do meaningful things, and get some ways to treat people and things, charm and quality improvement, this is the best solution to "feel that you are not beautiful", this plan is effective for a long time, don't believe it?

    The official can look around, and everything will be verified, that is: you can't see it!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The importance of appearance depends on the way and degree of your connotation, if you have a good performance in doing things, words and deeds, and cultural literacy, your appearance will seem insignificant, which is the so-called personality charm. The more a person's connotation is revealed, the less important the appearance becomes.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, keep a good mood and be confident, confident girls are the most beautiful! Then, study hard, enrich your self-cultivation, enrich your inner self, and your temperament and talent are more long-lasting beauty than appearance.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, compared to the appearance, the inner self-confidence is more important, too much attention to the appearance will make people feel inferior, in fact, you should pay more attention to your inside, after all, good-looking skins are everywhere, and the interesting soul is one in a million.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you think you are ugly, you should try to make yourself rich, both mentally and materially. This way, you don't need the opposite sex to feed you and you don't feel too lonely.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't be blindly confident, don't have no confidence in yourself, your appearance is not absolute, if you want to change, you have to work hard, learn to dress with bloggers, learn makeup, and change.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Appearance is not the only criterion for measuring yourself. What is more important is that there must be connotation and real materials. For example, if a withered rose is carefully wrapped in pink paper, isn't it a withered rose?

    In today's society, %90 is not judging people by their appearance, so don't look too much at your own appearance, the important thing is the connotation.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There are many girls who are not beautiful, study hard, enrich themselves, and have poetry and books in their stomachs.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Learn makeup, improve clothes, **, after all, this is the least expensive way to become beautiful in addition to plastic surgery, if you can't do it, then it's ugly.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It is often said that being beautiful is not a good thing, and it can't withstand the slap in the face of the world.

    If you have an OK face and figure, but you don't think you're pretty, your temperament hasn't kept up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    So many people have said a lot of big truths, I believe that you as an adult understand these truths, I as a person who has worked hard in the social workplace for seven or eight years will not say these truths, I will tell you a truth, that is, use everything to make money, as long as it is not illegal, not at the cost of health, in this process you will find that when you transfer more money, the more beautiful it will be, in this process you will heat yourself up to improve some aspects, these are all money, this is not to go into detail, in short, the richer you are, the more beautiful you are, those who shout that it is good to live an ordinary life for thousands of dollars a month is a joke, you think about it yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Men feel that they will lack nothing when they have money, you can also learn this sentence, you have money and ability, you can buy anything you want, and you can do everything you want. Strive to improve your ability and money, oh, by the way, it's best for women not to be a love brain, once the love brain is basically hopeless.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Look at the ugly ones and you'll feel much prettier.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    At the very least, you're wise and self-aware.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Miss N, don't care so much about your appearance.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Self-confidence is the true beauty.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Temperament determines everything, full of poetry and calligraphy. An interesting soul that has nothing to do with physiognomy is unique.

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