Let s talk about it, what is the life of the exquisite people around you?

My younger brother, who lives more delicately than me every day, skin care products, cosmetics, ** is more complete than me, and he will make an appointment with his friends to run every night, and start to remove makeup and skin care after he goes back. I never eat oily, spicy food, and I go to the gym regularly. I'm a rough guy compared to him.

In the past, a neighbor was a grandmother, thin and small, particularly energetic and capable, a family of three generations and five people lived in a house of more than 60 square meters, the house was well organized, clean and delicate and warm, and the cooking was also very, very delicious. The first time I went to her house, I was shocked.

In this regard, I admire my boyfriend very much, he is so busy every day, he gets up at ten o'clock in the morning, works until two or three o'clock in the morning at night, and can ensure that he takes a shower twice a day, cleans the house every day, cooks and eats by himself, exercises every day, and can also use his spare time to play vinyl records, buy alcohol, do **, do photography, and play games.

There is a woman who loves health very much, it is said that even in summer, she never drinks cold water, it is all lukewarm water, and even when you wash your face in summer, you must wash your face with warm water, and you have to go to square dancing, 365 days a year, there is basically no special situation and it will never stop.

I know an aunt who is quite beautiful and dressed very decently, and it is very important that all her clothes will be ironed and hung up after washing, and she will never buy clothes that are too fashionable and not suitable for her.

Energetic plus self-disciplined. A friend is a university teacher, and he has a morning class, a meeting in the afternoon to add and correct homework until 7 o'clock, and a Latin class at 8 o'clock in the evening.

I will apply ** every day, and I won't stay up late every day, no wonder people's ** is so good, the key is to live exquisitely.

I have a friend who washes his hands directly after washing his hands in summer and winter, and never stops. Look at yourself again, sometimes you forget even when you wash your hands in winter.

My former roommate, although he looks a little bit like that, is super nice. She was the cleanest girl in our dormitory, and now think about who married her! She will bring the dishes at home to us with a thermos cup every time, her family is a restaurant, once I went to her house, her mother cooked kelp pork rib soup to entertain me, I slept with her at night, she prepared the foot washing water and pajamas with me, and squeezed toothpaste for me when she got up the next day, and then we worked in the same place, she was on the third floor and I was on the second floor, and there was anything delicious left for me, of course, I was also a good person.

I, exercise every day, bird's nest every other day, ** every other day, a glass of red wine a day, a bottle of yogurt, an orange, and two hundred curls a day.

Some things are not difficult to do at all, but they may allow you to live a more delicate life. Paying attention to taste, probably so that we can live the most ordinary days with a sense of beauty.

For example: at dusk after work, buy yourself a bouquet of flowers; Walk home slowly in the May breeze; Take a bus with fewer people and see what you're in the city; Spray a little perfume behind your ears and on the ends of your hair when you are dating; Frequent change of bed linen and covers; Water the greenery on your balcony in the morning; Buy a whole set of dishes and learn to make delicious dishes; Spend two minutes a day making the bed and taking the quilt to dry.

For example, when the locust flowers bloom outside the window, don't rush to the road, stop and smell them, and look at the white petals; Walk with your chest straight and your head up, with your back straight; Cut your nails frequently and apply hand cream after washing your hands; practice calligraphy when you are free; In the corner of the room, light a lamp of incense; Cook a glass of cinnamon red wine on a cold winter night; Take some beautiful moments with your phone every day.

For example, smile at the person in the mirror every day and say to yourself: You look so good today; Regain your anger, and don't say half a dirty word in your mouth; Take a little time out of the week to watch a touching old movie; Buy something more expensive but of good quality; When it's time to get off work, take a new path home; No traffic jams today!

Another great day! Wake up a little early and run to make yourself sweaty.

Life is very cute, if you smile at it, it will kiss you, if you frown at it, it will also be depressed!

This is the exquisite life I understand and I aspire to!

What do you think is fine living?

The delicate life is first of all sober, not ignorant, that is, aware of its own existence; secondly, peaceful, not restless; Again, joy, not pain.

Only a few people have a clear sense of existence, most people don't think much about this problem, and some people don't think about it in their lives, but they just live more than 30,000 days of their lives in ignorance. Among the few people who are aware of their own existence, there are some people who only think about it occasionally, others who think more often, and only a very small number of people who think about it all the time and everywhere, and are always aware of their own existence, can such people be considered to have a clear sense of existence.

The delicate life is peaceful, not restless. When people struggle with the need to survive, their mood is restless, some have to worry about various things, some people are anxious about not being able to complete the work they are doing, some people are anxious about the gains and losses in business, and the latter are even more anxious, sometimes they are simply worried. After the necessities of survival have been satisfied, people do not necessarily have a peaceful state of mind, and people will be anxious about more money, power and fame, and cannot really have inner peace.

It is only when one reaches a state where one is completely unmoved by all the specific goals of the world that one finally gets rid of anxiety and anxiety and attains a peaceful state of mind.

Exquisite life is not only peaceful, but also joyful. Just as freedom is divided into negative freedom and positive freedom, there is also a negative and positive distinction in the refined life, and a peaceful state of mind can only be considered negative, and a joyful state of mind can be considered positive. Happiness is beauty and love, when man appreciates the beauty of nature and all artificial beauty (literature and art), when man loves and is loved by someone, he can enjoy the feeling of happiness.

If we subdivide happiness again, when a person just appreciates the beauty created by others, he is certainly happy, and if he can create beauty, he is even happier.

From Yang Tianzhen's Little Red Book:

The real delicacy is not piled up by money, it is tasteful, aesthetic, not the same as a famous brand, reflected in all aspects of life, if you want to have a delicate life, there are a few suggestions:

1. Maintain an attitude of learning, nourish your daily life with knowledge and art, and delicacy is a temperament that exudes from the inside out;

2. Take life seriously, maintain self-disciplined living habits, and live an orderly and rhythmic life;

3. Pay attention to self-image management, and the difference of each of us is the real charm.

Exquisite life has its own definition. Have your own space to yourself, have time to travel with your family, buy a bouquet of flowers to decorate your room, and go out for a coffee in your spare time.

The life you love and is comfortable and comfortable.

What kind of life can be called exquisite, as long as you feel very happy every day, which is the life can be called exquisite.

The life you love can be implemented, whether it is materially or spiritually satisfied, and you also have your beloved other half. I think this kind of life can be regarded as exquisite.

To love life is to be exquisite.

Pursue love and be happy every day.