Why is it said that the poor son is not educated, and the rich daughter is easy to be arrogant?

Because when the poor raise a son, they are free-range, regardless of him, so they will appear uneducated, and the rich daughter is more pampered because no one cares. Therefore, I am very arrogant and proud.

Poor boys are easy to have narrow horizons and be stingy, and rich girls are generally more indulgent at home, and they will have princess disease when they get along with others outside, and they are used to others accommodating themselves.

I agree with this philosophy. Because it is true that boys and girls are not the same, the way of education should also be different.

I think this concept is incorrect, whether it is a son or a daughter, it is right to give them good educational opportunities, give them appropriate guidance, help them develop good living habits, and establish correct values.

This kind of education method is not accurate, and this kind of education concept is also particularly bad, whether it is a boy or a girl, it should be treated fairly and justly.

Some people think that they want to raise their daughters and sons poorly, but in fact, this approach will have great drawbacks. For sons and daughters, the palms and backs of their hands are meat, so when raising children, we must be fair and just, so that children can realize that their parents are fair. Whether it is a son or a daughter, the poverty and wealth between each other cannot be measured by money, most of them are because there will be a big gap in material satisfaction.

As a result, the son thinks in his heart that both parents are partial. <>

Due to the fact that there are fewer women in the life of rich daughters, the status of women has now surpassed that of men. In family life, as long as you see a daughter born in the family, you will feel very arrogant, most of them consider that their daughters need to be rich. And this kind of enrichment is the spiritual enrichment, not the economic enrichment.

Most people regard their daughters as being financially rich, so much so that when it comes to raising daughters, they will pamper girls to do whatever they want. <>

Even if a poor son has a son and a daughter in his family life, most people will have partiality in the treatment of two children. Especially for the father in the family, he will be particularly partial to his daughter, mostly because the daughter is a little padded jacket for his parents, and the son is a leather jacket. Because of such differential treatment, the son will also feel very angry in his heart.

Even if it's a boy, he shouldn't be treated differently by his parents, and he always treats two children differently, and he will complain about his son in his heart. <>

The palms of the hands and the backs of the hands are full of meat, and at any time there are two children in the family, you will find that it is difficult to level a bowl of water. Even if parents say that they will not be partial to both children, but in fact it is difficult to achieve the satisfaction of both children, and children should be considerate of their parents. It's not that parents are unwilling to give more for their children, it's because they consider that it will be difficult for two children to achieve the satisfaction of the other one.

Whether it is a rich daughter or a poor son, the most important thing is to achieve the spiritual prosperity of the child.

First, it will make girls develop the habit of being extravagant, and it will also make boys feel that they are not valued, resulting in inferiority complex; Second, it will make girls only enjoy life from an early age and lack the habit of struggle.

In fact, I think that this concept of education is reasonable, and it is not wrong, but it is not a literal meaning to raise children and rich daughters. Raising a son in poverty means not giving his son a good material life, because the boy will have to earn money to support the family in the future. If we let our children develop a bad habit of spending lavishly, it is easy to cause our children to have no way to support themselves after entering society.

Some parents will literally understand the meaning of this sentence, raising their son poorly, that is, not giving their children money to spend, and letting their children make money. And when the child asks for some pocket money, the parents will also choose to refuse this practice, which will make their son very inferior. I don't dare to fall in love when I grow up, and I feel that I am not worthy of falling in love with others, so the wrong understanding of parents will also make the child a very failed person when he grows up.

Raising a poor son means that children realize the hard work of making money, but parents should not be stingy with their children, and they should also make their children have a sense of responsibility.

Raising a rich daughter does not mean giving the child endless money, smashing the pot and selling iron to give the child a better life, and letting the child buy some luxury goods. Rich daughter refers to the spiritual level of wealth, after the child has done something, let the child have the courage to bear the problem. And let children develop a good habit of independence from an early age, so that children can learn more art and cultivate children's temperament.

Only when parents truly understand the meaning of these words can they reduce the misunderstandings in education. When educating children, parents must not only take the meaning of this sentence literally, and do not misunderstand these meanings, which will lead to the use of some wrong ways when educating children, resulting in the destruction of the child's life.

Of course, there is some truth to this concept, because the different growth environments of sons and daughters can make them form a good character, girls can broaden their horizons in the process of being rich and avoid being deceived by others, and boys are poor, can develop a strong character, and have the ability to resist pressure.

Of course, there is some truth to it. The son really needs to endure hardships in order to be able to appreciate the hardships of life, and the difficulty of life, so that he will have a sense of responsibility and responsibility for life.

There is a certain reason that such a parenting style is conducive to promoting the development of children's abilities and can exercise children.

On the issue of children's education and upbringing, parents are all soldiers, for fear that they will harm their children because they are inexperienced, so they often look at the educational concepts of some parenting experts, and on the issue of parenting, there has always been a saying, that is, "the poor raise their sons, and the rich raise their daughters", but the real meaning of this sentence has been misunderstood by many people.

From the literal meaning of this sentence, the so-called poor support is material, so it will buy a lot less for boys, and girls have to buy more, this understanding is obviously wrong, whether it is a boy or a girl is very big, so what does it really mean to raise a poor child and a rich daughter?

How should parents raise their children poorly?

1: Boys spend a little less

In fact, the real meaning of parents spending less money on boys is to let children understand the hard work of making money, so that children will have a correct concept of money.

2: Develop a strong will

When a boy grows up, he will become a man who stands up to the sky, so when the child is young, parents should let go appropriately, so that they can better exercise the child, and even if the child encounters setbacks in the process, this is also a great asset for the boy.

3: Cultivate the independence of boys

Boys always have to support a family, so parents must let their children be independent as soon as possible, and don't help their children do everything, so that the child will become a mother's boy, and it will be difficult to have a future in the future.

So how should parents enrich their daughters?

1: Girls spend a little more

Parents can spend more money on their daughters, so that their children will not be easily deceived in the future, but parents can't buy whatever their daughters want, and they still have to let their children have a correct view of money.

2: Develop hobbies

Parents can be rich in cultivating children's interests and hobbies, people who study art always have a special temperament, which makes people look very comfortable, and this temperament is very rare, if girls have this temperament is very likable, so parents can enroll girls in interest classes, but parents should not be too forced, let children choose their own favorites, so as to get twice the result with half the effort.

3: Encourage girls more

Girls' minds are very sensitive, which seems to be a natural instinct of girls, so parents should not be too strict with girls, and usually encourage and encourage girls, so that children can know that they are loved and very confident, but parents should also pay attention to not let children turn self-confidence into conceit.

In short, the so-called poor children and rich daughters are not material, but the connotation and character of the child, which is the most correct approach.

I am Xiaoling's mother, the mother of a 3-year-old baby, and a senior pregnancy and baby teacher

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