How can I see that my boyfriend is alienating me, and why is my boyfriend deliberately alienating me

My boyfriend and I have only been happy together for a short time, and he says he loves me very much. But this month, he always criticizes me, saying that I can't do what I said, too shy, etc., I also feel that sometimes it is indeed self-willed, often making trouble in front of him, but it is all girls who are coquettish, because they love him and care about him. Now, during this time, he suddenly stopped holding my hand, we used to walk together hand in hand, and there was hardly any physical contact with me, which I thought was unnatural, but when I asked him, he didn't say anything.

And then often said that he didn't care about anything, didn't ask for anything, etc., I felt very sad, so suddenly alienated from me, ignored me and stopped giving me a hug, what do you want me to do? What am I doing wrong? It's not enough now, I'm trying to find a way to earn more points, thank you!

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03/11/2009 16:55 Additional questions.

But I really like him and I don't want to lose him Now my life is really a mess and it's hard for me to imagine my life without him because I have always been so happy before and I heard from my friend that he has revealed that he wants to break up with me ! Why, he said he didn't fit me, said he couldn't stand it, but I don't think it's really that much of a problem, I hope we can start well, and it's really hard to feel like this now

It's always you who contact him. He basically doesn't contact you.

He always said busy.

Can you be more detailed, otherwise mine will be very close, just talk about your feelings and personal situation, and I am confident to help you.

Girls must pay attention to some of the boys' behaviors when they are in love, some behaviors are a manifestation of loving you, and some of them want to break up with you, so what should I do if my boyfriend deliberately alienates me, let's take a look at how to solve it.

What should I do if my boyfriend deliberately distances me?

Take the initiative to ask him why he is doing this, and you also deliberately alienate and snub him, make yourself better, and take the initiative to ask him out. First of all, you should take the initiative to ask him why he is doing this, and if you don't ask you all the time, you don't know why. You've been thinking about it in your heart and you're not going to come up with a single outcome.

Why is my boyfriend deliberately alienated from me If he still deliberately distances himself from you for a long time, it may be because he wants to leave you. But I don't know how to say it, so whenever you encounter this situation, you need to take the initiative to adjust. Because you don't know anything yet, you have to have a right to know.

You have the right to know the reason for this, and even if he really wants to leave you, he must tell you.

My boyfriend is estranged, do I want to break up?

In many cases, the boyfriend is estranged from the girlfriend because he wants to break up, and sometimes the boy can't tell you how to break up, so at this time you need to communicate well, if it is for any reason, solve it together, if you really want to break up, then break up.

Under what circumstances will your boyfriend alienate you 1. He is a "workaholic".

Men are competitive by nature and have a stronger sense of self-motivation than women. For men, work is not only a means of earning a living, but also a symbol of status and status. If you feel that he is starting to ignore you and devote more time and energy to work, it is likely because he thinks that your relationship has entered a stable period, and you can know that Qi will focus on hard work in the next step.

2. You put pressure on him.

You've been knocking on him in order to get that ring as soon as possible? You want him to spend more time with you, so you "usurp" all his personal time? Stop it! You've put him under a lot of pressure!

3. He's avoiding arguments with you.

No one wants to face conflict head-on, especially for a man to face a woman who loves to lose her temper. If you often act in a bad mood, don't blame him for running farther and farther.

4. You're too clingy.

A wise woman knows how to use the mystery she exudes to gain the long-term attention of men (Roland Zuiaijy100). Excessive dependence will only make men resentful.

5. You are too demanding of him.

If you are a strict woman, it is inevitable that you will have high requirements for your other half, and you want to make him your ideal appearance. But! This is actually what men are most afraid of! <>

Love is the strongest emotion, with exclusivity, and it also makes Yu the most intoxicated, frank and crazy, friendship and love are more plain and gentle. Estranged friends for love, I don't know why? The reason for this is unclear.

Is he busy with love, or do you have an emotional dispute? I guess you're a girl, women like to think about this.

If you are more beautiful than her, have a good figure, a good personality, and a good temperament, she will alienate you and prevent you from getting close to her boyfriend.

If you also like her boyfriend, it's a bloody plot.

Or does her boyfriend have a crush on you?

I don't know what your stories and characters are.

If it's a man, there shouldn't be estranged friends for love, men are animals that think in the lower half of the body, most of them are rough, thoughtful, and they regard friends and friendship as more important.

Women live for love, and marriage is the second reincarnation, so love is life is everything, and without love it is withering. What about friendship, for women, it is the second or even the third, and what about family affection?

Indifference to friendship for love is human nature.

Only family affection may surpass love, for example, when a woman gets married, her energy and enthusiasm will be invested in her children, and love will be much more indifferent.

Friendship is a plain, lasting feeling, light and flavorful, can last forever, friendship is also staged, there is no eternal friend, and there is no eternal enemy. For this fate, indifferent, calm, there is no need to entangle.

If you are a woman and the other person is a man, then there is no real friendship between men and women. If he alienates you, it should be his girlfriend to be wary, the woman is thoughtful and the love is exclusive. Then, if you like it, you can wait silently, work yourself silently, open up silently, and look down on everything, just like the flowers on the mountain will sail into the sky, and what belongs to you is yours after all.

Women, the most important thing is to meet the right person at the right time, the right person, and the important thing is to be able to control yourself and feel comfortable and happy. The so-called love is not that you are apprehensive, sad, painful, or uneasy, if you feel this way, you should give up, reject, turn away, and give each other a chic back, at least you can still be friends.