Do you have an attitude towards your first love?

First love is beautiful, but there are not many men and women who can make their first love enter the marriage hall and live a happy life like a prince and princess. Impressed, this is the feeling left for most people. Some people will always bury this beauty in their hearts, while others will never forget it.

In the following relationship, compared to the first love, they can't get out of the cycle of first love. The following is the "sequelae" brought about by first love. Let's take a look at what first love has brought you.

It should be said that everyone has their own ideal lover, and the so-called love at first sight is to some extent a kind of follow-up chart. So, the first person we like is largely in line with our ideals.

The so-called turnip greens have their own love, and the process of finding love is like clinging to a preference. Lovelorn clones are poisoned by their first love, and the new lover has to conform to the appearance of the first love. A girl is like this, she has a soft spot for tall, thin, long-legged, square-faced white denim shirts.

I know that I seem to be looking for a shadow lover, but I just can't stop, so it's painful. After a relationship ends, there will be more or less residues, and it is reasonable to leave traces after leaving. However, although some people have come out of the shadow of their last relationship, they always unconsciously compare their current lovers to their first love.

They always feel that they are not as good as their first love in terms of appearance and demeanor, so that the more they look at it, the more unpleasant it becomes.

In my heart, I can't forget my first love. Before falling in love with someone, everyone thinks that love will last forever, but as we all know, love actually has a shelf life. No matter how the love ends, it will bring harm to the other person.

Some people regard this hurt as a failed love experience, becoming more and more frustrated and brave on the road of love. However, there are also some people who are hurt by their first love, so they no longer dare to approach love, lose trust in everyone, and regard the hurt of their first love as a hidden pain in their lives. Psychology has proven a theory through various experiments:

In general, interrupting an unfinished action is easier to stay in memory than completing an action. In other words, the first love that has not entered the marriage is not easy to forget, because it is an unfinished love.

When you look through the photo album, you can see the ** that traveled a few years ago. You can't remember the hardships of the journey, but you can still remember the magnificent scenery and cheerful scenes on the mountain. In the same way, the feeling of first love is also produced under the same psychological effect, and not only that, but it also inadvertently and infinitely beautifies the past.

This phenomenon is known in psychology as "memory optimism". That said, even a painful experience, after years of dilution, can become something to remember. In fact, the entity of the first love object is not worth beautifying.

Yes, human emotions are so strange. Obviously, they have been separated for many years, and they both have their own families, and even they know very well in their hearts that the partner in front of them is not bad, but they still can't help but miss their first love.

My attitude towards my first love is one that I will never forget. The main reason is that I had a very good experience with each other, so I still can't forget it, and I remember it when I'm alone. But I don't let myself get entangled, I just think about it occasionally.

No, my feeling for my first love, is a sweet memory, but behind the sweetness I can always feel how much bitterness, seeing the QQ space that can be sent before, I feel very naïve, as for what you said you will never forget, if it weren't for your question, I can't even remember, and I only remember the appearance probably, from a middle-aged man's inner monologue.

My attitude towards my first love is to keep it in my heart, no need, and never forget, because she will always exist in your subconscious.

The attitude towards my first love is not to forget, because now that I have a better girlfriend, I will cherish the person in front of me and will not miss my first love again.

Of course, my attitude towards my first love is unforgettable, because he gave me the most fortunate youth and the most precious memories, so I still miss it very much.

I'm just a little nostalgic for my first love, after all, you've experienced it and invested in your feelings, but I won't forget it. I will give all my current feelings to my current partner.

For the attitude of first love, I don't think there is any need to dwell on it, after all, it has passed, and there is no need to be nostalgic anymore.

My attitude towards my first love is to never forget, if I miss someone, it means that I still have feelings for him, then I will not let this relationship disappear easily, I will do everything I can to redeem this first love.

To be honest, I just remember my first love, and I still remember many details, but I won't forget it. Because she turned her back on me and eloped.

My attitude towards my first love is not obsessive, because it has been so long since my first love that I don't even remember his name and what he looked like.

No, friend, my attitude towards my first love is not obsessive, I have forgotten about each other, because I have started a new life, otherwise I am sorry, my current life.

One of my attitudes towards my first love must have been obsessed, because I felt that I and mine were the same first love, two very good people, but he didn't choose me in the end.

I don't think about my first love now, I don't think my first love's attitude was particularly good, so I will choose to forget my first love's attitude towards me, because I have a good partner now, and I must treat my feelings well.

No, I have forgotten it, because I feel that the past is in the past, and there is no need to keep remembering, so it is not convenient for me to start a new life, and there is no need to keep remembering.

I won't forget my first love, because I don't think it's necessary, now is the most important thing, put my heart on the current one.

First love is not something that you never forget, but you just treasure it in the bottom of your heart.

There is no wow, as long as it is in the past, because of this relationship, you know that he will not get married until the future, or if something else happens, so if you just recall the past, you will definitely forget it directly.

We never forget the attitude towards first love, and this is also because the first love left a deep impression on us.

No. Because many years have passed since my first love, time has diluted everything, and I have no impression of my first love anymore.

My attitude towards my first love is very good, treat each other sincerely, although I miss her, although I don't regret it, and my love for her is very caring for her.

Because in the first love, young men and women are sincere feelings, and there are not too many impurities in the relationship, of course, it is unforgettable.

You may feel this way at first, but after a long time, you will find that it is all in the past, and living a good life in the present is the most important thing.

I didn't have a first love, I went straight to get married, but in the end it ended in failure.

No, it's completely unnecessary, and it's important to accept reality and not always dwell on the past.

I won't do it directly, because I think it's very unfair to my current girlfriend, and since I'm with my girlfriend, I'm going to treat her well and treat her as the most important person in my heart.

Because I'm married, being by my side is my true love, and I won't miss my first love?

The most unforgettable memories are always the best feelings, and youth is always connected with beauty, and beauty is because of having a first love. The first love that we will never forget is actually the beauty of our youth and the innocence of ourselves that we will never forget. Now banishing oneself and missing one's pure self is the true psychology of thinking about one's first love.

Nostalgia for the aesthetic romance and innocence of the first love: the uniqueness of the first love determines that it is something that will not be felt in the future, no matter how much love is loved. The first time in anything is important for everyone, especially the first love.

The nervousness when I confessed or was blamed, the excitement when I held hands, and the sweetness of my first kiss are all deeply imprinted in my memory. It was an unforgettable beauty and romance, and of course, heartbreak and frustration. In "Half of Honey, Half of Injury", the feeling of first love Luo Yunxi and Bailu kissing, even through the screen, you can feel the sweetness between your lips and tongue.

I really want to go back to the period of first love, feel that heart, and stir a pool of water in my heart.

Reverie of regret for first love: People have such heart-wrenching feelings for everyone in their lives, probably just for their first love. That kind of innocence, because it is the most innocent, is the happiest, because it is the happiest, it is the most unforgettable.

That unforgettable feeling will bring us psychologically to say "a deep yearning for the past", because of not getting it, regret, chagrin, and "if the generation at that time"...What will happen? "This reverie is like a movie fragment from memory, but a large part of it is actually added by oneself, and these fragments satisfy all the psychological reverie of the first love.

Rejecting the status quo will make people miss the innocent first love: the first love is in front of everyone, hoping that the whole world will know that they are in love, and even if they are out of love, they must shout until the whole world knows. The older the years, the more heart-wrapping.

Many years later, the once young and clumsy and innocent self has become a calm and loving old driver, but the heart rejects such a self. People who reject their status quo miss their innocent first love more, miss the feeling of heart-to-heart, and want to find what they were at that time.

Of course not, I never miss each other in my life, because the two broke up peacefully. I don't remember each other anymore, and I have forgotten what they look like.

No, after the first love ended, I forgot about this relationship because of the hurt it caused me. I don't remember.

Personally, I have always missed my first love, and it is hard to forget. First love, the reason why I never forget. The first is that this is the first experience, and since it is the first time, it is precious.

For example, Zhang Zhenyue's song "The First Experience of Love" said that I am eighteen years old and destined to shed tears for love. Yes, it is the first love that is the first time, the meaning of enlightenment, and the moment of ignorance. Therefore, countless people are obsessed, which is an inevitable plot in psychology.

When you fall in love for the first time, it is a period when a person's emotions germinate. There are not too many requirements for posture and affection, there will be no material constraints, just pure spiritual communication. To love someone, love is love, and not to love is not to buy. Don't think too much about whether the other party has the financial strength or not.

As the French writer Romain Rolland said, early love only needs very little nourishment! Just by seeing each other and touching each other lightly when you walk by, a fantasy power will spring up in your heart and create her love. A little thing that is very boring can make a person lose their soul.

The feelings at the time of first love are the most real and the most intense. It is precisely because of its special nature that many people miss it very much.

In psychology, there is a phenomenon called the "Checoni effect", namely.

Ordinary people are very easy to forget the things that have been completed and have been achieved, but the things that have been interrupted, unfinished, and have not achieved the goal are always fresh in their memories.

Eason Chan sings in the song "Red Rose":Those who can't get it are always in turmoil, and those who are favored have nothing to fear。Many first loves are just a flower and have no fruit, so they will never forget it.

As time passes, the bad ones in the memory are filtered out, or they have been released, and what remains are relatively good memories.

And people like contrast, and facing their current partner will naturally compare with their first love. The difficulty of marriage is that you fall in love with each other's strengths while living with each other's shortcomings.

So the current relationship can't be compared with the first love, and it can't be compared.

People love nostalgia, especially as they get older. Some people say nostalgia is not because of how good the times were, but because you were young.

When people recall the past, the years of youth are clear-cut. It was a time of growth, hope, dreams and love, and it was the most precious time in life.

In some people's youth, first love occupies most of them, and those sweet and bitter, and even unforgettable pain are imprinted in their hearts.

You may never have that kind of emotional experience in the future, and you are willing to give everything to love someone. Because you have been hurt, you are no longer brave, but this experience will not be forgotten.

First love, often fruitless. But it may be, in memory, the most beautiful cloud in the sky.

Definitely, most of them will, always think of the happy times together, and when life is empty, I always think of these things in my head...

1. First love teaches men to grow.

For a man, if he doesn't have a woman by his side, he will always be like a child. In adolescence, girls of the same age tend to be more mature than boys, which is always remembered by men. First love teaches men to grow, and on the road to a boy's transformation into a mature man, first love is the best teacher.

Therefore, for a man, he can never forget the woman who even gave everything to himself for himself. In the eyes of many men, first love is very sacred, so even after many years, men hope that their first love will be good.

2. Feelings of guilt for first love.

The man hopes that the first love is good, because in addition to gratitude, he will also feel guilty. Because of his youth and ignorance, in the years when he had nothing, the girl followed him without regrets. Regardless of the reason for the final separation, most men feel guilty in their hearts.

In the emotional world, men are always hindsighted, and only when men mature and have pressure can they understand the difficulties of women. First love is a past that many men can't let go.

3. The pressures of real life make men want to be carefree when they first fell in love.

After a man has a family, the pressure on his body is very heavy, and what love and romance are often vulnerable in the face of reality. And only when he is nostalgic for the past and his first love together, will a man believe that he is really innocent, and he has never hesitated to do anything, just for the girl he loves.

For a man, after having a family, it is like wearing a tight spell, he can't have a trace of relaxation, as long as he stops, life makes him miserable. As long as he misses the good old days, he can receive the meaning of life.

4. What you can't get is more cherished for men.

The exact opposite of women is that the more they can't get something, the more precious they feel to be in it. And first love is a woman that a man will never get. First love is always the woman who wants to protect the most in this life for men, and at those wonderful years, the cute girl with a double ponytail is indeed unforgettable.