Listening and talking, which one is more loved?

I'm more yearning for that to talk to ... As you said, he tells you everything, he will not keep secrets from you, he is very optimistic, so he will also bring you happy, and his personality will also prompt him to care about you and care for you in the future.

The landlord is so happy! I feel that these are just personality issues, and have nothing to do with love or not. It depends on whether he has a similar situation when he gets along with other people, and if he is like this to you, it may be love.

It has nothing to do with love or not.,It's just a matter of which type of person you like.,Or which type of person is more suitable for you.。。

This alone cannot judge a man as good or bad.

But I think it's better to talk than to listen.

Because he can't hide secrets from you, it can also be said to be honest.

When two people are together, they should share the joys, sorrows, and sorrows of life together.

But as you say, he doesn't know how to listen to you.

He can't be blamed for this, after all, people have different personalities.

Overall, I think it's better to confide, at least you know what he's thinking, and you don't have to think all day about whether he's going to do something sorry for you at the moment, and I don't think he'll do it either.

Of course, in the later process, you should tell him to listen to you and help him.

I'm more inclined to listen.

But actually, as you said.

These are just personality issues, and have nothing to do with love or not.

Confiding is trusting, listening is caring.

Your question is so tangled, it depends on which way your own heart is biased.

The difference between listening and talking is both the same and relative. The similarity is the word "tilt". The so-called tilt should be devoted, serious and sincere.

Listening and confiding are a relative set of words. There is no listening without talking, and there must be someone to talk to listen. The two complement each other and complement each other.

Listening is a virtue. Only when a person learns to listen and is good at listening can he enter the other person's heart and shorten the distance with the confidant. When someone confides in you, be sure to listen sincerely, look your eyes directly at the other person, and interact when you feel the same way, so that the other person feels that you are listening, and if necessary, there is some physical reaction.

Confiding is a kind of catharsis, which can not only vent one's emotions, positive or negative, but only when it is effectively vented, the mood will relax until it is calm.

Happy people need to talk. Speak out your happiness and share it with others, and happiness becomes two people's.

People who are grieving need to confide. Confide out your grievances and dissatisfactions, and the pressure in your heart will be reduced.

Helpless people need to confide. Even if it's chattering like Xianglin's sister-in-law, it's the same.

There are many types of confiding depending on the person you are talking to. Confiding between superiors and subordinates, confiding between friends, confiding between relatives and friends, confiding between husband and wife, and even confiding between strangers. A QQ, far away, do not know each other, but can also produce spiritual resonance and vibration.

Proper confiding can shorten the distance between each other and can resonate with the heart, but excessive confiding will make the other party disgusted or even annoying.

Listening and confiding definitely mean the same, listening is listening to others tell you things, and confiding is what you tell others.

Tilt: Exhaust (strength).

Listening: Listen carefully, pour out: speak all that is in your heart.

: The listener is the one who listens to what others say, the confidant is the one who confides in others to hear one's own things, and the spectator is the one who is outside the two and just a bystander.

Listening and confiding mean not the same. Confiding means more than listening.

Listening is to listen carefully to what others have to say and give good feedback to the complainant.

Confiding is to speak your heart to others, both positive and negative.

Listening: It is listening to others.

Confide: It is to say it to others.

It's not the same! The former is mainly listening, and the latter is mainly speaking.

Listening and confiding can be used in this way, when Xiao Ming and Xiao Tian are together, Xiao Ming is responsible for saying, belonging to the confiding type, Xiao Tian is responsible for listening, belonging to the listening type, if the two people occasionally penetrate each other, it will be perfect, both a listener and a confidant, both a confider and a listener. This way of communication, it is more efficient.

One is to listen and the other is to speak, the difference is needless to say, one is attentive, and the other may be the mouth.

The former is listening, the latter is saying, do you say the same?

Difference Between Listening and Listening:

Different meanings, different emotional colors:

1. Listening: Listening refers to listening carefully, which means that the whole process of cognition and understanding is to receive verbal information by means of auditory organs, and then through thinking activities to achieve cognition and understanding. Generally, it refers to the superior to the subordinate, such as "public feelings", "opinions", "heart", "voice", etc., so it generally means that the superior listens to the opinions and reports of the subordinate.

2. Listening refers to concentrating on listening carefully. It refers to listening sincerely and carefully, with a respectful color, and is generally used for teachings, reports, speeches, lectures, recitations, stories and other activities related to people, and can also be used for specific things, such as the sound of the wind, the sound of rain, singing, etc.; The words of Han Yangxiong's "Fa Yan Five Hundred": "Listening to the past life, the clear vision is below, and the insight is close to the truth."

I read a book that mentions how to communicate.

Some "don'ts" are highlighted:

One, don't pretend to be listening.

Nowadays, many people know that "listening is more important than talking", so many times they are willing to listen – but they don't really want to listen.

You ask your child: Why don't you listen well in class?

The child one, two, three, four, five explains to you, and you think to yourself: it's all fart.

You still maintain a "positive discipline" expression on your face, endure it, and when the child is finished, you will start to educate.

Do you think a child can't see that you're "pretending to listen"?

You ask the other person: Why the divorce?

No matter what the other party says, you will naturally translate it as "complaining woman".

What's the point?

If you want to listen, listen carefully, and if you feel that the other party is lying, you can interrupt the other party and directly say: I think there is something wrong with this part.

Asking and explaining can reduce a lot of misunderstandings.

If you really don't want to hear it, you can stop listening and wait until you want to hear it.

Second, don't take it for granted that you understand the other person's motivations and needs.

Similar: I know you must want to have a good time;

How do you know?

I know you're doing this on purpose to anger your mother;

Why don't you ask your child why he did it?

Don't surprise the other person on your own initiative, the other person may find it embarrassing;

Don't be wishful thinking to let the other person rest, the other person may think you have crossed the line;

Third, don't use perfunctory comforting words.

For example: it will be fine.

Or: everything will pass.

Idle people, etc., show their kindness, so it's okay to say that.

If it is a close relative of the person concerned or someone close to him, he may anger the person as soon as he speaks.

The child cried and said, "My turtle is dead."

You say perfunctorily: it's okay, let's buy another one.

The child probably cried even louder.

My friend said: I'm out of love.

You say, "It's going to pass."

It's better to accompany her to scold the scumbag.

Listening. Han Yangxiong's "Five Hundred Words of Law":"Listening to the past life, the clear vision is below, and the insight is close to the sinister. "

The latter is mostly used in written language, and Tokino code refers to listening carefully and attentively.

Hearken. Turn your ears and listen respectfully to what others are saying. Or listen carefully to what others say.

Listening is more like a lecture from a superior to a subordinate, and listening is a kind of respect with people.

Listening in a broad sense includes written communication, etc. The subject is the listener, and the subject of the confiding is the speaker. The two sing and harmonize, and have the advantages of resolving conflicts or venting feelings.

As a sincere friend or counselor, the listener should be humble, patient, sincere, and willing to solve problems for the confidant.

Listening is a necessary part of effective communication in order to reach an agreement of thought and flow of feelings. Listening in a narrow sense refers to the whole process of receiving verbal information with the help of the auditory organs, and then achieving cognition and understanding through thinking activities.