Doesn t a person who closes his heart feel lonely? Why does it have to be like that?

If it takes a long time, she will get used to being lonely and lonely, and even enjoy loneliness, which is related to her character. Closing the door of your heart must be someone who has been hurt, in order to protect yourself and not want to be hurt by others again, so you deliberately close yourself. I used to be like that.

But such a person is like a ceramic doll, using a strong appearance to cover up the fragility of the heart, and a strong smile to cover up the loneliness of the heart. As long as you care about her with your heart, with your sincerity and trust, and be patient, she will always be moved by you, this is my real experience! You should also find out what she has been going through and help her open her knots.

Hope she's happy!

That would be lonely. But you have to know why he closed the door of his heart in order to protect himself, and everyone who closed the door of his heart has a lot of helplessness and distress in their hearts. And they are also the most vulnerable people in the world, and they always add a layer of protection to themselves from harm.

If he opens the door of his heart that day, he will find that he is the most innocent person in the world, and he is also the most vulnerable.

I feel that most people who shut down their hearts do so because they have been hurt.

They haven't really come to their senses yet, and I believe that when they do, they will open the door in their hearts.

Lonely because of the injury.

Closed the door of the heart because of loneliness.

Of course, loneliness will also be sad. That's because they think they won't be hurt anymore.

Long-term sadness has allowed them to develop this sense of self-preservation.

OK. But in your heart, you can't at least.

You will ask like this, in your heart you can't let go at all, you can't let go of your feelings for her.

True love is tolerance rather than indulgence, love is caring rather than pampering, love is blending rather than unrequited love, and love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness.

True love doesn't have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others.

It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other.

It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated.

This love not only warms themselves, but also warms the hearts of those worldly people, and true love is cherished when they can love.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

Because, letting go is having everything...

Please love well when you cherish it.

When you let go, good wishes....

True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

Feel it with your heart.

Yes, the key is what you think, you can turn it on and off, but when you meet the real thing, it's hard to say.

Do you really think it's okay?

I don't think so!

People close their hearts because they encounter setbacks and close themselves!

However, closure does not stand the passage of time.

Then it's better to relax and vent. Go back and tell yourself: it's okay, I can do it!

Problems are not to be escaped, they are to be solved! You'll find yourself relaxed when you solve it!

Closing the door of the heart is just a sign of cowardice to escape reality, isn't it?!

Puff up your chest and say to yourself: Actually, it's not a big deal!

OK. Before you even meet that key.

Telling is to make others understand you and hope that someone will comfort you. Some people have no choice but to escape, while others know that too much pain will make it more painful, so they close the door of their hearts and do what they have to do. You forget that some people face pain.

Because the root nature of human beings is different, or the nature of the mind. Telling friends to help you share your pain, running away is a sign of cowardice, and you will close if you don't trust it completely. None of the above is in favor, our hearts have the characteristics of worry-free, not confused, not afraid.

This is related to the person's personality, the extrovert likes to tell, and the introvert likes to hide.

It is possible to be hurt, but we must learn to face it correctly, because there are many things in life that need to be experienced.

Do you close the door of your heart and wait for someone to kick it open, it will hurt.

Maybe it's because I'm thinking too much......I was the same some time ago, and it was so uncomfortable, but now it's much better...Relax your mind....I just thought that people don't need to understand me.

It's the man who smokes a cigarette, it's the woman who drinks something, and what we smoke and drink is not tobacco and alcohol, but a taste of loneliness.

If you don't tell others or don't do it in a good way, they won't appreciate you.

If you don't say it, how can others understand?

Put your mind on study, or work, and persuade you to put your mind on the Internet, because only by surfing the Internet can there be no worries, and the Internet is the best choice.

It is most suitable to become a monk, because then you will not see the opposite sex.

I used to think that I could be alone forever, but then I found out that this is impossible, unless you are not an animal and have no thoughts.

There is no best way but to let time slowly fade everything, or it would be better to have a new relationship.

It's impossible, only if you still miss it, you can't forget it.

No way. Try to accept someone who loves you. It's always happier than pursuing someone you love.

Ten thousand flowers have passed, and the leaves do not stick to the body.

Once bitten by a snake, he was afraid of the well rope for ten years. It's a bit extreme.

You're too idle, why don't you try to understand the world instead of locking yourself up, you're too lazy!

Closing the door of the heart is a simple self-protection, the door of the heart that is closed cannot be opened by itself, and only those who understand you can open it.

If you don't want to open the door of your heart yourself, then wait for the day when it will be opened by a lover.

First of all, the network was disconnected for two days. Then, talk to classmates and friends with whom you are often around. Don't be, even if it's a fantasy. Then, cultivate your own interests and hobbies, and I believe that you will definitely be able to get out of this darkness.

Talk more and go out for a walk.

Friendship is such a strange thing, it brings infinite support and strength, but sometimes it becomes a fatal wound in life. Everyone needs friends, which means that everyone has a weak side. Friends are not like lovers, it brings you innocence and happiness, and a force to be reckoned with, but love often makes people confused, like falling into the abyss, terrible and helpless!

There are no absolutes! Love is not useless, just like friendship can also be used like that. Some people say:

Friends are just using each other. But there are also people who say: friends are everywhere, and he (she) will always live by your side.

In fact, if you think about it seriously, you have some inseparable friends around you, and you have some unforgettable memories, and in the memories, you will find that the most memorable thing for you is the moment when friendship is long-lived. You won't be lonely, you will always have your own confidant in your life, but you haven't met it for a while, or it's right by your side. Friends will comfort you when you are lost, give you courage when you are depressed, and share with you silently when you are happy.

Don't burden yourself, don't let yourself stop. Friendship is also something that needs to be grasped, and it is not something that awaits you forever. Let go of yourself, don't hide, throw out all your emotions, the power of friendship will let you go.

Hear no, when your life is in danger, who is calling you again and again, your throat is hoarse, but there is no intention of stopping. Seeing no, who is for you, who does not hesitate to go against the will of your family and insist on being with you. Don't forget, he or she is all for you as a friend!

Crying, tears can't stop flowing, have you ever thought about who helped you wipe your tears, who is distressed for you? Friendship is greater than the power of love, don't take advantage of friendship, that's everyone's sincere dedication! When you cheat on your best friend and betray him/her, you will eventually regret it.

Because when you lose it, you find out that he (she) has taken care of you desperately, not only in love, but also in family ......Friendship may not be strong enough in a person's heart, and family affection is not great enough, but friendship can make people not lonely all the time. Haven't you found out yet? You like the rain, but your friend doesn't like it, but he (she) accompanies you, for the sake of friendship, do something you don't like, to accommodate, to love, to cherish, to work hard, this is also the existence of friendship......Don't take a person's sincere dedication for granted, no one is obligated to take care of you and love you, only cherished people will do so.

Don't try to disappoint their hearts, it will create an unforgivable situation. I've been hurt, I've cried, I've missed, I've loved, I've laughed, but have you ever thought about who is always by your side! Everything is just waiting for you to discover, to feel ......