What type of child seems to be very smart, but is actually a fake smart child?

Hoping that their children can have a future and become a phoenix is the wish of most parents.

But not all children will be successful. In most people's opinion, the average smart child has a better chance of being successful in the future. Therefore, many parents will judge whether their children are smart and whether they can be successful in the future based on their children's performance when they are young.

Of these children who are considered to be very smart, we admit that some of them are really smart. But among them, there are also some children who are just "fake smart" who look smart. If parents don't educate these children who just look smart, it will be difficult for these children to grow up.

Then some parents may have questions: how can we distinguish whether a child is really smart or falsely smart?

These 3 types of children seem to be smart when they are young, but it is difficult for them to be productive when they grow up:1.Children who value their own interests very much

In the eyes of adults, children are generally very simple. But today's children are different from the children of the past, and today's children are exposed to a lot of things, so they are generally more precocious. In addition, in today's society, there are many one-child families, so these children can easily develop a selfish character.

If you find that your child usually values his own interests very much and can do anything for his own interests, then be careful.

Because such children are easy to become more and more selfish when they grow up, although they seem to be smart when they are young, but in fact their "smartness" will harm them in the end, and such children will often grow up because of short-sightedness and narrow-mindedness.

2.Children who like to talk back to their parents

There are also some children who usually like to talk back to their parents. Some parents may think that their children are quick to react and are smart, but in fact, such children are often more likely to take the wrong path when they grow up.

Because most of these children don't know how to respect their parents, and they don't take their parents very seriously, if parents don't help correct them in time, the child is likely to become a "white-eyed wolf" when he grows up, and it is difficult to make a big difference.

3.Very lazy child

Most of today's children live in the pampering of their parents, and their parents always treat them in their mouths for fear of melting, holding them in their hands for fear of falling. Therefore, many parents would rather do things for their children than let their children do it themselves, because they are very afraid of what harm their children will suffer or encounter difficulties and setbacks.

And this kind of protection from parents often only cultivates a child who is not independent at all. In the future, such a child will not have any great success in society, and it will be difficult to achieve great things.

Children who like to lie, children who think that their lies cannot be recognized, children who think they are smart, these children seem to be very smart, but they often use some cleverness, in fact they are very stupid.

The kind of child who seems to understand everything, but in fact doesn't know anything, is actually a fake smart child, and this kind of child must correct this bad behavior in time.

Children who often play clever, although they seem to be very smart, are actually fake smart, and they are often complacent by other people's praises, and they don't know how to reflect on the reasons behind them.

It is also a manifestation of high intelligence, studies have shown that the central nervous system of the brain of children who love to laugh develops relatively quickly, the baby is very sensitive to the outside world, and the brain reacts very quickly. And when a child laughs, many muscles in the body will participate, which is equivalent to a "workout" of the body. Of course, this ability can also be cultivated, our mother must let the child create independently, do some things, don't do everything to the child, let the child go to the break, in this way, the future social adaptability will be stronger.

The words that adults have said can be imitated in the scenes in the cartoon perfectly, and the imitation reflects the child's keen observation. There is also a kind of smart performance, that is, the imagination is rich, pick up an adult's shoe, say that this is the bear's boat, sometimes she says something that surprises the adult, sometimes in case it is indeed a misunderstanding of the child, maybe they have their own reason, usually good at arguing children, from another point of view, it shows that the child has self-independent thinking, can strive for their own ideas to express, in fact, it shows that the child is very smart.

As for the three types you mentioned, I think every type of child is smart, and I am not the kind that has long aspirations, but the kind that always aspires, so that I don't let myself play out of control. Because I spend a lot of time playing, I can't brush up on many problems like others, so I do one or two puzzles before going to bed to make myself feel accomplished, and then sleep beautifully.

After the birth of a child, the development of gross motor is very closely related to intelligence. Studies have found that children who learn to crawl earlier and spend a lot of time crawling have smarter brains. Because crawling promotes limb coordination, promotes brain sensory ability, and so on.

I don't know how many there are. The key is to do a good job of rules and develop good living habits at the age of 0-7. Good manners.

Common sense knowledge must be taught to the baby. Do your own thing. Otherwise, he is talented and intelligent, and he is a waste person if he is spoiled.

The first point is to shirk responsibility, if he is wrong, he always blames others and will not admit his mistakes, the second point is to do things more like to be two-faced, mom is saying good things about mom, dad is saying good things about dad, very insincere, the third point is like to talk about crooked reasoning, always able to tell a set of crooked reasoning, like to take advantage of loopholes.

Will pretend to be a very old-fashioned look, unwilling to have too much communication with other people, and unwilling to discuss with other people, when encountering some relatively simple things, they will choose to explain to their parents, in this case it also shows that the child is fake smart, so parents should pay more attention.

This kind of child's performance is to be smart, and often play some scheming to make others look like he is particularly smart, but when it needs to be used, this kind of fake cleverness is useless at all.

Doing things "two-faced", like to shirk responsibility, like to talk about crooked reasoning, these 3 types of children are actually "fake smart", but they are not productive when they grow up, and parents must correct them in time.

<>First of all, we must know that parents want their children to become smarter, which is a very normal thing, and it can also reflect the importance that parents attach to their children, but many children in order to cooperate with their parents' behavior, so there will be symptoms of fake smart, you must know that fake smart children and really smart children are different, because once a fake smart child has a wrong thing, it will transfer the mistake to other people, and is unwilling to admit their mistakes. Secondly, fake smart children often say bad things about each other in front of their parents, which is very insincere, so when the child has this situation, parents should pay attention to it and help the child correct it in time, otherwise the child is likely to have other things. Finally, children will be very talkative, you must know that smart children don't care about some things, but fake smart children are different, they are very good at talking to their parents, especially like to talk crookedly, and they also like to take advantage of loopholes.

Parents must pay attention to whether the child has these performances, if the child has these performances, then the child is fake smart, must help the child to correct it in time, to know that educating children is a very difficult thing, but also requires parents to continue to pay and work hard, and children often do not cooperate with the phenomenon, which makes parents do not know what to do, so parents must communicate with their children more in life, understand the child's behavior.

Finally, parents should not be too strict with their children, otherwise it is likely to lead to the child's resistance, parents must not be too demanding of their children, which will lead to children not studying well, and even the phenomenon of facing parents, so parents should give their children some private space.

First, he has many eyes, he always takes advantage of him and never suffers. Pursue the principle of reciprocity in interpersonal communication, always profit by relying on small intelligence, and after a long time, your own children will be isolated and excluded. 2. Speak quickly, love to talk back to adults, and say one thing after another.

Such cleverness is at best a shake-wit.

Some children have one set in front of them, one set behind them, shirk responsibility for doing wrong things, let others take the bag for him, like flattery, for these fake smart behaviors, parents must give correct education and guidance, and have a correct and positive impact on their future life path.

Generally, special people will imitate, but have no own opinions and thoughts, and have no creativity, easy to shirk responsibility, like to do things two-faced, like to do control.

There are also smart ones, but for personality reasons, they are not exposed, they do not attract the attention of the teacher, and after a semester, they may make their own efforts and through their grades, so that the teacher can find, oh, this child is good, and can be cultivated. This group of children will serve as first-tier alternates. My more than twenty years of experience as a primary school teacher told me,A child can sit still from the first grade (except for those who look wooden), and his grades will be very good in junior high school and high school.

I am a mother of two children who have passed the first grade of primary school. Let me talk about this problem, unless the child fails the exam in the first grade of primary school, it is not clear whether the child is smart or not, and whether he is a scholar or not. Uncompromising in the face of difficulties.

If the child is a little anxious, but will not give up easily, either read the book or ask for help from an adult until it is completed, such a child will not compromise on the difficulties in learning, which is one of the potentials of a top student.

Xueba doesn't need you to rush homework, and can always complete it with high quality. Including the writing is serious, clean, organized, and looks very neat and orderly. If you don't finish your homework, you won't do anything else.

Xueba has good study habits, and Xueba seems to be born with it. I met a child who was slow to learn oral arithmetic and writing in the first and second grades, but the parents had a good attitude, and suddenly there was rapid progress in the third and fourth grades. So as long as the intelligence is normal, there is no need to worry about this problem.

The school management committee takes the test every year, the reference number is 30%, a class of sixty or seventy people, about 20 people, he is on the edge, his father is also a primary school teacher, the whole primary school is like this, every year will make the classroom teacher entangled, whether to smoke him or not. Curiosity. Children who are smart and studious in everything are characterized by strong curiosity from an early age.

These children have a wide range of interests and hobbies, and they like to think a little more, ask a little more questions, and touch a little more ...... everythingFor a long time, they were better at thinking and knowing more things than their peers.

Like those children who often please others and always give others a pat on the back, children who like to talk and don't listen to other people's advice at all. Children who don't know how to share with others at all have a very lazy personality, and they are also very clever, cheating and slippery. There are also children who usually don't know how to respect their parents at all.

I always like to let others take responsibility for my own children. A child in front of a set and a child behind a set. Children with these manifestations are generally pseudo-intelligent.

These children are very fond of expressing themselves, and they are very fond of talking back to their parents, these children are especially good at patting on the back, pleasing others, and are very lazy to use some of their own words to let others do things for themselves, they are particularly selfish, and only know how to protect their own interests.

These babies always like to show off their knowledge in front of people to get appreciated, such behavior is not only not easy to make friends, but also may affect the development of the baby, there is a special love of these babies to take advantage of the small advantage, such a mentality is very terrible, and this is also destined to the baby's pattern will not be too big, and there are babies who especially like to take other people's things, such behavior, very impolite, but also will affect the healthy growth of the baby.

Doing things "two-faced", like to shirk responsibility, like to talk about crooked reasoning, these 3 types of children are actually "fake smart", but they are not productive when they grow up, and parents must correct them in time.

It's just beautiful language, doesn't give practical action, always likes to play clever to get benefits, evade your own responsibilities, live in your own world, and don't care about other people's feelings.

Some babies are particularly good at showing when they are outside, like to steal the limelight, always love to pick up the stubble, and think they are very smart performances, but in fact, these are very naïve performances.

Children will just talk but not do, and they like to talk back, and like to be lazy, in fact, most of this phenomenon of babies is to cater to parents or adults.