What is the experience of going from being passionate about posting on social media to slowly diseng

This is my ......When I first started using WeChat, I was really keen to share my things and feelings in the circle of friends, and then I didn't know why, so I slowly reduced the number of times I posted the status, and then I simply stopped posting, and why, I just felt that I didn't need to put my life on the Internet.

When I was young, I also liked to post on Moments to share my daily joys, sorrows, and sorrows. But now it's only been visible for three days, and I hardly send my own messages, so I feel that the circle of friends can't learn anything nutritious.

Find your whole world all right. In the past, I always kept posting on Moments, broadcasting my life live, hoping to get likes from different people. But then I found out that it was not my real life, it was a deliberate creation, making others feel that they were living well and were tired.

After slowly withdrawing, I found that I was much more relaxed, I could enjoy myself, and I didn't need praise or encouragement from others, this is the real life, no longer noisy, stable and peaceful.

It's more like a slowly maturing mentality, I feel that there is nothing to say anymore, and there is nothing to tell everyone.

I used to want to be a person who had a good relationship with everyone, but I just wanted to take good care of my hard-won friends around me, and I preferred to take care of myself. The mindset has matured.

At first, I really experienced a huge psychological struggle to endure not posting on Moments, but then I didn't have this kind of thought, and I put down social networks and lived a more fulfilling life.

Although many people often show their mood and state through the content posted by the circle of friends, and many people think that the circle of friends is a very important social window, in daily life, we should learn to use the circle of friends to socialize positively, so that we can really make some like-minded friends with ourselves.

First of all, if you want to use the circle of friends to socialize positively, you should publish some positive content in the circle of friends, so that others can feel that you are a positive, sincere person will establish a better first impression of you, and be willing to associate with you.

On the other hand, by using the positive social interaction of the circle of friends, you can also send some knowledge that you are interested in in the circle of friends, and you can also find some like-minded people like yourself through this, because some of your friends in the circle of friends will realize that your interests and hobbies are the same when they see the content of some knowledge they post, which will provide you with a good common topic in the process of daily actual interactions, and will further deepen the feelings between you. It will also further broaden your social circle to a certain extent.

Circle of friends social, in addition to some old friends, use likes and comments to maintain relationships, I found that there are some interesting, that is, you can also make new friends. Some people who are originally strangers can become close through the circle of friends.

For example, strange colleagues who can't be beaten at work, and all kinds of ......

It turned out that the circle of friends sent by each other was very interesting, and they were like-minded people, so they interacted in the circle and made new friends.

Although it is a relatively distorted social phenomenon, it is also a different way to develop interpersonal relationships in such a social atmosphere.

So after a lot of struggle, I decided to continue using it. And try to minimize the number of people who are blocked, try to share some real feelings instead of pretending, so that everyone knows the real me and is happy to meet the real others.