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This, comforting a person is not a simple matter, you see where he is hurt, but time will make him forget, you don't want to deliberately comfort, it will make him more sad.
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Your question is not very detailed, see how you are hurt, whether it is due to a loved one or a lover Just say more comforting words!
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Are you a man? Then don't take the initiative to comfort her, she only asks you to talk, she doesn't need you to talk too much, don't ask for trouble.
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Motivate him with a more touching true story, I watched the news these days, and there was a little girl who took care of her paralyzed mother at the age of 3! Very encouraged.
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Tell her that she is still your beloved mother, and that this is the best comfort we can have for our children.
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Take her out for a crazy time.
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Then coax, if you don't know how to coax, make it up, and you don't make it clear, why are you in a bad mood? For example, if she quarreled with her friend, you said that her friend was wrong or something, and it was OK to make it up by yourself, if you made her angry, then you would compensate her, if you didn't forgive you, you would keep touching your head and smirking over there, she would beat you up when she saw that you were unhappy, and the anger disappeared, and then you were pretending to be pitiful, saying that the place where she hit you hurt very much, so she would also feel distressed, hehe, this is my personal experience, in fact, I am also quite pitiful, not a copy.
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Buy what she likes and give it to her. Care more about her and talk to her. Accompany her to do what she loves.
However, don't forget, you need to ask her why she is upset and then settle the upset. Upstairs said to be gracious, yes yes cooperate, I don't think so, this method is feasible, but in the first two times, you are always like this, your wife has a feeling that you are perfunctory to her, which is counterproductive. Anyway, treat your wife with your sincerity and love your wife well, what else can't be solved.
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Look her in the eye while chatting with her. If she's in the mood yet.
If it's OK, ask her why she's in a bad mood! Have a sincere look, maybe your wife will feel that you care about her, and she will tell you not necessarily. Tell your wife that it's not good to keep your heart to herself, just say what you have, and your mood will be much better.
This trick works!!
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Take her shopping, spending! ~~ok~!
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Just hold her, listen to her complain, it's best not to speak, silence is better than sound at this time.
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Tell him that everything will pass, that it is not bad to start anew, and that there is a harvest from an experience.
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Listen, accompany and please have a big meal.
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Letting himself be quiet and silently behind him is the best comfort.
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Sell small gifts, sell flowers to her, watch movies, and give a little surprise from time to time. No matter what happens to you in the future, no one knows, make good use of the time together, so that she can be the happiest in the wired time and get all your love and care.
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Comfort is not to "entertain oneself", but to "put oneself in their shoes".If you want to comfort someone, you must have empathy, be able to empathize with your heart, and never underestimate the pain of the other party, thinking that "it's not going to", "making a big fuss", one party is willing to tell that you have encountered similar things before, how to come through with a strong heart, maybe you want to think of yourself.
Then you just say dear, let you wait for a long time, I really didn't come in time because of so-and-so, if she really loves you, she will understand you, and in turn will comfort you, will not make you feel guilty, and then you give her a hug, a kiss, and she will forgive you.