How to comfort a friend who has just lost his father?

Updated on society 2024-02-09
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It depends on the personality of your friend. One way is to don't mention it, and it would be better for him to think about it without thinking about it.

    The second way: let him think about his responsibility, his father is gone, then his mother or the elders or juniors who are closer to him still have to take care of him, so he must be strong. Third:

    Quietly accompany him, don't speak, if he can speak, just listen to him, just wait for him to vent. Fourth: For the kind of people who are languishing and extremely decadent, use extreme methods to wake him up.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Accompany him more, if he needs to ,,, work, work, will slowly forget this sadness, his father is going to heaven, the world is not so good, gone, but relaxed, he has a good life, so that his father can rest assured, he is good, his father is at ease...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you can't speak, try not to speak, and you can ask him to eat or drink to distract him, or to induce him to complain.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Be more caring and caring in life. Silence is better than sound at this point.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If it's a man, there's no need to say so much, it's already a favor for all sorts of reasons, and then a meal, a song, and a walk outside (or just ask him out). The more times he lives, the less sad he will be. Because I also have a friend.

    If it's a woman, you can look like it, but say more comforting words.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If it's a particularly good friend, I think you can accompany him, keep in touch often, he will feel your concern, as for what to say, as long as it is not too out of line, there will be no problem, at this time he is sad is certain, try to make him feel warm.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Mourning is changing, birth, old age, sickness and death are normal, and your father doesn't want you to be so sad.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Spend more time with her He is the best help, and everything else is false.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Be sympathetic and put yourself in your shoes.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is no need to say much. Just keep it up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The words of mourning for the departure of the friend's father are as follows:

    1. Birth, old age, sickness and death are natural laws, and death is her ultimate rule, so don't be too sad.

    2. When the reality cannot be changed, we can only learn to be strong, flowers bloom and fall, everything in the world has a beginning and an end, it belongs to the laws of nature, please don't be sad, life has to go on.

    3. Birth, old age, sickness and death, the law of nature! Don't be too sad, he will feel your filial piety.

    4. We should now sincerely wish the deceased his sincere wishes, and wish him a good journey and rest in peace under the nine springs.

    5. Birth, old age, sickness and death are the most common things, people cannot be resurrected after death, and people should live well, otherwise the old people will not rest in peace.

    6. Your relatives have passed away, don't be too sad and sad, in heaven, he won't like you to be so depressed, cheer up, work hard, and head your relatives.

    7. Those who go out rest in peace, and those who live to see should summon up a single breath to face life again, I will be by your side to accompany you and support you! Obikyo Shun Change.

    8. People are going to go, whether to live or die is not something you can decide, he is an old man who goes to another place to live happily than in the world, and the festival is smooth and changeable.

    9. Don't be too sad. Take care of your body.

    10. People cannot be resurrected after death, and the strength of the living is the best comfort for the deceased. We have grown up, and it is impossible for our relatives to accompany us for a lifetime, we will eventually face this day, and I am sad that something like this happened, I hope you will be strong.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Comfort:

    1) I can no longer hear the warm advice, I can no longer see the kind figure, let the sad tears fill my eyes, let the thoughts drift away, I am shocked to hear the bad news, and the heart is sad. Condolences!

    2) The happiness of the living is the best comfort for the deceased, for the hope of the elderly, you must work hard to make yourself happy!

    3) I deeply mourn the loss of your loved ones.

    4) You have to be strong, the departed, the one who wants to live, do not grieve because of his departure, and ask your heirs to share for him every minute and every second that he will not enjoy.

    5) Life always comes and goes in the world, although his relatives are no longer there, but he left this world with a smile, he has gone through his life completely without worry, let him go all the way!

    (6) Loved ones will watch you from heaven. With you. Loved ones will always be there for you. It's just that you can't see him anymore.

    7) Shocked to hear that you have suffered the pain of losing your mother, empathize, and live a long life, I hope you will mourn and change, take care of your body, and the future will be long.

    8) I didn't know how to continue without you, but I knew that you didn't want to see me like this, but I wiped away my tears and regained my faith, so that you could see a positive me like in heaven. I wish you the best of luck all the way.

    9) I deeply mourn to hear the sad news.

    10) Human nature, everyone can not understand the pain of losing a loved one, we can only pray silently for the dead in our hearts, hoping that they will live well in another paradise.

    11) Human life, birth, old age, sickness and death, are all naturally planned, people are young and old, one day they will leave us, maybe your grandfather loves you very much, so you will be very sad, but even more your grandfather does not expect you to be so sad, cheer up.

    12) Man will always die, he can go with peace of mind! Don't be too sad.

    13) Don't be too sad, he can look at us. When we are happy, he can feel at ease, this is his old man's greatest wish, isn't it?

    14) When a person dies like a lamp goes out, mourn by the way, don't be too sad bird, remember him in your heart.

    15) Everyone has this time, in fact, everyone will face it, maybe for the old people to leave is the beginning of another life, and they will remain in our hearts.

    16) Your relatives are just in places where you can't see you, but they can see you, they don't want to make you have a bad time because of them, let them know that you are not a strong person and will not let them down.

    17) People cannot be resurrected after death, and the strength of the living is the best comfort for the dead. We have grown up, and it is impossible for our relatives to accompany us for a lifetime, we will eventually face this day, and I am sad that something like this happened, I hope you will be strong.

    18) Her old man is liberated, to enjoy happiness, people cannot be resurrected after death, and grandma in the spirit of heaven certainly does not want her children and grandchildren to be so sad.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1. Quiet companionship.

    You can accompany him quietly, after all, any language is pale and powerless at this time, it is better to be by his side, get along quietly, be silent or take a walk with him, so that it will feel better to have a friend by your side.

    2. Empathy.

    If you have had a similar experience, you will understand his feelings, so you can also tell him how he came out of that sad and sad day, so that he can understand that life still has to go on.

    3. Care and companionship.

    In this case, his life may be chaotic for a period of time, and his daily life is irregular, so you should accompany and care for him more, see what he needs, help as much as possible, and take care of the diet and daily life of friends.

    4. Go with the flow.

    Although the reality of the death of relatives is very cruel, it is still necessary to accept the reality, after all, this is also the law of nature, and it should be natural, not to mention that everyone was very filial when the old man was there, and now that he is gone, there should be no regrets, so that friends can be relieved.

    5. Distraction.

    Although the loss of a loved one is very painful, you can't always indulge in it, so find a way to distract your friends and don't think about sad things, such as distracting some of your energy from work or children, so that the pain will be lessened.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Father's Day is a particularly difficult time for those who have lost their fathers. Here are some suggestions that may help comfort them:

    1.Show empathy and understanding. Tell them that you understand their pain and grief and know that this is a particularly difficult time.

    2.Encourage them to express their feelings. Losing a loved one is a very personal experience, and everyone deals with emotions differently. Encourage them to keep a journal, talk to friends or family, or seek professional psychological help.

    3.Remind them to care about themselves. After the loss of a loved one, it is easy to fall into grief and forget to take care of your emotional and physical health. Remind them to take care of themselves and maintain a healthy lifestyle.

    4.Encourage them to share their memories and feelings with others. This can help them deal with their grief and build deeper connections with others.

    5.Give support and encouragement. Losing a loved one is a difficult time, but they need to know that they are not alone and that they have someone to care for and support them.

    Above all, comfort for someone who has lost a father takes time and patience. Grief takes time to ease, but with the support and understanding of others, they can gradually move on to a new life.

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