Like someone and not getting a response, how long can you last at most

Updated on parenting 2024-03-12
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Distance is the test of true love, and time is the answer.

    For the sake of the people you love, please make some sacrifices to keep your love.

    Otherwise, how can we talk about true love.

    You can forget your previous vows, but remember your true heart.

    Ask yourself, do you love so much?

    Are you willing to hurt both?

    Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when it is tired.

    Life is not a good life for one person.

    It's how two people live well together.

    But for some objective reasons, in reality you can't be together at the moment.

    Do you just give up so easily and make compromises?

    Can't you keep it for love?

    Do you allow yourself to be so short-sighted and only see the happiness in front of you?

    Is this the end of my life?

    If it is true love, it will never give up.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    As a person who has come over, I suggest you choose to let it go.

    Since not receiving a response means rejection, I suggest that you still choose to let go and bless himpeople

    Sometimes, liking doesn't mean being blessed together, and you need to learn to let go and bless you.

    Let me share with you the example of my high school classmates:

    I have a high school boy who has always had a crush on a female classmate in his class, and he has always liked this female classmate from the beginning of high school to the time he came out to work, and he has never changed. In fact, this female classmate knew that this male classmate liked her, but she really didn't like him, so she kept rejecting him. Even so, the male classmates did not give up the pursuit of the female classmates.

    Until one day, when a male classmate met a female classmate on the street and her boyfriend were holding hands and shopping together, he was completely dead. He said: The person I love, she already has a lover, and from their eyes, it shows that he is impossible.

    So he decided to give up his pursuit of her and bless them.

    Summary:

    From this incident, you can realize a truth: sometimes the person you love, she already has a lover, and she makes the choice that she feels is right. Then we should bless her and respect her choice at this time.

    After all, love can't be forced, just like a twisted melon is not sweet, the same truth.

    Finally, I hope mine is helpful to you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think you should continue to persevere, and if you don't get a response, it means that the other party doesn't like you, don't keep persevering, it doesn't make any sense.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think it's going to hold on anymore, a relationship that doesn't get a response is just a waste of time and won't lead to anything.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't think there's any need to insist, since the other party doesn't respond, it means that he doesn't like you, so there's no point in continuing.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Like someone, even if you don't cover your mouth and speak, your love will jump out of your eyes. If feelings can be restrained, what is the use of the heart, when you like someone, you will unconsciously think about him all the time, desperately and actively look for him, and offer him all kinds of courtesy. You treat that person well because you like him.

    Because instinctively wanting to be nice to him. At the same time, you actually want to be loved by yourself, to be reciprocated, and to make him like you. After all, like him, that's your business, but you're really not great, ask for payment, don't ask for compensation.

    It's the same for anyone. Hoping that your love is not wishful thinking, but that it will get a good outcome. People who like to get no response should stop appropriately.

    In some relationships, when you like that person and are kind to that person in every possible way, that person doesn't just enjoy your devotion, but gives you an equal response, you don't have to think too much. Although you cherish that feeling, you don't have to think too much. It's just that if that person knows your heart, is cold to you, and completely repulsive, you'd better not pay him anymore.

    Love that doesn't get a response should be stopped in moderation. Because of him, he really doesn't like you. Someone who also has a crush on you, he won't watch you do that for him.

    But without any indication at all, he will give you the same enthusiasm very clearly. The one who doesn't show you anything, it's not that he doesn't understand your love, he just doesn't want to understand and pretends not to understand.

    If you show it all to the other party, when you find that the other party does not respond to you, this feeling is like an hourglass, at the beginning when the other party is chasing you, your heart is full, and the sand is all leaked down, but when the other party does not respond to you, it is like turning the hourglass upside down, the sand that filled your heart before is also losing little by little over time, you want to stop, but you can't stop at all, although the speed of the sand falling is not very fast, but your heart that was originally filled with the loss of sand, It's also slowly becoming empty.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Shouldn't. If the person is interested, they will already agree to your courtship, and there is no chance that you will have to wait so long, so don't continue to like it, it is a waste of time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You shouldn't continue, which means that the other person doesn't like you at all, so there won't be any results for the two of you, and there's no need to waste time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Personally, don't continue to like it, if you don't get a response, it means that this person has no feelings for you, and this will not end well.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You shouldn't continue to like it, people don't respond to you, if you are alone in unrequited love, it is also very big to think about yourself, and it will also make you particularly painful.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It shouldn't be, since there is no corresponding response, it means that the other party doesn't like you at all, and this relationship will hurt you after all.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think it should, liking someone is uncontrollable, if he is really worthy of your liking, then you might as well keep liking and be brave to chase, maybe he will be moved by you one day.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Of course it shouldn't, it means that the other party doesn't mean this at all, and the relationship should end as soon as possible.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think we should still like each other in such a situation, because it is our business to like someone, it has nothing to do with the other person, and we should not expect to get a response from the other person.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Your response is my reason to continue!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    <> should give up, that's what I really think.

    Reason 1, because even if you marry this person by accident, it will be a disaster for both of you, a farce and a tragedy, and you have to take an innocent child.

    Reason 2: Since there is no response, how many years do you wait for this person to respond. I remember that day my mother accompanied me to the county No. 1 middle school to register, we have never seen the world in the countryside, looking at such a big school did not know that the new students signed up in **. While my mother and I were hesitating, a boy walked by.

    The mother said, "Shall we ask our classmates?" "。

    I saw the boy look back and smile and say, "You are a freshman who signed up?" "I said:

    Well. "He said, "Go that way, and I will take you."

    We followed him and turned the corner, and he said, "Go straight and you'll be there." I'm not going.

    I said thank you.

    But when I sat in the classroom, I found that he was sitting behind me, and it turned out that we were classmates, because I changed clothes, and he didn't recognize me at all. He was very good in his class, and I fell in love with him like this, and other female classmates also had a crush on him.

    Unrequited love. The feeling of pain is also blissful. I went to work and I told him what I thought, but he didn't respond and didn't say no.

    I kept waiting, I thought he would come to me when he went to college and went to work, at least to see me. As a result, I waited for six years and didn't wait, and I didn't see each other for thirty years. Not giving up will only waste your time and miss out on the admirers around you.

    So why should we suffer?

    Reason three, do you love this person and don't want him to be happy? Since he didn't respond, it means that he doesn't love you, and he won't be happy with you. Why don't we let go of our obsessions and wish this person happiness to find him.

    As the saying goes, a twisted melon is not sweet, your deep friendship can't move him, and you can't synchronize emotionally, even if it's barely in everything, what's the use? He won't care about you, won't coax you, won't share the responsibilities on your shoulders for you, won't see all your efforts and dedication, won't shield you from the wind and rain, and won't even let you rely on him, are you willing to live like this?

    Since you love him, let him keep the way you love and forget about the rivers and lakes, not all good things in life can be had, keep the beauty in mind, step forward, appreciate and love. There will be the right one for you, who is waiting for you on the way!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I don't think there's really any need to continue to insist, if you don't get a response all the time, it means that this person doesn't mean anything to you at all, and I think some feelings should be given up in time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There's no need to insist anymore, if you like someone but don't get a response, it's time to give up the relationship.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Not necessarily. If the other party has not responded, it may be because they don't like you, so there is no need to insist.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't think there's any need to hold on anymore, because you've been holding on for so long and still haven't gotten a response, so why waste your youth and time on that person, why not shift your eyes to someone who deserves to be loved?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You like her for a long time, but you don't get a response, it means that he She doesn't like you, then give up! It is very uncomfortable to give up someone I have liked for a long time, but I suddenly feel very relaxed. Liking him will bring him sadness and guilt, and liking him will make you less and less like yourself, more and more afraid of saying the wrong thing, and more and more carefully pay attention to him and give him.

    Yes, sometimes our liking is nothing more than wishful thinking. So giving up is also salvation. The greatest difficulty for people is to know themselves, and the easiest thing is to know themselves.

    Many times, we don't recognize ourselves because we put ourselves in the wrong place and give ourselves an illusion. Give up, just let him She slowly pass by your whole world as time passes; Once the sea was infinitely emotional, I only wish the past to follow the wind!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Give it up.

    There is no reason, there is no reason not to respond to feelings that are not worth your possession and persistence!

    Feelings are a matter of two people.

    A person waits hard, a person waits hard, a person thinks day and night, and a person thinks ...... fruitlessIt's really not worth it!

    Feelings are not child's play! In terms of feelings, you need to be sincere, correspond to each other, and have each other!

    Brothers and sisters need love and affection when they are together, there is affection between friends, feelings between colleagues, and there is even more need for affection and ...... between husband and wife

    Human society has feelings, and so do the animal world. Living with someone who has no feelings loses the meaning of life.

    There is an emotion in the world called "like", and the other is called "love".

    Love is when he is there, and he is the only one in his eyes; In his absence, everything carries his shadow.

    I like to think of him suddenly when I read a book late at night, imagining what he is doing now, and there is a fluttering warmth in my heart, but I never take the initiative to call him **.

    After a few minutes, the attention was drawn back to the plot in the book!

    If a simple attraction does not get a response, then it should not be so humble, humble to the dust, and it will not blossom.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Giving up, because there is no positive response, is not liking your performance, or using you as a spare tire.

    I've met a lot of girls like this, not to say they like it, but they don't say they don't like it, it's just that there are a lot of boys hanging when they have a normal friend. Maybe it's to satisfy vanity.

    Treating you as a spare tire is disrespectful to you, and if you succeed in becoming her boyfriend, then how can you be sure that he is not hanging the same boy as you used to.

    Such a girl is very defensive, even if you are together, it is difficult for your love to have results, she hangs a lot of boys at the same time, then he will also think that you will do the same? The suspicion of you will be heavy, and over time you will be very annoyed, so you will not be happy, so you should give up.

    There is a popular saying on the Internet, she has lost someone who loves her, and what you have lost is only someone who doesn't love you, and in comparison, she has lost even more.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Love that does not get a response must know how to stop in moderation. A person who does not have you in his or her heart, if you are good to him (her), will not enter his (her) heart. No matter how hard you try, it's all in vain. If a person doesn't have you in his heart, everything you do is wrong.

    But how many people know that there is no result, but they still can't control their inner impulses. put on a posture of "if you don't reach the Yellow River, you won't die", but in the end, you realized that a lot of blood could not get any response from the other party, but she was already covered in bruises. In fact, it is not the other party's desperation that hurts you, but your insistence on fantasy.

    Sometimes, it's good to work hard, don't waste too much time and feelings on the wrong person, don't wait until you're bruised all over your body to know what pain is, and then reluctantly let go of your hand. Everyone's time and affection are limited, please take back the unaccepted effort and use it for the right people and worthy people.

    When you give a long time to someone and are not accepted, you have to understand that it is not your feelings. has always been in the initiative in love, no matter how strong the person is, he will feel tired. Sometimes feelings are like this, your liking is not called surprise in the eyes of the other party, but disturbed.

    Don't be under the illusion that you can move the other person, because the other person doesn't care how hard you work for the relationship between the two people. So, when it's time to let go, you need to let go.

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