What should I do if the ticket is found to be in love without telling my parents

Updated on educate 2024-03-06
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's better to go home early in the evening, after all, you are young, so as not to worry your family, and early love is nothing, but you have to be self-respecting, otherwise you will be pregnant and your family will know, then the matter will be a big problem.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then recruit it truthfully, tell your parents about your boyfriend, talk about your two situations, and find a suitable time to show your parents.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You don't need to hide this, just communicate with your parents.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's over, why deceive, you are not filial.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you really love each other, there is no need to hide it, if your parents don't agree with you to fall in love, you can not tell it, wait until the time is ripe to say it, if you find out, you can remain silent, don't say anything, the law does not stipulate that you are not allowed to fall in love, even if your parents know it, they can't help you, as long as you are sincere, I believe that after your parents know 1, 2 years or even 6, 7, years later, they will agree to you, if your parents are reasonable people, then they will not interfere with your freedom of love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hide from it. If you find out, you will say that this is a person's physiological and spiritual need...Ask me. "Wasn't you in love before? ”

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think that since I have been discovered, I should be honest and discuss.

    Honest attitude, honest attitude is very important, if you fall in love, and deliberately cover it up, it is difficult to convince the other party that you love each other. The attitude of courage to take responsibility, to fall in love is to talk about love, there is nothing unseemly, to admit bravely, and to be willing to take all the responsibility for this, this is a responsible person.

    A serious attitude towards feelings, as long as you show your sincerity, the other party can feel it, and your parents can understand it, to a certain extent, falling in love is your own business, and your parents' opinions can only be used as a reference, not as a substitute for making decisions. Of course, if you are a student and fall in love, it may affect your studies, so if your parents find out, you should also communicate with your parents and tell you what you really think.

    I don't think it's okay, maybe I'll feel a little embarrassed in my heart, try to keep a little distance from the subject. First of all, you must ensure that it will not affect your learning, and even get better, your parents must be afraid that you will affect your learning, so if your learning is not affected, your parents should not be so opposed. The attitude should be frank and honest, and the action should be responsible and responsible.

    So let's talk about it again, that is, when you really face the parents, you must keep your senses in front of the parents and the teacher, and explain clearly: 1You haven't done anything out of the ordinary.

    2.It's normal for young people to fall in love at the beginning, and although parents will say that they can meet better people in the future, at least there is no one who likes each other more than each other now. 3.

    You know that the most important thing now is your studies, and you will never let love delay your studies, and you will not openly ignore me and me at school.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Uh, didn't your parents let you fall in love while you were in college?

    In fact, I think most people's parents, if their children go to college, they are generally urging them to find a partner, what is the situation in your family? I think you should have a good talk with your parents, well, if they don't let you talk during college, then when you graduate, don't rush you to get married. There is such a coincidence in this world, and you just have the right person as soon as you graduate?

    Who doesn't walk and watch, and when they meet the right person, they are there!

    Anyway, I personally think that I found out when I found it, and I didn't do anything earth-shattering, so it's not worth being afraid of. Besides, when you were in college, you were an adult and had the right to fall in love, so why should you be controlled by your parents. Of course, if your parents are worried that you are hurt, it is even more unnecessary, emotional things still have to be experienced by yourself, no matter how much they feel sorry for you, they can't replace you.

    Also, I really think you should let your parents know about college life now. You have met the right person, and you have a heart-to-heart relationship, not to say that you treat your relationship as a child's play and just play around, they don't need to worry too much about your heart. If what they mind is that you are concealing, then it is your fault, you should apologize to your parents, they have the right to know, you have to let them know your relationship status.

    The single people in our dormitory, every time they come to school during the Spring Festival, they are sad that their parents and relatives are torturing them if they have a boyfriend, and if they don't, they will urge them to find one quickly, so helpless! So, you see, today's parents are really accustomed to falling in love during college, and some people even think that it is abnormal not to fall in love.

    In short, talk to your parents and believe they can understand you! I guess they're worried about you, and the rest of them should be happy for you, because someone takes care of you, isn't it? What about you, don't think too seriously about the problem, relax!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If your boyfriend is a very good person, it doesn't matter if his parents find out, be frank and lenient, and tell your parents that you are with him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The default subject is a student. I believe that most parents have not yet agreed so openly, so they can make an agreement and continue after going to college, which can also test the relationship between the two.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then admit it directly, after all, they have all been discovered, but you must explain to them that you will not delay learning, so that they may be more at ease.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think when you reach a certain age, your parents won't say anything when you find out when you are in love, but if you are young, your parents find out, and you sit down with your parents and talk about it, because this is also something that everyone encounters in adolescence.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It is your right to be in love with friends, and no one will interfere with you. But you fell in love a little earlier, because you are in the ** period of studying, and falling in love too early will affect learning.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think it's good to tell them directly, because the relationship is between two people, and it can't be decided by others.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Then tell your parents generously that you are in love, and then tell your parents that you will be clean and self-conscious, many times parents oppose falling in love because they are worried that their children will be deceived.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think it's normal for your parents to find out about falling in love, because if you end up getting married, your parents will definitely know about it. The most important thing is what you think in your heart, and I think you should communicate carefully with your parents.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you don't admit it, then fight underground, fight wits and courage, and love is stronger than gold. Love will not delay learning, but being beaten by a stick will delay learning.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Not beat around the bush. Because family members are the people closest to you, the people who care about you the most, and even the people who know you best. So, you should be honest with yourself.

    Besides, it is more comfortable to fall in love secretly and not necessarily in love, as well as to get the support of your family or to fall in love after understanding. Even if your family doesn't agree at first, you can talk to them about why they don't agree and what you can do to reassure them. For example, if they think that you are still young and ignorant, you can say that you can take responsibility for your actions and promise that you are just holding hands and hugging you now, and you will not do anything more excessive.

    If your parents say that they are afraid that you will affect your studies, you say that we will only date when we ensure the progress of our grades, and if we can't do it then, we will not date until your grades are stable, and then consider it, I believe your parents will also understand you. So if you can consider your parents' concerns one by one and make decisions that reassure them, your parents must feel that you are a sensible and reassuring child, who will not interfere too much in your decisions, and will only remind you when you need help, because they also believe that you will have your own ideas and considerations and support you behind your back. Besides, your parents watched you grow up since childhood, if you lie, you are sure that you can hide from them, how can you fulfill the lies one by one, when you lie to them, don't you have a disturbed conscience, so I think that confession is the best way, and it will also deepen your family relationship, and lying is undoubtedly not an insurmountable gap between you and your family.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hehe. If you get all the scores, it means you're really in trouble, and I'm only 17 years old. I also have a girlfriend, and my parents also know about the version of hunger. All you have to do now is confess!

    You know? You have to confess.

    If you don't confess, you will be very passive in continuing to associate with him in the future, and if you are not hungry, you will talk to your parents directly, and you must say it well.

    Say that you are measured, say that you don't have him, the grades may fall, let them give you a chance, if the results come down, immediately talk to him 88 and then be obedient at home.

    Ordinary parents will agree as long as we don't get grades, and I used to be like this before.

    But my sister asked me to say rough, so I told you.

    My mother didn't scold me, she told me that you must put your studies first and don't do things that you regret!

    Hehe. You can try it, and if necessary (if you think it's worth it) you can threaten your parents. For example, a few hunger strikes. It's okay, but it's hard for your parents, but there's no way about it.

    I've been playing for a long time, too. Give it points!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Many parents have also come all the way from childhood to adulthood, and many parents have experienced it when they were young, so they must be clear about their own situation, learn to communicate with their families, and when you have the ability and maturity, your family can rest assured that you can bear it yourself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It depends on whether you are a student or already working. It is normal for college students to fall in love in the future, and their mentality is already relatively mature. and specialized.

    Parents should communicate well, and it is appropriate to listen to their opinions, because parents want their children to be well.

    When you fall in love before college, the key problem is that you are young, your mentality is not mature enough, you are easily impulsive, and you are driven by feelings to do wrong things, so that you can hurt yourself. For example, the decline in academic performance, as well as premature sex, many young men and women do not understand this knowledge, resulting in pregnancy and even sexually transmitted diseases, a lifetime of pain, and regret it too late.

    You should talk more about emotional matters with parents, parents are experienced people who have come over, and can teach you to grasp the "degree", of course, this also requires parents to understand a little education.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Parents are just worried that your studies will be affected by love, you just need to communicate well with your family members and prove to them that you will not affect your studies because of love.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    During the school period, it is still necessary to focus on academics, especially in junior high and high school.

    Waiting for you to go to college dao

    Yes, there is time for you to fall in love.

    Now that the right has been discovered, it has been discovered, the facts have been placed here, and it cannot be solved.

    It's good to let them know, but don't let the love affair affect your studies. Best wishes

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You need to communicate well, everyone has had such an experience, and only when you make it clear can you know what the result will be.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You just say that I have grown up, I don't need to worry about you, I can live well by myself, I don't need you to worry about it, and then lock the door and don't come out, and your parents will definitely agree at this time. This is called the method of agitation.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Admitting that there are parents means that they are psychologically underage, and since they are psychologically underage, don't deal with the object lightly.

    It should be clear: the natural goal of the subject is to get married and have children, the woman's mobility is greatly reduced during pregnancy, the medical needs are skyrocketing, and the child needs to be taken care of after birth, can you do this? If you can't do it, you can wait, and you can usually do it after adulthood.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Look at the attitude of the parents, many parents oppose it is to affect learning, followed by the fear of physical and mental injury, if you are usually more sensible, you will generally be allowed to make it clear to your parents, but if your parents are resolutely opposed, you still have to refer to their opinions.

    Although it is a bit exaggerated to hear that the food they eat is not as much salt as they eat, the opinions of parents are more mature opinions accumulated over many years, and there is nothing wrong with listening to them and referring to them.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Different ages need different communication methods, high school students reference: tell parents that you are based on mutual help, learning from each other to come together, two people agreed to be admitted to a good university together, during this period are focused on learning, will not do anything out of the ordinary.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You should be honest with your parents. If you're a student, you should make it clear. You should also show that your relationship will not affect your grades, and you should also use it as motivation, what if you are admitted to a different school when you graduate?

    So study hard. As long as it doesn't interfere with your studies, your parents will understand you, after all, they are also from the past.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Be honest with them, and then say the reasons why you want to be in a relationship. If as a girl, you can say that if it weren't for you boys, we wouldn't be in love, and if you were a boy, you can say that it wasn't you who asked me to have a girlfriend early. said that the ratio of men and women is out of balance now, let's find it quickly, otherwise there will be no daughter-in-law in the future.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    In fact, if you tell your family well, your family will still understand, after all, this kind of thing depends on your own wishes. But what parents mean is that they can't affect learning and can't touch the bottom line, so they should pay attention to it and let them rest assured.

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