What is the boundary between a boy s gentleness and motherhood?

The gentleness of a boy is a character, and the mother is a state. If you have to distinguish the boundaries between them, you may have to look at them from several boundaries.

The first is the boundaries of attitudes towards others. A lot of gentle boys will make people feel like a spring breezeThey do things like a spring breeze and are very attentive in most cases. For example, one of my elders is such a person, he also has his own elder attitude, but he is very gentle to his parents, siblings, and juniors.

Even if he is criticizing, you will take your position into account. So we all like him very much, think he is an empathetic person, and are very willing to communicate with him. But mother's people are more self-conscious, his appearance may be a little feminine, even more pretentious than a girl.

Such people are often calculating, and usually don't care too much about other people's thoughts and attitudes, and live more self-consciously. So getting along with such a person can be embarrassing.

The second is the boundaries of resilience in the face of adversity. Most gentle people are resilient, they can endure when faced with difficulties, and there will be outbursts. That's what we always say, don't mess with the meek, because it's terrible for the meek to get angry.

So gentle people don't mean that they don't have explosiveness, there is an old saying that it's too rigid and easy to break, and gentle people can avoid such shortcomings. And mother's people will babble when they are in trouble, and they will collapse at any time. Some boys who are more motherly will even think that they are a little princess, so how can a little princess be wronged?

They are like children who don't grow up and want to be the center of attention anytime, anywhere. Like a child, he has no ability to resist difficulties.

The third is the boundary of responsibility. Although some boys are superficially indisputable, they have no problem taking responsibility. It should be their responsibility, and they will do it seriously, and it is also because they are more gentle than other boys, so they will complete it more meticulously.

And the boys who are more motherly may have some deficiencies in terms of taking the initiative. They are very weak on the surface, and what they do makes people feel very unreliable. Sometimes they will habitually shirk their responsibilities, maybe they themselves think that they are just gentle, but in fact, others have no way to experience the warmth brought by gentleness from her.

It can be seen that although the gentleness of boys and motherhood have some superficial commonalities, as long as you have contact with them, you will deeply appreciate the difference between the two. A gentle boy doesn't show his weakness easily, but a boy who is a mother takes weakness for granted.

There is a clear boundary between the gentleness of boys and motherhood.

Gentleness means that a person speaks softly, has a good temper to people, and is not rude.

Niang refers to the boy who speaks very squeamishly, and some behaviors are feminine.

The gentleness of the boy shows that this person is more generous, more tolerant, and more manly, while the mother is obscene. There is no obvious boundary between motherhood and gentleness, it can only be said that it is the temperament and behavior shown in a certain environment!

Temperament difference bar! The more real a man is, the more gentle and attractive he is.

Mother is like a tender woman, gentle and gentle in everything. Gentleness is a very considerate expression of love and care.

Mother is character, gentleness is temperament.

If you look at it, you are gentle, and if you don't like it, you will call it a mother.

Sometimes I like that kind of man who is more motherly.,It's because I think,Wow,It looks so gentle.。。。

So I don't know either.

Gentle boys are romantic, thoughtful and warm, and they exude a masculine charm that is a fatal attraction.

And very girly boys, they themselves are feminine, and if they are gentle, they will make people feel more feminine and lack masculinity. In fact, girls don't like boys who are too motherly, they all like that kind of masculine and gentle men.

I think the biggest difference between the two is that one will make people feel very romantic, and the other will make people feel like throwing up.

The fundamental reason comes from gender and personality, for example, a very ordinary action, a girl makes it very gentle, and an old man makes it very girly, there is a negation of gender, that is, mother, it means that this person has done something that does not conform to gender.

It's easy to distinguish between gentleness and motherhood, and the two are completely different states.

Gentleness gives people a very comfortable feeling, will make people like it more and more, has a unique charm, is a temperament from the inside out.

And the mother is different, giving people an uncomfortable feeling, and even making people feel disgusted. For example, a mother's person will have orchid fingers and a thin voice, but gentleness will not.

Gentleness is a description of character, an inner feeling, an attitude towards people, giving people a feeling of psychological warmth, which exists for both men and women. Niang is to describe a man, and Niang gives people the impression that a man is not masculine enough, has no manhood, and behaves like a woman. It's a derogatory term, so the difference between gentleness and motherhood is quite big.

Gentleness and mother are two completely different states, only when you treat the people you care about, you can show a gentle attitude, so gentleness is shown to others, and mother is a psychological state in your own heart, no matter who you will show.

There is still a big difference between gentleness and mother, if a person is very gentle, it feels very comfortable, whether it is a man or a woman, but the mother generally describes a man, you can think about it, if a big man is girly all day long, whoever sees it will be uncomfortable.

Nature is different, mother is a feminine trait expressed by men, some people will be very annoying, and gentleness is a kind from the bottom of the heart, kind to people, gentle and a character trait, such people will not be disliked.

I think gentleness and motherhood are two unrelated concepts, one is the inner character, and the other is the external performance. The gentle boy makes people feel comfortable like a spring breeze, while the boy with the mother of the orchid finger is disgusting.

Gentleness is attitude, motherhood is manners.

Being able to understand people and things, being able to caring, and speaking humbly are all manifestations of gentleness.

Isn't there a saying that a slender gentleman is as soft as jade?

The mother is behaving and acting with a daughter's anger, procrastination, undecisiveness, cowardice, etc.

It's not a few words that can be said clearly. But I believe you can understand it.

Gentleness is often used to describe a person's temperament as docile and considerate. Don't lose your temper and care about others.

Niang refers to a mother-in-law in behavior, just like a woman, but not necessarily caring about people.

Gentleness is the maneuver of a gentleman. Mother is like a woman's movements, behaviors, and behavior, and you can observe a woman's behavior and some small movements.

Look closely, the mother is ......There is a female psyche.

Will you often raise your orchid fingers, pretend to be shy, and cover your mouth when you laugh?

Love is a gratuitous giving, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since you choose love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, when he (she) is happy with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad to him (her) comfort. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm.

Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a token that does not fade....All this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

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Seeing what you say, it is a child with good character, and it will be very angry to see that the people you love (relatives, friends, lovers) are hurt. It shows that this man is still a hot-blooded young man.

Summary: Gentle and kind gentlemen.

Be gentle. It's so obvious.

Whether a boy is a mother or not, I think from these aspects. The first is to look at the posture of his talking and walking, speaking femininely, walking and twisting, looking at the posture like a lady.

Look at the way he does things, he is indecisive in doing things, and he can't make up his mind about anything. As long as you have these two characteristics, you can basically characterize this boy as a very girl.

There is a male colleague in my unit, who is very girly. He speaks softly and softly, and he is very weak in handling things. But usually, I always treat him as a woman, and never treat him as a boy.

But to be honest, his strength is greater than that of a girl, and if the unit has some strength to work, he can still do it.

The personality of a very motherly man is a bit like a woman, he speaks softly, pays attention to his appearance and hairstyle, likes to wear leggings, loves cleanliness very much, and feels disgusting when he smells bad in public.

A boy should have the courage of a boy, and it can be seen from the following aspects that the first is to speak softly and softly, like a woman.

Second, walking, lightly, slowly, lacking masculinity, third, doing things, indecisive, and not having all the strength that men should have, they may be seen as very motherly by this man.

I think that a boy is a special girl, he must have some characteristics of girls, for example, some boys are particularly interested in some of girls' outfits, hairstyles and makeup, and always ask you, what brand of blush and lipstick is this cushion? Bought in**? Sometimes she is like a little girl, and she is angry about a little thing.

Everyone's definition of a boy is different, and my definition has these aspects, so I would like to share it with you.

The hair is long and not cut. As a boy, if the hair is over the ears, then I think the boy is a little cold. Especially in school, I saw a boy with his hair up to his waist and didn't even pay attention to it. It may be art in other people's eyes, but in my eyes, it is a mother.

Spoke like a girl. A boy's voice is not imposing, but very gentle, very delicate, and it sounds very uncomfortable. The boy with this kind of voice, I also think it's a sissy.

I like to be more than an orchid finger, and I wear it very colorfully, and I am also transformed. Such a boy, I think it's also a mother.

The first is the speaking aspect. If the boy speaks softly, he has no confidence at all. will be considered a mother. Other than that, it's walking. Walking is also very careful, there is no sound at all, and the posture is very strange, so it will be considered a mother.

1. The language style of ordinary speaking, as a boy, you must have a mature and stable style, if you don't have a little manhood, you will easily become a boy's mother.

2. The usual dress will also affect others' perception of him, he must dress more gentlemanly, if he pursues girlhood or **, then he will also become a typical boy.

Speak femininely, speak with a small voice, and do not have the masculinity of a man!

Doing things femininely, moving slowly, always doing things half a beat slower than others, and some movements are very much like women, such boys are very disgusted by both men and women, because you have exceeded the imagination of others!

The boy's mother is a feminine appearance in the world, and she is very gentle when she speaks, her voice is soft, and she is more charming than a girl when she speaks, and she has a sense of sissy existence.

The boy's mother is still a sense of existence in words and deeds, that is, the way of dealing with life and life is more than that of girls, and the morning and twilight of the world are no less exquisite than the delicate world of girls.

The boy's mother also has a sense of existence in the social world, there will be the hesitation of the girl's personality, and there will be stage fright if she is too introverted, which makes others think that the boy is too weak.

1. The voice is very small and soft.

Men who are more motherly generally speak in a very small voice, like a cat's meow, and soft. The decibel is the kind you can't hear until you get close to him. They have the appearance of a man, but they have a little woman's heart.

2. Eight characters in walking.

The average boy walks outside the eight characters, and the man who is more motherly is always different from others, always likes to be the eight characters, and always likes to dance to express some things, such a man must be more girly.

3. I like to express my feelings when chatting.

Most of the more manly men chat concisely and to the point, and they won't talk too much nonsense with you, and they won't flirt with you. And the more motherly man wants to send a few expressions when he says three sentences, whether it is to a man or a woman.

4. There are few friends of the same sex and many friends of the opposite sex.

Because the character is more girly, it's really hard to play with those real men. The man with a strong masculinity usually looks down on this kind of feminine man, and even dislikes it. So in addition to being able to play with boys with the same personality, the rest of the men are only girls.