Can t forget the predecessor, is it the biggest injustice to the incumbent?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-14
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Sort of, the ex is always in the past tense, and he will never come back, since he has broken up, don't worry about it anymore, live the present, and treat the current one well.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    That's right. The predecessor is in the past, so we must find a way to forget him, look at the current one, and see more of the current one, the current one is the one who will accompany you for a lifetime, and you must have a grateful heart to treat the current one.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think yes, not being able to forget your ex is unfair to your current partner, because he may be wholeheartedly devoted to you, and you have someone else in mind.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Not necessarily, being fair to the current doesn't require you to completely forget about your ex, you can just keep your ex in your heart and stop taking any action to miss it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I can't forget my predecessor, but I feel sorry for the current one, what should I do? Break up with your current one, reconcile with your ex, and don't accept the current girl right away if you think you can't let your ex go yet. If she really loves you, she won't mind waiting a little longer.

    If you don't, if your ex regrets it and he wants to come back to you, and then he sees another girl next to you, you will never get a chance to be with her. Not to mention how passive you are with such mixed emotions.

    Always feeling guilty. One is guilty for quickly turning a relationship into a new one, and the other is guilty for thinking of a relationship in front of a girl with a pounding heart! I don't want to rise above feelings and cry out for justice, but I just want to talk about it from the perspective of people in the past.

    If you really can't forget your ex, don't bother us first. I'm afraid that after you really like her, your eyes are full of memories of her. Your meekness is only an alms received because of guilt.

    If you feel that your appearance moves you, it means that you no longer love your ex, because if you do, there is no place for anyone else, let alone moved. You've just broken up and are used to spending time with your ex. I think you'll soon get used to it, trust your heart, and accept your new life.

    Thank you for having me! According to the subject's description, one after the other had just ended a relationship and were still in a period of grief. You should give your heart a transition!

    After going through this hectic period peacefully, after this extraordinary period, going back to the past for a while, and then maintaining a relaxed and happy mood, without worries, packing your bags, and moving on to the next relationship, is right for everyone. Your ex-girlfriend has broken up with you. She must have thought of it before she said it.

    The most important thing is that you did your best and even dropped everything to keep her, which is enough to prove that you love her and love her very much. This is what it takes to love someone: when you send her home, both southeast and northwest come; When I eat with her, I like to eat sweet and bitter.

    When I want to see her, I cross the sea to see her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What should I do if I can't forget my ex?

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can divert your energy, make yourself fuller, and have a good relationship with the current one, and when you feel the happiness of the present, it will fade away after a long time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    That means you don't like the current one at all, it's better to separate decisively as soon as possible, being together is also torture for each other, and it will hurt the innocent incumbent, it's better to be free and easy, and if you can't let go, go to your ex and try again to see if you can get it back.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't know how to answer this question, the ex is indeed more memorable, but it is not irreplaceable, you just need to understand a question, the ex is suitable to live in the memory, there is no future, the current is good enough, your ex's shadow will gradually fade, although it will still remember, but it will not affect you, ordinary friends will remember not to mention the person who has loved. Don't keep asking what to do if you can't forget your ex, you can't do it. Unless there is amnesia.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Try to forget your ex, if you can't forget your ex, it's disrespectful to the incumbent, if you can't forget your ex, don't start a relationship easily.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then don't continue to be with the current one, admit your mistake and find your ex to get back together, otherwise it will be three people who will be injured.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Terminate the mistake in time, break up with the current one quickly, don't hurt the current one, and then you go back to the ex, and don't find other girls to fill the void until you clear your heart.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Then I think it's better for you to break up with your current one, and it's very unfair to your current one if you still think about your ex.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1. Either break up with the current one and reunite with the ex.

    Hehe, unless you have a conflict with the current one).

    2. Either completely let go of the ex and get along with the current one.

    Otherwise, what else do you say can you do with these two?

    While hanging on the current one, is it disconnected from the ex?

    This is the least desirable.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    With the current one, you can't forget the ex, which means that you don't like the current one. Don't hurt the current and don't hurt yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you can't forget your ex, you have to lose all your ex's things. In this way, you can let go of your heart and forget about your ex completely, so you can start a new relationship.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Then you should slap yourself twice.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then it's particularly unfair to the current one for you to do this, you'd better make it clear to the current one and then get back together with the ex.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Pay will eventually pay off, with the current but can't forget the predecessor, it's time to wake up, how much benefit the predecessor gave will not forget, because the predecessor ** is wrong and then there is the current one, oh, is it a child to play home!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you have the ability, take it all and see what the result is.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Summary. Kiss, maybe your ex left a deep impression on you, so you can't forget her, and you will also compare your current and your ex, the more you compare, the more you find out how good your ex is, so you can't forget her, what you can't get will form a white moonlight in your heart, and make yourself more memorable.

    Kiss, maybe your ex left a deep impression on you, so you can't forget her, and you will also compare your current and your ex, the more you compare, the more you find out how good your ex is, so you can't forget her, what you can't get will form a white moonlight in your heart, and make yourself more memorable.

    How to say it, the teacher still has feelings for his predecessor, and he is also the kind that he doesn't like very much about the present, well, there are many things here in my current place, and I think I can see all kinds of shadows of my predecessors, and my predecessor and current are both <> of the same company

    <>Mmmmmm, dear, this is also because your feelings for your ex are very deep, so the current one you are looking for is very similar to your ex and you are with her, which is also a way for you to replace your ex with the current one.

    I've been separated from my ex for almost two years, and my current boyfriend is the kind of guy who accidentally chats and knows that the two of them are from the same company, but there are many things in his house that I still think of my ex's teacher.

    Well, kiss, so after these two years, your feelings for your ex have not decreased, and it is also a kind of fate that they can be in the same company, and you must have left a lot of good memories when you are with your ex, so when you see familiar things, you will think of your ex.

    I feel nostalgic and nostalgic, but the person I love now is still the boy who is with me now.

    In fact, the teacher said the most selfish thing, maybe my current boyfriend is not from that company, I'm afraid we still don't have a <> together

    Mmmm, kiss, so you are very conflicted now, you want to be closer to your ex, and you want to be good with your current boyfriend.

    It's also because I know that it's impossible to be with my ex.,And there's a problem with character.,So,When I'm with the present, I'll still miss a lot of scenes.,But I know better in my heart that I cherish the person in front of me.。

    Well, kiss, so you know your choice, then stick to your choice, cherish the person in front of you, after all, it is not easy for two people to meet together, and now this boyfriend has a beautiful quality that your ex-boyfriend does not have, I believe you will not be wrong, the past will pass, we also have to look forward.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I accept that the subject has an ex, but I don't accept that the subject still has feelings for the ex. I don't think it's imperfect to have an ex, it's an experience, and it's a kind of fate that he went through this failed love and then met me. As long as he can forget his ex and fall in love with me sincerely, I think it's also perfect love.

    I don't allow my subject to tell me for various reasons that he hasn't forgotten about his ex, and I think this kind of thinking is an insult to me, and I'd rather he go to his ex than fall in love with me again.

    1. What is the impact on the can't forget the ex with the vertical elephant?

    If the subject goes to find another girlfriend without forgetting his ex, it will definitely cause damage to his current girlfriend, and the relationship between the two will not be stable.

    Once my friend had a similar relationship, my friend was in love for the first time, and the boyfriend who pursued her took the initiative to confess, at first my friend was very happy and felt that he had found love. But after getting along with my boyfriend for a while, I found that my boyfriend often quietly sent messages to another girl on his mobile phone, and after being forced by a friend, it turned out that his boyfriend was chatting with his ex-girlfriend. From the content of the chat, I can also feel that my boyfriend wants to get back together with each other, but now that I have a girlfriend, I am embarrassed to break up with my friend, maybe the content of their chat is deliberately for my friend to see, and finally my friend reluctantly gave up this relationship.

    After all, the other party's heart is not filled with you, and you will never get true love from him.

    2. How to forget your ex?

    Some people break up just for fun, and I hope these playful couples don't go to someone else to fall in love with right away. If it's not a joke, the best way to forget your ex is to work, keep yourself busy, and don't have time to think about your ex anymore, and when you think about it quietly after a while, you don't miss each other so much. In addition, things about each other must be hidden, otherwise seeing each other once will evoke memories of the two.

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