What can I do when my parents don t support my decision?

You can communicate well with your parents. Understand my parents' concerns, explain my thoughts and decisions to them, and tell them that I should be responsible for my own decisions at this age, and I need my parents' support no matter what the outcome is.

But if your parents don't support your decision, then you should support yourself and keep trying.

You can communicate with your parents and tell them what the benefits of your decision are, so as to slowly convince them to support your decision.

Negotiate with them as much as possible, tell them about their choices, and hope to get their consent and get an affirmation from their parents.

Stick to it, I don't listen to my parents, I married my current husband, and I'm just as happy.

You can talk to your parents and make it clear to them that your decision is not impulsive, but deliberate.

I would have a good discussion with my parents, say my reasons, let them support me, and if they still can't support me, I will do what I want.

I think it's important to talk to my parents and tell them that this decision is actually quite right, and then let them understand my decision slowly.

When my parents don't support my decision, I can only be strong enough to carry it out.

I may take into account the opinions of my parents, respect their decisions, and will not choose to contradict them, because my parents are experienced people after all.

Communicate calmly with your parents, talk about what you think, and see if you can find a way to satisfy both parties.

If you have made up your mind, then listen to your heart, I have come back to tell you that there is still some truth in your parents' words, and you can use them as an important reference.

But for your good, it is not necessarily right, people only have one life, a life to fight for ideals, or a life of being willing to be ordinary, receiving a salary and waiting for death to decide it.

It is to find enough conditions as much as possible to convince them that they are all a family and can be discussed.

Only experience is precious, and only when you do it can you know the joy of it, and only then can you know the joy after harvesting. It turns out that life is so beautiful!

Summary. If your parents don't support any decision you make, you should first calm down and think about whether what you're doing is right or wrong. If you insist on doing this, you should sit down and communicate with your parents to analyze the pros and cons.

As adults, we should be responsible for everything we do, and if we feel that we can afford to do something wrong, then we should do something we enjoy even if our parents are against it.

I have searched for it many times, promised me many times, and have been making things difficult and insulting to me in every way, maybe I am a mistake.

I have searched for it many times, promised me many times, and have been making things difficult and insulting to me in every way, maybe I am a mistake.

If your parents don't support any decision you make, you should first calm down and think about whether what you're doing is right or wrong. If you insist on doing this, you should sit down and communicate with your parents to analyze the pros and cons. As adults, we should be responsible for everything we do, and if we feel that we can afford to do something wrong, then we should do something we enjoy even if our parents are against it.

I have searched for it many times, promised me many times, and have been making things difficult and insulting to me in every way, maybe I am a mistake.

If your parents don't support any decision you make, you should first calm down and think about whether what you're doing is right or wrong. If you insist on doing this, you should sit down and communicate with your parents to analyze the pros and cons. As adults, we should be responsible for everything we do, and if we feel that we can afford to do something wrong, then we should do something we enjoy even if our parents are against it. 【】

The day before yesterday afternoon, I attended the reading club of the Law of Attraction & Hypnotherapy Beijing Center, and a senior brother asked a question: his father did not support the direction he chose in his career, and always advised him not to do it, and the two were unhappy when they met, what should he do?

Senior Brother Chao said, "Our parents love us, we must understand them, don't make them angry with head-on conflicts, you can nod on the surface, and do what to do when you look back." ”

I shared my opinion: "First of all, we learned about hypnosis, which is a good way to deal with some of the traumas and imprints of our childhood, so that we can accept our parents from the heart and connect with them heart-to-heart, and many times it is our own inner obstacles that cause all the external appearance. Also, I had a teacher who said:

The body of a person with filial piety who raises his parents is to often buy things and give material care to his parents; The affection of filial piety for parents is to often go home to talk to their parents and care emotionally; People with great filial piety nurture the wisdom of their parents, increase their wisdom of attacking and destroying friends, and use their own changes to influence their parents and improve together. It is difficult for parents to change their inherent things when they are old, so it is better for us to take the initiative to care more about our parents, listen to and understand them. You can communicate your ideas with your parents honestly, and even if they don't agree with them, they won't strongly disagree.

Senior Brother Biao raised his hand to speak, and he said: "When parents speak, we should 'listen to him but don't listen to what he says'. They are older and can't do a lot of things they want to do, and no one listens to them, and they often have a sense of powerlessness, so sometimes they want to grasp some very small things to decide, such as some small things at home, which dish to fry and so on.

When someone listens to them, they're in a better mood and they're healthier, and you're less likely to be in a-for-tat relationship. ”

Everyone, you say a word to me, it's so good! Not only did the senior brother who asked the question look much more cheerful, but I also benefited from it.