What are some of the moments when you feel like you re completely hopeless?

I have this feeling, such as: falling out of love, losing a loved one, these are hard to accept, feeling hopeless.

When I found out that my dad had terminal cancer, I was really desperate. That kind of pain can only be understood if you have experienced it.

For the sake of "love", the beloved person leaves for some reason, is trapped by love, and loses "love". Utter despair.

She never liked me, she just relied on me, and eventually liked someone else. Remind people to take medicine at two o'clock in the morning, buy delicious food for others, order delicious food, eat ramen and meat with me, you can run to quarrel with the boss for that person's salary increase, but never defend me once, what else can I say. I went to hug her after she split her legs, she opened her mouth and cried, I have never seen her cry like this, do I still have the heart to remember her when I see her like this?

I finally went away in a mess, and finally let go, I will never forget that she was like a jade for that T.

I had an accident while driving, and my legs were badly injured, which was a fatal blow to me, and I felt that I couldn't see the future, I couldn't see hope, and I was completely disappointed in life.

After the quarrel, he didn't come home for 3 consecutive nights, waiting until 2 o'clock every night. The last night I called her **, a strange girl picked it up, and then he took it, and the tired voice said he slept. I asked who I was with, and he said I didn't know.

I asked what the relationship was, and there was a long silence. He said it's what you think of as a relationship. At that moment, it was really going to collapse.

I said, don't let me guess, just say anything. He said it was a relationship. was really speechless for a while, didn't scold, didn't ask, just didn't speak, he hung up**.

When I react, I should scold him. It's a long-term shutdown.

Since I was a child, I have been bullied, looked down upon, I don't study well, I don't have a good relationship with my family, I've been gossiped, and now I don't want to read books, I can't afford to work part-time, and all kinds of blows have made me unable to stand up again.

Everyone's experiences and emotions are different, so the things that make you feel hopeless will also vary from person to person. Here are some situations or events that can make people feel hopeless:

1.Loss of a loved one or friend: Being separated from a close person or losing them can often be a source of extreme grief and despair.

2.Unemployed or losing their job: Economic instability and losing a job can make people feel helpless and hopeless, especially if they can't find a new job or their financial situation is difficult.

3.Breakdown of intimacy: Falling out of love or breaking up a marriage can make people feel lonely and hopeless, especially if they feel they have lost their love and bliss.

4.Physical health problems: Having a serious illness or physical problem can make people feel helpless and hopeless, especially if they feel that their health cannot be recovered.

5.Collapse of meaning and values in life: For some people, experiencing a major collapse of meaning and values in life, such as loss of faith, can leave them feeling hopeless and disoriented.

These are just some of the situations that can cause people to feel hopeless, and everyone's situation is unique.

A lot of things, especially when it's the most difficult, it's the worst feeling to be hungry.

Well, tell a story. There is a mountain ridge that wants to push a stone to the top of the mountain. Whenever this god holds the fighting spirit, when this stone is about to reach the top of the mountain.

The stone will slip back down the mountain. Repeat this action every day. Something like this makes Duan Liquid Mill desperate.

The person I like is already married, and this is a desperate thing.

At that time, my child was only two years old, my husband was working outside, I was alone at home to take care of the children, my mother-in-law did not help me take care of the children, I was a woman at home with the children, I was so tired, I thought every day, I want a divorce, but I miss my children, I can't divorce, if I get divorced, I will have no one to take care of, and the children will become orphans, so I gritted my teeth and persevered, if I got divorced, I would have nothing, so I persevered, I couldn't let my children have no father, I can't let the child live without me, that's what I thought, so I stuck with it. My child is now six years old, my child is also very sensible, my child loves me very much, my child loves me very much, I feel that my persistence is worth it. So I felt that my persistence was worth it, so I persevered.

Basically everyone will encounter despair, only the degree of despair is different.

What should we do in times of despair? The truth is simple, when you still have people you care about, you can definitely stick to it.

The world of adults is not simple, and if you have love, then you will definitely get through all the difficulties! ️️

Hope for oneself and hope for others.