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If. This love does not belong to you, so please let go of your hand. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go.
Letting go is a kind of helpless despair, and it hurts to the heart. When the people who once cherished life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized: it turned out that what they once thought was eternal, but in fact it was just a meeting in Pingshui.
I once thought that I could hold hands all the way like this, but when I let go, I realized that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel is still parallel, even if it is not far apart, it is already the end of the world. The price of bravery is to let go of oneself first, admit defeat, accept helplessness, sigh softly, and wish him happiness in the future. Curled up in the corner, waiting for the wound to heal, experiencing the freedom of daring to love, hate, and loss.
The feeling of happiness may only be instantaneous, and after a moment, it is a person's wonderful. In the days after letting go, I will always be unhappy, and I will inexplicably cry for a song, a play, or even a sentence, always feel that the sky is dark, the clouds are gray, and I always feel that I have lost the meaning of life. However, a friend told me
You have nothing to lose, you just go back to the days before you knew him. I am relieved, just like fireworks can't hang in the sky forever, as long as they have been brilliant, why bother with days without fireworks? We are all ordinary Hongchen men and women, unable to earn the love network of love and hate, and unable to escape the whirlpool of love and being loved.
After the heartbreak and sadness, there is endless loneliness. Lonely? Perhaps.
But savoring the chic after loneliness, thinking about the happiness other than him, thinking about no longer having to rack your brains to guess his mind, will you breathe a sigh of relief and feel a little more relaxed? Is it really let go? I can face him calmly, even though there is a faint indescribable sourness in my heart, but I no longer cry, crying because a person's memory is in my heart, and I will not disperse it no matter what.
There was such a song. Are you afraid of loving me? 》:
Are you afraid of loving me, have you forgotten your tears? The heart is waiting for the rain to fall, and the tears have reached the cheeks; Are you afraid of loving me, isn't your heart dead? One step is nothing more than a cliff.
I asked myself again and again, "Am I scared of loving you?" "The answer is yes, I'm afraid, I'm really afraid.
The heart full of holes is so fragile that it can no longer withstand the torture of pain into the bone marrow, so I let you go, and let myself have a way to live, condensing you into a painting, deeply engraved in my mind, looking, thinking, but I will no longer be the person in the painting. You can better appreciate the beauty of the painting when you are outside the painting, isn't it? Shake hands vigorously and say sincerely:
Goodbye, cherish! Turn your head and walk away freely, letting the back be deeply engraved in your mind. When you can recall the moments of your past with a relieved mind, you can appreciate the beauty of letting go.
God let me meet you at the wrong time, and I cried; However, God is fair. Would you cry if, he asked me to leave you at the right time?
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No one can give you an answer to this kind of question, and the most frustrating thing is feelings! Accept and reject all of your own answers! But remember this sentence, you must cherish the people who love you, otherwise you will regret it when you lose it!
I feel the same way! Don't care about his background and whether he is a good match or not, be brave enough to love the person you love!
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I'm dizzy ... Still worried that the genus is not suitable?! What age is it... Don't be so superstitious, don't lose your happiness because of superstition, and it won't help you cry then!
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Euphemism. If you don't like the other person, but you still don't want to hurt the other person. Then use a tactful way to tell the other party.
You can talk about age, family members or schooling. Tell the other person that I am still young and do not want to fall in love. Or the family is not allowed to do so, or it is not allowed to talk about it after learning something.
Mitigation method. When the other party confesses and you don't like it, you can tell the other party, please give me some time to think about it, although this is not a direct refusal, but also tell the other party that you don't want to agree to him immediately. And after a few days, after the other person is emotionally stable, tell him that you don't like the other person.
After the other party confesses, you also have to remember to give each other a commemorative gift, of course, you don't need to buy expensive ones, as long as you can make you feel each other's love.
After the other party confesses, you must tell your friends such good news, so that everyone can share it with you, and of course, the other party's friends, so that everyone can share your sweetness together.
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Find the kind of friend who is good with you and good with each other to pass on love between the two parties. The most important thing in choosing this method is to choose the middleman, choose the wrong person, and things may be messed up more and more.
You can often ask each other out to play, such as on weekends, if the other party does not agree, you can try to ask out his friends around him, often get together, test each other in activities, and it would be better if you could buy each other's friends first. Of course, if you can ask the other person out individually every time, then this matter is much simpler.
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If you like it, you can do it! You can't meet a few people you like for so long in your life, you can miss it, but in the future, every time you unconsciously think of that person, when the thoughts come to your heart, you will definitely feel regretful! If you like it, tell him that this is for yourself, and it is also an explanation for this feeling, no matter what the result is, just accept it generously.
I like you, it's not that I have to be with you, I just want you to know that you have also amazed someone's youth and warmed someone's life. I also let myself know that I have worked hard for my own happiness, I am fortunate to have lost my life, I am very brave!
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It shows that you still look forward to the other party seeing this dynamic in your heart, but success still depends on the other party's ideas, if the other party does not have this meaning, it will only be treated as a joke.
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Male girlfriends? It's good, they're already best friends, the two of them should know each other better, it's better to be frank and generous, maybe he wants to confess to you a long time ago, you are the first!
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In fact, after confessing, I was the most apprehensive in my heart, wanting to know the result but afraid of losing.
At this time, the only thing you can do is to wait for his reply, if he does not reply, it means that he does not have the same feelings for you in his heart, and he refuses with silence.
He is silent because he doesn't want to hurt you with words, which is the way that many women choose, you see.
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If you confess and he agrees, you must be the best, but if he doesn't agree with you, you have to think about something else, after all, you have to give yourself a little dignity, leave room for yourself, make yourself better, so that you will be more comfortable.
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There's an old saying:"Whoever confesses first loses. "Most of the feelings come naturally, and both parties have a good feeling. Naturally, it will come to fruition.
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If you really like him, then put that post there for him to see. If you really like it, you have to be brave enough to confess to him, only then will the two of you have the possibility of being together.
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Go with the flow baby and don't be too nervous.
If you can confess bravely, you are already a brave baby. Hug.
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I think that since you have already started to confess, you should be brave and tell him directly, it is better than seeing it yourself, and then you don't know what his response is.
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I think it's a good way to say that your method is also very good, a method, so that if he sees it, he can see an attitude of him, and if he agrees, I think it's better.
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After the confession, you have to wait for good news, usually the guy will have a further reaction, will tell you what he means and thinks, whether he likes you or not.
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If you like to say it, so that he can know that you like him, and if you don't say it, you will be left with regrets later.
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It mainly depends on whether the other party also likes you. If you have one, fall in love, and if you feel that the other party doesn't like you, don't force it, try to let yourself out.
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A: You confessed to your girlfriend, if he loves you, he will reply to your message; If he doesn't reply, he hasn't thought about it yet, because marriage is not child's play.
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Since you choose to confess, why not be direct, so that you can clearly know whether the other party likes you, and if you like someone, you should let the other party know.
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Since they have decided to do so. What else are you afraid of? Be bold and confess directly, otherwise it will be too uncomfortable to be scared.
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Naturally, it is fate to get the explanation, don't force it if you can't get it, if you force it, there will be sequelae. The encounter of 500 years in the previous life is exchanged for a reunion in this life. I believe in the wonder of fate.
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I confessed, what should I do? It's okay to confess, then it depends on the other party's attitude, and if you say your thoughts, you don't have to worry about it.
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Relax your mind. Take it in stride. As long as you are sincere!
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Although you are playing a game, it can be seen that you still have a good impression of boys, and it depends on what kind of feedback the boys give you.
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I think you did the right thing, and the result is left to fate, but the process must be controlled by yourself.
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So you and your best friend, do you like your best friend? So I want to become a lover's relationship, maybe I didn't understand it right.
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Now that you have said it, you will be bold to chase it! Often a turn is a lifetime! Like a person who doesn't dare to speak, when you dare to speak, you will find that she thinks she is someone else's person. So love be bold and speak up!
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I think it's okay to say that if it's your own inner thoughts, because after all, you're doing it right, and you can dare to express your thoughts.
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Buy gifts and prove yourself with practical actions!
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Investigation in many aspects! If you like it, take it.
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Even if she agrees to you now in order to maintain your "friendship" or affection, she will still marry a man in the end. Since you are doing extreme things, you will naturally have emotional cleanliness habits The pain at that time is far greater than that of now.
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Don't panic! Be sure to be calm and composed.
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What should I do if I am confessed by someone I like?
When I was confessed by someone I liked, of course I agreed. Faced with such a situation, most people are shy, especially with the people they like. When they confess to themselves, they are very happy and want to accept each other's confession, but many people may be embarrassed to give each other a positive answer for the sake of face.
At the same time, I am also worried that I will agree too quickly, causing the other party not to cherish me, so what about when you wait for the person you like to confess? How to accept a confession implicitly?
1. How about when someone you like confesses.
If the other person suddenly confesses to you, you may not be able to respond immediately, and you may not be able to tell the other person in the first place. At this point, you can choose to smile at him, but not with him is tantamount to acquiescence. If the other person must want to know the answer, you can tell him and let me think about it.
In fact, in this case, the other party did not refuse, that is, implied that the other party accepted.
In addition, because the other party suddenly confesses, you can't agree right away, you have to be a little restrained, tell the other party, give me some time. I'm not ready to fall in love yet. Let me think about it, wait until I'm ready to get you again, and then give the other person a time.
In this way, it also appears more subtle, very decent and generous.
2. How to implicitly accept confessions.
The first is to be friends and communicate, and this reply is the most common and commonly used reply. In fact, falling in love is the process of two people communicating, getting along, and communicating, especially when two people don't know each other very well. If you say it lightly, it's too rushed, don't feel upset.
If you like the other person and confess to you in the right direction, in this case, you should also wait for the other person to confess for a long time. At this time, you don't have to worry about mystery. Cherish the moment and enthusiastically tell the other person that I do.
I've been waiting for you for a long time. Promise me if you want, otherwise it could be painful. This way is also the easiest way, that is, like to be together and be a true self.
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