Helpless and hesitant What should I do in the face of him like this

If you truly love him, then touch him. He has given so much for you, and now is the time for you to pay for him.

Think more from his point of view, think with his heart. He said not to fight **, in fact, it is to make you feel at ease, after the ** quarrel, his heart is not better than you, definitely sadder than you.

Have a good talk with him, tell him that you want to support him through this life, tell him that you want each other to tolerate each other's willfulness, and tell him that you love him and will treat his love ...... with your sincerity

Then you tell him that this week, two weeks, or a month, that there is no contact with each other, and that if he can live happily, then you will give him freedom, otherwise you will depend on him for the rest of your life. If he doesn't contact you, you just don't contact him if you think about it again, and after a month you'll find out that you've both learned to cherish it.

I don't see the bottom too long, but for the relationship, don't think about right or wrong, as long as you still love him, continue with him, are you sure he is no longer the same as before, I don't know how it turned out but I feel that you are a little willful, and you are also at fault. I'm sure he'll like you, as long as you let him see your sincerity, even if he fails, it doesn't matter. At least there will be no regrets in the future.

Loving others is just as happy as being loved, and you look like your first love. Cherish it, if you miss this time, you will never be able to have such a day in the future, just thinking about whether I love him or not, whether he loves me or not. At that time, there will be more things to think about, such as money, work, and housing, and then you will know how precious it is now.

Each of you is choking your breath right now, so take a chance to sit together and talk calmly and reminisce about that time. If you want to be together, just continue, and if you can't, just break up. Emotional matters can't be dragged on like this, that will only lead to more and more hatred. Forget the good of the other party.

I wish you all happiness.

In that case, what are you talking about, break up.

According to you, if it looks like this, it's all your own doing, just break up, and time will dilute everything.

Mom, it's so complicated, I can't finish watching it, I'm running

When I am helpless, I think of my family first, and family members are usually the closest people who are able to provide emotional support and practical help. When I encounter difficulties or challenges, I usually think of my family first. Family members may offer comfort, support, advice, material help, or other forms of support.

People need to take the initiative to seek support and help when they are helpless, and not to go through stress and difficulties alone. Whether it's family, friends, a psychologist, or other resources, emotional hunger support, advice, and practical help are available.

The key is to find ways and resources that work for you to overcome difficulties and challenges and make life better.

Friends are also important for people to turn to for support and help**. Relationships between friends are often more free and equal than between family members, and people can share their difficulties, challenges, and feelings with them. Friends can provide emotional support, advice, encouragement, and other forms of help.

2.Psychologist or Psychiatrist: In some cases, people may need professional help to overcome psychological challenges.

At this time, a psychiatrist or ** teacher is a good choice. They can employ different methods and techniques to help people overcome various psychological barriers and difficulties.

3.Self: Some people may think about themselves. They can employ different approaches to overcome challenges like meditation, relaxation exercises, self-exploration, etc. This method requires more self-exploration and reflection, but it can also be effective.

4.Community resources: Community resources such as educational institutions, social service agencies, counseling centers, volunteer organizations, etc., may provide support and assistance. These agencies and organizations typically provide a variety of services, such as emotional support, counseling, training, and other forms of help.

5.Web Resources: The internet provides many resources and support, such as communities, forums, blogs, self-help courses, and more. These resources can provide emotional support, advice, information, and other forms of assistance.

6.Natural Environment: Nature can also provide support and help. Walking outdoors, breathing in the fresh air, soaking up the sun, enjoying the view, etc., can relieve emotions and strengthen your inner strength.

In life, you will encounter difficulties big and small, and countless choices will be encountered. As long as you are worthy of your heart and have the courage to face all this.

We must learn to take responsibility and learn to carry these things on our own shoulders.

Stabilize your mentality first, and then write down what you think you can do to overcome it, uh, I've also encountered it, and it's all hard to resist.

Jogging!!! Swim!!! King of Fighters !! Go for a barbecue buffet and drink beer!!

Everybody has moments like this, and it's up to us to treat it that way. When I was a freshman, I was a repeater in the dormitory except for me, so I always felt like there was a membrane in the dormitory, silently separating me. It's far away from home, and there are no familiar people, it feels very helpless, and just arrived at college, I have lost the momentum of high school, I have no goal, and I am very hesitant.

I don't know why you feel helpless and hesitant, but trust me, it will pass.

Now that I've been in college for a semester, I have good friends and know what I want to do in college. It's really sad to think about that time, but after that, it's nothing. Everything is a floating cloud. Hehe.

Sometimes, if there is no trusted person around, and there is no place to talk about your helplessness and hesitation, perhaps, you can open your heart, find a stranger, and talk about it, it will be better. Don't face it alone. Don't run away either.

Face it positively, believe me, everything will pass, and we will all be fine.

Learn from me, selective amnesia, remember only the happy things and forget the unhappy things, hehe.

I think this feeling is actually that I don't want to face any problems, I choose to escape, and I feel that I can't hide. Be strong, people find ways to solve problems, and if you don't face them, you will never be able to solve them.

Before the age of 18, you can be helpless, you can hesitate, but now that you have grown up, your family you have the responsibility to maintain, what you have to do is to first understand the reason why they divorced, if it is really irreparable reasons, you as a child, a 20-year-old person, if it is still useless to dissuade them, then bless them, emotional things, reluctantly, parents also have their own thinking, their own ideas and their own wishes, then I don't understand why they divorced like you, It's just that I blindly selfishly asked them not to divorce together, I used a lot of stupid methods, until finally they compromised for me, but they were not happy at all, the so-called family is no different from the morgue, when I realized this, I chose to let go, and now it's good, they all have their own lives, very happy, sometimes we need to think about them at this age, we can't just for ourselves, so selfish...

After listening to the lecture on a happy life, there is a way.

20 is not small, you should know what's going on with adults, just look at the opening point.

Hehe. Everyone has hesitations, and I have too, hehe......Many times, we get overwhelmed, disoriented, unable to find our right place, and perhaps ask ourselves over and over again, "What am I going to do?" What should I do?

Hehe, in fact, when we are hesitating, we can calm down, rest for a while, stay alone for a while, think about it, if you really don't know how to do it, you can ask a friend for advice, hehe......Silence sometimes allows you to discover things you don't expect, face everything in life and work with a calm mood, and believe that your actions will be affirmed by more people, hehe......

People will have such times, contradictions, hesitation, helplessness, hey. In fact, worry-free days are so comfortable. However, that's impossible, no matter when you are, there will always be something bothering you, the choice is very important, in the face of the things that make you hesitate now, think seriously, believe that you can, there is nothing that you can't pass!

Under the sun.

A pot of tea and an old chair.

A song behind it.

Think for yourself.

Dear Friend:

Don't worry about the fate of life Everyone will have this or that life troubles Find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future, you have to remember that suffering losses, being deceived, even if it is your ordinary fall, is the most valuable experience in your life

What you have to do is accept all of this, cheerful acceptance, generous tolerance, fraternity, even the most painful thing.

Just like listening to a story, don't take it too seriously. Everyone's opportunities, circumstances, and overall popularity are different, and the main thing is that the historical environment and social system are different.

Look at everything around you with an optimistic mind, people who laugh at you, people who don't love you, you can take the initiative to show your friendliness, and forgive those people with a tolerant and generous heart, friends like the new and hate the old, you can cherish them well, be good to them, and they will naturally cherish you very much.

You don't need to be a character in someone else's life, you can find good friends to chat and communicate more when you are bored and depressed, you don't like others laughing at you, you can turn a blind eye, you don't need revenge, revenge will only bring more harm!

I hope you have a good mood to do your own thing, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's ridicule, just be yourself! In fact, there is no need to pretend to be crazy and stupid to escape reality, escaping will only make you more lonely and lonely.

So, isn't it a lifetime? If that is the case, why do we choose to be unhappy or burdened? Is that right?

For man does not live for himself alone. Everyone has a series of groups such as relatives, friends, etc. People have to take into account the thoughts of the people around them.

Everyone is responsible! Living is not just about living, how to live, what kind of way to live? Once the material needs are satisfied, can the spiritual needs be satisfied?

So people have a certain amount of pressure. The double pressure of the outside world, its own body. That's why people feel tired!

In fact, people don't have to be so tired, it depends on how you look at your life?

In fact, there is a lot of fun in life, but your tired body doesn't want to feel it.

Have more interest and curiosity to discover the bits and pieces of life! ~

Really enjoy life and you will find that life is beautiful. People won't be so tired.

There are not so many things in the world that are inevitable because of accident, the plan is in people, the success is in heaven, and things are man-made! ~^

So much to the pointYou should work harder to face life.

Even a storm is a necessary part of your life!

May you shine every day! Happy and healthy :)

I hope to encourage you together. ~~

You are a sophomore in high school, you have been suspended from school for a period of time, so you are confused, you want to find a way out for yourself, you want to go to a sports school to play basketball. But you're thinking too simply!

Nowadays, some high schools recruit students with sports specialties, such as basketball students, and they must go through strict special examinations before they can enter the school as special students. If you are tall and have good skills, you may pass the exam.

And the sports schools you are talking about, not all sports schools have basketball programs.

You're in your second year of high school and you're definitely going to find a way to go on to higher education. If you want to go to school to play basketball, you must participate in the team organized by the school, participate in competitions at or above the provincial level, and get the national second-level certificate or above, before you can take the college entrance examination single move. However, you don't have the skills or qualifications at the moment.

Therefore, you can go back to school, apologize to the school leaders and teachers, write a letter of guarantee, etc., in order to enter your final study. After more than a year, take the college entrance examination, go to a university, even if it is a junior college, you have books to read.

If you want to play basketball or participate in other sports, you can ask your local sports school if it is available, and if you have the conditions and qualifications to train.

Any confusion is because you haven't found the direction of your efforts, you don't know what to do next, you don't have any plan, and the days just go by day by day, which makes people feel panicked and very uneasy. Therefore, if you are not sure what you do, you can find a job that you can do at this stage, which is a job that you like, enter a team, hone yourself, and work inside and outside, do not continue to learn, and slowly find out what is the most suitable thing for you to do, and then you will definitely plan to work in this direction, once you have a direction, then you will no longer be confused, just complain about what you like to do, I wish you a happy life.

This kind of confusion must make every effort to improve yourself. Fight for your place in existing social relationships. To put it simply, it is to be a capable and positive person.

When you become stronger, you will find that your previous distress, confusion, and unwillingness will all disappear, and everyone will be surrounded by a feeling of loneliness every once in a while, and will continue for a period of time, or even suffer from loneliness for life. Don't think that loneliness is hopeless and disappointing, even if you are a complete failure or an isolated person, you can start over.