What should I do if I am often unhappy with others because of some personality issues? 30

Don't try to change people, it's not right, it's off-putting, just as your friend wants you to keep your word.

Are you a boy? Language, I feel that you are a very self-respecting person, in fact, don't be too self-respecting, some things may not be what you think, classmates are inconvenient for a while, call ** to give you I hope you help charge some phone bills, it's not that I won't pay you back, the tone is relatively flat, but you may think that his tone is very cold and very pretentious, maybe you think too much. As for treating new friends better than treating you, I think it's understandable, it's more new friends, and you naturally have to take care of it, unlike old friends who can mess around without big or small, if he is very polite to you, I'm afraid he really doesn't treat you as a friend, and deliberately keeps his distance.

In short, don't think too much about anything, be open-minded, don't care too much, maybe your friends will treat you as a good friend, and the associations caused by these small details are just your associations.

And your friend calls ** to ask you to help charge the phone bill, which is also a trust in you, do you want to find someone you don't like to help or find someone you like and reliable to help?

My teacher said that the most important thing in friendship is to make both parties happy, and if you never get happiness in this friendship, you don't have to get it back. I've had this problem before, going out to buy something doesn't mean that he treats you as a person, but because he still cares about you, if he asks you to pay for the phone bill, it's his fault, but if there is a move near your house, and he gives you money, then there is no need to refuse. If you really can't figure it out, then try to talk to a few good friends, you are both children, you will not be too restrained, you will be much more comfortable to say everything you want to express, give it a try.

1.If you want to be close to people, you are friendly. It's annoying when you're close, it's because you have something wrong, and others can't help you.

2.You have a lot of self-esteem, but you're too introverted and not good at talking. It is misunderstood as arrogant and ruthless.

3.If you don't know how to control your emotions, and if your mood swings are too large, it will be difficult to express your true you.

4.You don't have a complete sense of self, so you're susceptible to other people's opinions and opinions.

Solution; One. First of all, you must be confident and establish a strong personal image.

Two. Keep your emotions in check.

Approach whomever you want. Talk to whomever you want. It doesn't matter if someone else says it's wrong, it hurts you, or it doesn't help you.

Don't be emotional, be happy, just don't care. In this way, you can talk to others easily and freely, so that they can know you, understand you, and thus help you.

Love is not so easy, everyone has his temper, happiness is not so simple, so it is more precious, when you understand that feelings are more important than face, you turn to the opposite to cover yourself.

Age is a problem, you are now fifteen years old and are in a paradoxical time (adolescence); Then personality is a problem, and a person's character is the person's biggest flaw. That's what you call caring about other people's perceptions. You have to know that you are living for yourself, not for others, as long as you feel that it is right, you should be bold and do it, why care about other people's opinions, he is not you, right?

If you want to open a point, you must be together for a long time, and you must be divided for a long time! Find a place to vent. Good luck.

Gathering and leaving, all times, nothing will last forever.

1. Your brother is probably just playing with you, if it goes too far and bothers you, you can ask him not to bully you, or if not, you can rely on the law to solve it. 2 Soft-heartedness is both a weakness and an advantage of people, and this will not be an obstacle. 3 Of course, you can still give it once or twice, and if someone asks you for it every day, you can try to refuse him.

That person found your address, maybe he actually knew you, or maybe your friend told him. 4 High school graduation (it's junior high school graduation) You can ignore him, people will change, you don't give him a chance, let him enter your life. If you don't like him, tell him why you don't want to be with him, try to make him understand and stop letting him bother you.

1.It's okay to take a step back in the face of problems. But in the face of those who have reached their own principles, it is better not to choose not to tolerate them. Get your temper out. Being suppressed all the time makes you more silent.

2.You can't change your soft-heartedness, because it's your character.

If you really don't think it's good, tell yourself to leave it alone. Decisions made from the bottom of your heart are often the ones that make a difference.

3.It's best not to give QQ to people on the Internet, don't use your real name on the Internet, you can give yourself a pseudonym, after all, self-protection is needed on this Internet.

4.For such, he thinks that his stalker is useful. Your best bet is to ignore it.

The more you deal with him, the more he will think that his actions are useful, and if you really don't want to ignore him, then you will put him on the blacklist.

Pull him out of the blacklist in a few months.

Usually after a long time, he will not pester you anymore when he sees that you ignore him.

Hope for a pleasant life.

I don't want your scores,,, just give you some advice, and I hope to be able to give you a little help, I think you can be a little colder, just smile when you meet someone,,, if your brother wants to bully you, it's only two or three days to really beat you, next time he wants to bully you again, you can tell him expressionlessly: "Do you like to bully me very much??? Okay, you continue to bully, today you bullied enough at one time, I will never tell my parents.

As for your boyfriend, he said to him expressionlessly: "I know you like me, but I can't bear your love, I will feel suffocated if you do this, don't pester me in the future... It would have been even more exciting if it had been on the roof when he said this).

1. Character is born and acquired, no matter how it is life, it doesn't matter whether it is good or not, go your own way, let others have no way out.

2. Cool office. 3. QQ can be given, but your information can't be so true, 4. Let him guess whether you like him or not, if you guess if you like it, let him guess again 5.

1) Never back down on issues of principle.

2) Long pain is better than short pain.

3) Ignore (waste everyone's time).

4) If you don't like it, you can't hurt other people's hearts (if you don't really like it, people won't waste that time).

It doesn't matter if you don't divide it, I don't like typing, if you have a problem, you can 929294355 add Q voice to tell you face-to-face.

A bad character can be changed, but it must be persistent, and there will be uncomfortable feelings in the process, but try to overcome it. The specific actions are:

1.Accept all your strengths and weaknesses.

2.Face everything with gratitude.

3.Feel the care and love of the people around you.

4.Give more care and love to the people around you, and don't care about returning.

5.Experience different things, whether it is good or bad, and only see what you can learn from it. Everything will make you grow, and when you grow up, you will naturally have self-confidence.

6.Do more things to make the people around you happy, and at the same time keep a cheerful attitude yourself.

There is no separate treatment for your problem, the above examples just cultivate positive habits, and bad habits will be slowly broken.

Now that you know the shortcomings, it is perfect to do the opposite.

I think, it is indeed difficult to change yourself, just like a butterfly chrysalis into a butterfly, life cannot be born perfect, the change of the day after tomorrow depends entirely on yourself, I recommend you to read more books, recommended: Dell. Carnegie's human weakness, Lao Tzu's Tao Te Ching (buy the Chinese Simplified Chinese version), I think, before your character is completely finalized, it can be completely changed, the so-called can't be changed, it's completely an excuse, Dale Carnegie said the truth in one sentence:

It's about what you want to be. I've seen your character, and many of them are connected to dismantle and say, repetitive, and cumbersome, but I'm looking forward to you reading what I said, one is inspirational, the other is refuge and bland, and there is no contradiction between the front and back, just let it go,