Because of my cowardly character, I made myself into a forced stomach to speak to understand things

I think it's because of my cowardly personality, so I learn this or that, I feel that I'm useless, so you need to slowly do more things to make your character stronger, as for what you said about making yourself forced to talk to understand things, I don't understand what you mean by saying this. It takes your further description to judge.

First of all, a year ago I was obsessive-compulsive but now I can't remember what the previous state was, I didn't have **, but I got the effect that ** couldn't get, accept new things, be interested in yourself, do it with your heart, and slowly you will find that you are out of that state unconsciously.

Then you hide your cowardly character, it doesn't matter if you don't look for a specialty, you know what you need first, use your tenacious side to look for it, and you'll find it soon, and I'm the same, but I'm when I was a child, I made a list of what I was interested in, and tried to learn it, and that's how I found my specialty - painting, hehe, I'm also relatively cowardly, but people have so many masks, you might as well try to disguise, pretending to be real in the end, get used to it, be cheerful, absolutely agree with the upstairs, Nothing is predestined, and miracles are created by people, oh, I don't know if it will be useful to you, hehe.

Find a psychiatrist to show you, I feel that you have obsessive-compulsive disorder and delusional disorder, you need medication and correct psychological guidance, you are a normal person and you have to have confidence in yourself. Good luck coming out soon.

Delusions or obsessive-compulsive disorder ? Go to a psychiatrist.

I can't stand reading so many words.

People who really talk to other people's minds are truly from the heart. If that's not the case, how can we change it?

Know yourself. When I was young, I didn't have the conditions to study, and there were some things that I didn't know how to deal with, which was normal. Now that you know the problem, it's time to work hard.

If you have a good heart, find some wisdom books to study and study, and keep knowing yourself, you will slowly solve your doubts.

You're so young, so much trouble, what can you do in the future, don't think too much.

What you do by yourself, you bear it, you don't do it yourself, you don't need to take it.

I'm sure you need to see a doctor, it's not stupid, it's not a problem with understanding, it's purely a psychological problem, I recommend that you see a psychiatrist as soon as possible, because looking at your description, it's not a short time to have a problem.

Why are you asking again?

Is it a state of mind that speaks with the stomach and fantasizes with the brain? It is recommended to go to psychological counseling.

You're totally negative about yourself. Why is there no place to actively affirm your own merits. Now you are given a task to find five good in you.

A place that is stronger than everyone else. You can always find it. Therefore man has to accept himself and accept himself.

Have confidence in yourself and be strong in your heart.

Don't be afraid of what people say about you. A person who is confident, calm, serene, and at ease in life no one can say. Yes and very little. Confident people are not afraid of what others say. It can be resolved, adjusted, and controlled. I don't take what others say to me to heart at all.

Also, you care too much about what people think and opinion about you. If someone says I'm wrong, I won't argue with him, let him win. What I want is a harmonious relationship with him.

Arguing with people is one of the worst habits. No one wants to admit that he is wrong, even if he really knows in his heart that he is wrong, but he can't admit it. There's a face issue here.

You gave him face, and he will appreciate you. Don't argue. There are no winners in the debate.

It doesn't make any sense. No smart person wastes time arguing, even for a second.

An 18-year-old child forcing you to meet her girlfriend. First, it's not a big deal to really go with him. You can also meet her girlfriend, get to know more people, see the world, and the end will not be good for you.

Second, if you really don't want to go. You have to be resolute, to the point, and to tell him in crisp and clear language. He may argue with you because he thinks he has lost face or thinks that he has a good relationship with you, and you don't give him face, but you really need you to accompany him.

Then a tactful refusal is the way you want to learn later. Don't argue with people. You can make up a reason, ouch, my stomach hurts, I have to go to the pond toilet.

took the opportunity to run out and wait for a few minutes, and when he left, he naturally rejected him. Maybe he doesn't go, waiting for you. Then we have a second strategy, go in and look at the watch.

Oops, my boss told me to go and fire me. This boss is really troublesome. In this way, you pretend to have something to do and go out, and naturally refuse to show no traces.

I don't think so, first of all, you have to think about the benefits, your friends around you treat you like this, it means that people are at least better with you, and think you can get along, so let you help go together! So you should be happy, after all, you have a presence in the people around you, what's the matter that people always think about you, right?

The second shows that you have a good temper, people always make fun of you, and you don't get angry and turn your face like you, which proves that you have good cultivation and a good temper, right? But it may also lead to you being easier to get along with in the eyes of others, easier to bully, and people will think, you won't lose your temper much anyway, so let's say you're okay!

Third, I think what will happen in the future People (if you really want to be friends with this person, and you think this person can, then you can help him) look for you, and if you think you can help, you can do a good job, and people will remember your good, but if you really don't want to, then say it, be tough! At least let them know that you can't be directed by anyone, right? People just say it, and you just treat him as a fart!

If you ignore him, he will feel bored and change to someone else. But then you may have fewer friends, but you will start to have more true friends!

There is no one else out there, only yourself. Read the book "Meet the Unknown Self".

Be confident and find yourself in little by little success.

Consult with your best friend, others don't know the specific situation, and it's not easy to help.

Everyone has their own personality and it doesn't have to be changed. I believe that I am very good, but I haven't encountered anything that makes you angry, and you are too depressed to yourself, remember to learn to vent!

I'm just like you.

It's not cowardice, it's just that because we're friends, we don't care, and friends don't need to be strong.

It is recommended that you read some success books, the book "Changing Character and Changing Destiny" is very good, it is recommended that you read it, but it can also be seen from here that you are a good-tempered person, when something happens, tell yourself what to do, it's no big deal, everything will be fine.

Don't care about other laws, live like that, as long as you have a clear conscience, so that your heart is open, and you are happy every day.

Be yourself and don't care too much about what others think. Do your own thing well.

Why do you think that the character you think you want to change is good? To be a man is to look at the principles of things, and the way of dealing with people and things can be tactful, but you can't lose yourself. I don't think you people can't bear some things because they don't want to endure them!.

It's time to listen to some of your innermost voices! If you think these things are just a fart to you, then why would you ship them! You yourself think that it's an insult to do something like this, to ship to someone like this, so why should you?

If something really touches on your principles, then change the explanation, explain it! Mature does not drop the table strong! And it's the perception and approach to things!

You don't have to change yourself, because a person's personality traits can't be changed, even if you force yourself to make changes in order to adapt to this social group, but in the dead of night, you will find yourself back, and it is hypocritical and hard to hide yourself, you are yourself. It's more difficult to find yourself, don't get lost.

I think it's good to be patient, that's not cowardice, it's just that you're more broad-minded, and you don't love it too much, and if everyone is so tough, it's not easy to fight!! If it hurts your own interests too much, you should not bear it.

Meng Fei's "Settle with the Encounter", people don't have to have fire is tempered, there is a saying that people don't let things go, keep smiling at everyone and everything, but how things should be done and how to do it, don't give in, the key to people is that they also have an aura when they smile, this aura is a manifestation of confidence and elegance, my words are very soft but very convincing, understand? Hope it helps.

You don't need to change your personality! That's your characteristic! But you have to learn to disguise yourself, you don't need to disguise yourself in front of your relatives and friends, you have to learn to disguise yourself in front of outsiders, so as to avoid unnecessary harm to yourself!

All you need to do is talk less, listen more, and watch more! Listen to how others socialize, see how others treat others, and how they deal with things! Then think about what you're going to do by yourself!

Don't say what you really think, and don't show your emotions easily! Control your emotions, this is how you have to learn to control your expressions! Learn to laugh differently, and laugh differently on different occasions!

If you learn to laugh, then you will have a confident appearance! We must have our own principles in dealing with the world! Not everything has to be tolerated, but there must be a bottom line in your heart, and no one can exceed your bottom line!!

Make more friends who are cheerful and honest to friends! You can learn a lot from these friends around you!

Before I was seventeen years old, I had the same personality and temperament as you, but I was lucky enough to meet a few close friends! Then I slowly changed myself, and the biggest change after that was when I went to Beijing alone in 08, that time was the biggest change from my heart to my thinking! Rely on what you should say and don't say what you can't get right, listen to what others say, and see how they do it!

Learn slowly!!

But remember not to lose your true nature!! Don't use the same set of outsiders on your friends, then you will lose a lot of wealth!!

There was once a stubborn psychopath, who consulted many specialists to no avail, and spent all day thinking that he was a mushroom and squatting in the grass.

Later, a young psychiatrist came, and this doctor was squatting in the grass. The patient thought it was also a mushroom, and later the doctor told the patient that the mushroom should not only bask in the sun, but also drink water, eat, and interact with people's .........

As a result, the original mushroom disappeared .........

Become a healthy person.

This story inspires us to stop worrying about whether the brain or the stomach is thinking, so we haven't been entangled all these years, and if we put in a few more years to think about it, maybe the result will .........be even worse

There are many reasons why your career doesn't work, but the most important is the effort you put in, so work on that factor.