The blind dates introduced by parents are unreliable, and there is no reliable matchmaking or marria

If getting married and starting a family is on your and your family's agenda and is going to be done as a big deal, then getting the help of a matchmaking agency may be one of the best options

Now there are a large number of single groups in the country, old, middle-aged and young people of all ages and professions, so everyone has no shortage of corresponding love choices. The way that marriage events are introduced through formal matchmaking agencies is an extension of the old-style Chinese matchmaker tradition, which has a certain degree of rigor and is much more reliable than online virtuality, so it is still an important blind date channel for singles around the world, and it has endured for a long time. This is especially prevalent in Japan, South Korea, Taiwan, Southeast Asia and other regions, and is also recognized by the public in European and American countries.

You can first "search" for the matchmaking agency in your target area, or ask through local acquaintances, and after grasping the general situation, choose a few matchmaking agencies to go on a field trip, and then choose 1-2 matchmaking agencies to register as a member. All formal matchmaking agencies that have been established for a long time, have abundant resources, moderate fees, and high cost performance are generally credible and reliable, and the success rate is not low.

However, it needs to be reminded that the main thing for friends who go on a blind date is to keep a normal heart and not to have too high requirements for the other half, otherwise it will increase the difficulty of matching. Asking for marriage and blind date is like going to college to see a serious illness, it is a lot of work, everyone's situation is different, and the final result is different. But meeting is the last word.

Although there are always lucky people in the world who keep the plant and win the rabbit, the satisfaction of the vast majority of people or a relatively satisfactory marriage can only be achieved in the docking of continuous appointments in various ways. I wish you a dream come true soon!

Maybe your requirements are relatively high, but you can't say that what your parents introduced is unreliable.

There are still good marriage agencies, if you have higher requirements, you can search for the more famous local ones, and now some high-end marriage agencies are not bad, such as diamonds in Shanghai, true love in Beijing** and so on.

4507 fans Generally speaking, the blind date introduced by parents also needs to be analyzed in detail, not that the objects introduced by parents are necessarily very reliable. And for the elderly, if they don't know each other, then the other party is not a really reliable person. Therefore, the blind date introduced by parents also needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, which varies from person to person.

1. Under normal circumstances, the blind dates introduced by parents are relatively reliable. For most parents, they hope that their children will find a more reliable blind date, so if you come to find a partner in this mood, you are generally looking for those more honest and reliable friends of the opposite sex, so the blind date at this time is very reliable in the eyes of parents. And for real life, the vision of the elderly is far greater than that of children.

2. The blind dates introduced by parents are not really reliable. In general, a good child in the eyes of adults may not be a really good child, so the blind date is not really a reliable person, so this is different from person to person, for most people, the vision of parents is very accurate, but that person may not be really reliable, so at this time, we must analyze the specific problem specifically, and make a decision after understanding.

3. Reliable people are not necessarily really reliable in front of different people. In general, reliability is also differentiated, and some people will feel reliable in front of the person they like. But for the people you hate or don't like, it seems so unreliable, so at this time, it is also necessary to analyze specific problems, so in a sense, the blind date introduced by parents.

If he doesn't really like you, then he doesn't necessarily really rely on himself. Therefore, the specific problems are analyzed specifically, and for most people, the vision of parents is much higher than the vision of their children, so it is also very accurate to see people, and most of the blind dates introduced by parents are reliable, except for a few people.

Parents worry about them for you, they are wholeheartedly for your good, for your sake, and they are people from the past, and they have in-depth experience and experience in a happy married life. I think it's reliable.

If your parents don't care about you, he won't introduce them, which means that the other party is closer to your parents' goals and corresponding conditions.

Then it depends on your actor and whether your three views are correct, whether your thoughts are correct or not, and why is love the goal.

When their children reach a certain age, the parents and elders in the family will worry about our marriage, and will take the initiative to introduce us to some blind dates, but these blind dates are often difficult to establish real feelings between us.

First of all, the blind date introduced by the parents and elders in the family did not really communicate and communicate with us juniors, and it was completely based on their subjective feelings to select and introduce the blind date to themselves. For example, most of the parents and elders of Dahui Split hope to find a good match for their children, have a stable job, have superior family conditions, or have a more stable personality, and give themselves a blind date, but these parents and elders do not take into account whether the blind date they introduced is generally close to their own three views, and whether they are compatible with each other in the process of getting along with each other, so it is difficult to go to the end of the blind date introduced in this case.

Secondly, our parents and elders introduce us to blind dates in many cases, and they don't really understand whether we want to get married at this age, and they don't communicate and exchange with us seriously, they just think that we should find a suitable partner to start a family after graduating from college and having a stable job, but many of our young people of the same age think that this age should focus on career and should let themselves have better development in their careers, but there are still many young people who think, At this stage, you should enjoy your single life, and even many young people don't want to start a family, so even if their parents and elders introduce them to a blind date, then these young people are very reluctant and resistant in their hearts, and naturally it is difficult for these parents and elders to introduce the object of trust.

Another important factor is that the blind date introduced by the parents and elders may not really recognize their children, these blind dates are hindered by the elders in the family or some other relatives and friends of the face factor in the form of blind dates with us, even if we fancy such a blind date, but it is difficult for the other party to really recognize us, so when the blind man meets us, he will also show a very repulsive and resistant attitude, and it is naturally difficult for the blind date between two people to succeed.

In fact, it is necessary for the relationship to be fate, although the parents and elders in the family have a good starting point, but they should also take into account the reality of their children, take into account the feelings of their children, and do not blindly mess up the mandarin duck spectrum, otherwise they will only be as confused and fatigued as their children.

The child has no object, and the parents are always more anxious than the child, and often arrange all kinds of blind dates for the child. So, should you accept the blind date arranged by your parents? Some people say that they should accept it, because parents are thinking about their children's silver files, and they have more life experience from the past, and the blind dates they arrange are more reliable.

Some people say that they should not accept it, this is the child's own business, and the parents' concept is different from that of young people, and what they think is reliable is not necessarily suitable for young people. This question does vary from person to person. However, ordinary people often ignore the following two points, if they accept the blind date arranged by their parents, it is easy to cause certain hidden dangers to the later love and married life.

1. Privacy. Generally, young people go from blind dates, falling in love to entering the palace of marriage, and the relationship between the two will often be in a state of instability, and anything can happen. Children are reluctant to let their parents keep track of all kinds of fluctuations.

Some don't want to bother to explain, some are afraid that their parents will worry, and some don't want to let their parents know what they really think. Those who are in free love will generally not inform their parents until they reach a certain stage; And the blind date arranged by the parents often fails to do this. This is where the issue of privacy comes in.

And parents are easy to publicize to the seven aunts and eight aunts, and even neighbors, colleagues, and friends. In essence, blind date and falling in love are a matter between two people, and if parents or other people are involved, it will inevitably bring in the interference of third-party factors, which will affect the children's "independent decision-making power" and privacy rights. Because of the different views on marriage and the perception of people, children and parents often disagree.

Parents will start from economic conditions and job stability, and in the end, emotions often become non-main considerations, becoming a hidden danger in love and marriage. Whether it succeeds or not, it is easy to become the talking point of others or the basis for evaluating a person. 2. Deviation of sense of responsibility.

If you are in free love, if you are unhappy after marriage, you will feel that it is your responsibility, and you will prefer to save, operate and maintain it with your heart. However, if the blind date arranged by the parents is mixed with the wishes of the parents, they will not get along harmoniously after marriage, and it is easier to shift the responsibility to the parents and clear their own responsibilities, and the internal motivation to run the marriage will weaken a lot, and the parents will become the excuse and object of blame. At the same time, because the person they introduced did not let their children live a happy life, parents will also feel guilty and feel sorry for their children, which in turn will affect the relationship between their children and their parents, and even affect the direction of marriage.

No matter how happy a marriage is, there will inevitably be some bumps; Since it is introduced by parents, parents will feel responsible for their children's marriage, so it is often inevitable that parents will be overly involved in their children's marriage. Therefore, whether or not you can accept the blind date arranged by your parents depends on whether your children have clarified and confirmed two points: 1. The introduction of parents is just a way to let yourself know people, and the opinions of parents are just references, and the decision-making power and responsibility are on yourself, and the cultivation has nothing to do with parents.

2. Listen to your parents and be filial to your parents, not to accept your parents' opinions completely, but to take your relationship and marriage seriously and make yourself happy.