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I don't think this question is urgent, don't go to the right person to get married, it's a very stupid thing. I don't know if I will regret it for the rest of my life, I have a male colleague next to me who is also like this, he is 28 years old. We always say that he is an old man, but in fact, he is quite handsome, and his friends around him are all married.

The engagement of the engagement. Hehe, he gave birth to a child, but he didn't even have a girlfriend yet, and recently he met a woman, just to get a result as soon as possible. He was engaged to her, and it would be a few days later, but he didn't see any joy on his face, and he said he regretted dying.

The bystanders are clear, and the authorities are confused. To put it mildly, your ex-wife has a deep scheming and long-term layout. You are not as good as her, if you don't want to remarry, just wait, when she really can't find a better one than you and come back, if you find it, you will definitely not come back, you can see that this woman is very strong, very assertive, it is estimated that the possibility of coming back is not very likely, it is recommended that you do not continue to be a spare tire, it is time to live your own life.

Hello, I'm an emotional counselor and I'm glad for your question. You all mentioned in the description that you hit her and exploded her? I want to ask, does this beating mean that she pushed you back, or did you really do anything to her in addition to that?

If not, as you described, it's clear that there is no problem between you, just communication. Women push you and argue with you, just to vent their emotions, not really to beat you up for what ...... do to youBut instead of comforting or coaxing, he pushed back ......If the relationship between you is gone, most of them are ...... that you don't haveIn fact, at this time, you just hug her, take a soft body, coax her well, tease her, and ......I think my ex-wife and you should have a lot of these minor problems......

Emotional problems.?

According to the description of the specific situation of the content of the question you are asking, you want to know that there is something wrong with the situation of marital affection problems. Your wife. As for.

Family life. Nor is he a responsible person. It's easy for two people to be such a small thing.

It's to the point of divorce. It is conceivable that his previous divorce was also so hasty. From my point of view.

The possibility of your remarriage. Neither is it. Too big.

You can also work on it. Go and chase her back. Your wife.

As for. Divorce. It's really inappropriate.

Myself. In life and work. You have to work hard.

Do your best. Make yourself stronger. Don't worry about not having a good marriage.

From a child's point of view. You have to work hard to get your wife back. Because.

Children need a complete home. It also depends on your wife's attitude. Your wife doesn't?

The meaning of remarriage. Don't waste your time anymore either.

Although you have been divorced, she still has some feelings for you, after all, you both have children, and the divorce may have been impulsive at the time, but she was afraid that the previous thing would happen again when she remarried, so she still did not agree to your request, but there is still a response to you If you sincerely remarry, then don't give up.

Marriage emotional problems, you must have mutual understanding and understanding, can not be completely consistent with the personality and temper of the two people, must be with a heart of forbearance or tolerance to live together, each other is not so completely consistent, so the main together, feelings have to tolerate each other to come together, we understand each other, tolerate each other, in order to have a good life and happiness.

This seems impossible, if she wants to remarry you, she has already remarried, first of all, the child is only seven months old, she can bear to leave the child and divorce you, which shows that she only has herself in her heart, she is a person who is in the twilight, and now she has not met a lot of boys, so she will contact you, by the way, look at the child, so that you can not only see the child, but also stabilize you, sometimes it may cost money, why she said, meet must be to see the child, this is afraid that others will know, you are divorced, and there is contactIf you let others know who dares to associate with her, it means that her heart is wandering, if she meets what she likes, she will not hesitate to abandon you, divorced like this, and contact you, just want to use your feelings, once the feelings have sustenance, you are nothing, so it will destroy you, or quickly cut the mess, the twisted melon is not sweet, or let go as soon as possible, and start a new life from scratch.

What is the law? Or are you dying? Is it okay to have some responsibility for making up questions?

The law stipulates that if a child is less than one year old, the spouses are not allowed to divorce. During this period, the child is raised by the mother. How can it be brought by your mother?

I wish you never met the opposite sex for the rest of your life.

Your wife. As for. Family life.

Nor is he a responsible person. It's easy for two people to be such a small thing. It's to the point of divorce.

It is conceivable that his previous divorce was also so hasty. From my point of view. The possibility of your remarriage.

Neither is it. Too big. You can also work on it.

Go and chase her back. Your wife. As for.

Divorce. It's really inappropriate. Myself.

In life and work. You have to work hard. Do your best.

Make yourself stronger. Don't worry about not having a good marriage. From a child's point of view.

You have to work hard to get your wife back. Because. Children need a complete home.

It also depends on your wife's attitude. Your wife doesn't? The meaning of remarriage.

Don't waste your time anymore either.

Marital emotional problems, marital emotional problems, that is, if the marital feelings are not good, leave quickly, if there is a relationship problem, there is no no no supplement, and there is no meaning to remedy, because marital feelings are masters.

I feel a lot of problems because of marriage, and the problems encountered are also different, if it is said that two people really have a good relationship, they can naturally be corrected if they encounter some small problems, if they encounter two people who are more difficult to solve, you have to find your acquaintances or friends to reconcile in the middle, well, comrades-in-arms, marital emotional problems are also something that others cannot intervene in, so the feelings of two people still rely on their own efforts.

There is still a chance to remarry, you must correct your shortcomings, and you still have you in your heart, or you will not do it.

What is the psychology of remarriage in general?

First, the two sides have a deep emotional foundation. The breakup was just a momentary impulse, after the divorce, the emotional connection was broken, and after a period of calm thinking, the desire to reconcile became strong and then got married;

The second is that both parties have children, and the impact of divorce on the children is too great. For example, children's education problems, mentality problems, and even food and accommodation have become problems, they can't bear it, feel uncomfortable, and are more worried that after they remarry, no one will hurt the children, no one will take care of them, and they will suffer greater grievances.

Third, the problem that led to divorce has been solved. For example, some couples divorce because the husband has a lifestyle problem, or because a third party intervenes. And men for the little nanny, female secretary, working girl and other love love, often not for a long time, especially the huge difference in age, so that they can not be hot for a long time, when the love continues, it will become more practical, more nostalgic for their first love, miss their ex-wife, feel better to return to the original home, so,

I don't think you should be in a hurry to remarry, a woman like your ex-wife can leave behind a seven-month-old child, and divorce you to be honest, she is not an ordinary woman, ordinary women will not be able to give up their children, especially such a young child who is still waiting to be fed, there is actually not much problem between you, you should observe her more, and see if it is a fellow traveler before making a decision.

There should be hope for this, after the divorce, they drank together and slept together, and let you work hard, and also told you that she was exercising in **, and let you meet by chance, it should be that she did not let go of this relationship, and she also wanted to remarry, so she had to work harder, so it should be reconciled.

Try to redeem it, but your ex-wife really has a personality, she has been divorced twice, and she is so bold! The subject is to try hard to get her heart! After all, you still have children!

Oh, the big problem, you go to work first, 12 months a year, you work first, and then give your partner a job near you, do it first, and then persuade your parents to get married, don't quarrel As for the money, I don't know where you use it, anyway, you have to use it in the right place, if you don't have the strength, you will get married, and you will not have a good time if you get married.

In this case, the woman is actually still thinking about the child and the man. If the man insists on impressing the woman, there is still hope for reunion, after all, the child is still young, and it is good for everyone to reunite as a family.

Your ex-wife, he doesn't want to remarry, no, he won't marry someone else, but remarriage seems a little difficult, she wants you to go, every day she meets him at work, and then he wants to seek a feeling of falling in love, she still has feelings for you, otherwise she won't live with you, so you have to be positive.

I think there is still a chance, there is no mother who does not love her child, provided that you promise that you will not do it again in the future, and domestic violence will form a habit more than three times. Your ex-wife also has a resistance and shadow against your previous beatings. In the event of a conflict, a quarrel, remember not to do it.

Otherwise it always doesn't make sense.

I think in your case, if you strongly ask him to reclaim, he will definitely agree, because she can't let go of you and the child at all, because she also feels that it is impossible to find someone else to marry in a situation like him now, so it depends on your attitude, after all, he still has a certain affection for you, is willing to associate with you, and goes out to open a house with you, which is enough to show that she still loves you.

This needs to look at your own emotional needs, everyone's emotional needs are different, some people will pay more attention to material conditions, and some people will pay more attention to their first feelings. Hold it closed.

When it comes to the question of relationship and marriage, because everyone has different standards for looking at relationships, and everyone's background conditions are also different, there is no standard answer to this question at all. In my personal experience, if you don't have a heartfelt feeling for this person, it probably means that you won't have a good feeling for him in the future, so you need to keep a certain psychological expectation about it.

Some people tend to be more realistic about the conditions.

Emotionally, some people will attach great importance to realistic conditions, and at the same time, they will ask the other person to be able to provide them with a house and a car. Although this question sounds very realistic, for most girls, because many girls themselves have limited work ability, they want to have a better life in this way. Especially when girls are young, a small number of girls are indeed eligible to ask for a house and a car.

Some people also place more emphasis on the first feeling.

If a girl's own economic conditions are better, the girl may not pay too much attention to the boy's economic conditions, but the girl will pay more attention to the first feeling of two people together. For such girls, envious girls generally regard the relationship between two people as very important, and when the other party has no way to make themselves feel excited, it basically means that there is no possibility for two people to be together.

I suggest you assess your emotional needs.

You can apply the above two items to yourself and evaluate how you choose a partner based on your actual conditions. For each of us, no emotion can make us feel perfect, so we must make the right trade-offs in our feelings. At the same time, we need to respect the first choice of the heart as much as possible, because this choice will be the tone of the relationship between the two people who are together for the rest of the relationship.

on 10 May 2022

In life, we are always pursuing, looking for a harbor where we can dock in the heart, and we are always looking forward to a warm and warm embrace, which is the home that we are moved by for a lifetime. How many crazy men and women complain about the book, after experiencing the flowers before the moon when they are in love, they have finally achieved positive results and entered the marriage hall of the gods. After a few years of marriage, in the collision of real life, the once hot and romantic has gradually been worn out, and even more estranged quarrels and trivial matters will be produced.

So many people wonder, how did the once vigorous love change in marriage?

If you think about it, although marriage is the result of a successful relationship, it only means a fresh beginning. Love is an exchange of feelings, a matter of two people. Marriage is an exchange of values, and it is the establishment of a relationship between two families.

Money problems and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts will become stumbling blocks on the road to your marriage, to be honest, getting along with your family is also a science, and managing a good marriage also requires continuous run-in and learning in life. Love is just a romance of wind and snow, and marriage is the reality of firewood, rice, oil and salt. Stranger, no matter what you are experiencing in marriage at the moment, I want to say that the meaning of marriage is not to drag each other down, but to encourage each other when life is tired, and if you are wronged outside, you can have a warm embrace when you return home.

So a good marriage is born again, and he will only make you shine brighter.

If your married life is not happy, then please let go of your obsession, think about the person next to the pillow, is the fire that could not be extinguished in your heart, let all these years of unhappiness go with the wind, because there will be contradictions where there are people, not to mention that you get along day and night, this is also the norm in the world, don't have to be entangled, you must learn to tolerate each other's shortcomings. Maybe you are experiencing a lack of money, but with the joint efforts of two people, what can't be achieved, you have to believe in the great power that the universe has given to mankind. Only by properly removing the troubles can there be room for beauty and happiness.

There is no perfect marriage in the world, and the so-called perfectionism is just living in a vision. Because you and I are mortal. It's not just the other party that has shortcomings, it's also ourselves. Understanding this, I am sure that you will soon reconcile with reality.

Think of marriage as a fun trip together, renting together in pursuit of the prosperity of the world and immersing yourself in the fireworks of the world. Marriage is just a lively banquet, and what supports your whole life is love, life is short but a hundred years, and 500 times of looking back in the past life can be exchanged for a passing in this life. A lifetime of love, please know how to cherish and understand, I hope that you are still the person you want to find most in the next life.