Friends, share what is your biggest regret so far?

After working for a few years, I think what I regret is that I didn't study hard. Knowledge is power, and work can really be very touching. The importance of academic qualifications can be reflected from the beginning of entering the society, the high student status, the starting point is generally higher, the probability of finding a good job is also relatively large, and the salary in the workplace will be higher.

While this is not the most important, it is necessary. If I could go back to high school, I wouldn't be lying on the bed at night to watch**, I wouldn't doze off during self-study classes, and I wouldn't run to the toilet during class. I will definitely listen carefully to the lectures and make the most of every minute of learning.

That's why parents are demanding of their children, because they have experienced this, so they don't want their children to have this experience of failure. ‍‍

The biggest regret in this life is that I didn't listen to my parents back then, and I married my husband desperately, ruining the happiness of my life. I have been a good girl since elementary school, obedient and sensible, study hard, help my parents with housework when I go home, and have always been the child of other people's families in neighbors and relatives and friends' houses. After being introduced, I met him (now my husband) who had just been discharged from the army, and I was carried away by love, and I married him despite my parents' repeated objections!

However, there is no regret pill! The path you choose, you have to finish it with gritted teeth! ‍‍

So far in my life, I feel that the biggest regret is that I haven't hugged a boy who has loved me seriously. In the best years of his youth, he gave me all his goodness, and I only had to work hard and study hard. Because of low self-esteem and introversion, he is timid and afraid of things, and he is afraid of being discovered when he falls in love.

With such a character, I have never seriously told him "I love you", nor have I ever seriously given him an affectionate hug. ‍‍

My biggest regret in this life is that I didn't take good care of my grandparents when they needed me the most, and I feel guilty when I think about it! Grandma has cerebellar atrophy, and sometimes she doesn't remember the people around her, and she doesn't remember what she said, so she asks again and again! But grandma has never forgotten me, because she is far away from home, she uses her mobile phone to contact, ** watch him accompany her and chat with her.

In order to live, he had to leave his closest people, but every time he went back, he would say: What are you doing when you come back! You're so busy!

Don't come back to see me! Every time he said that, I burst into tears! ‍‍

Many things are always lost and become precious. My biggest regret is that after my grandmother died, I didn't leave a commemorative **. At that time, in the central primary school in the village, people came down to take a picture every year, always thinking that they would take a picture of their grandmother, but because they were greedy for fun, they forgot to drag and drag until their grandmother died.

Now I feel super regretful and regretful, my grandmother has given me too much joy and love since I was a child. Now I can only remember what my grandmother looked like in my memory. ‍‍

Looking back now, the biggest regret when I graduated was that I didn't make the most of my time in school. When I was in school, I always thought that I still had a lot of time after work, and I didn't have to be in school to study. If possible, I think it is better to settle down and accumulate yourself during the school period, so as to accumulate foundation for future work and personal development.

When I was young, I worked hard so that I would not have regrets when I got older. ‍‍

When I was young, I didn't grasp the opportunity and was satisfied with the status quo. Now that I am middle-aged, my parents are old, and I have added a second child, and I suddenly feel that the financial burden on my family is getting heavier and heavier. My eyes are full of money, but now it is difficult to make money in all walks of life, and I regret not working hard when the opportunity came, and blindly enjoying life.

At this time, I had an epiphany: the opportunity must not be lost, and the loss will not come again! ‍‍

The most regrettable thing for me is that before my father died, I had not been home for three or four months, which became a hurdle in my heart that I could not overcome. At the end of the day, I don't have what it takes to create a better life for them. ‍‍

On January 27, 2019, only about a week before the Chinese New Year's Eve, my uncle left us forever. My sister and I cried that day, and I kept thinking in my mind, "If I could turn back a little bit of time, I would definitely send another bowl of dumplings to my uncle."

A few days before I died, my mother-in-law cooked dumplings and asked me to send them to my uncle, who said he wanted to eat a little more after eating a bowl, because we didn't live together, and my father felt troublesome and asked me to send them next time, no one thought that after that time, my uncle would never be able to eat again, and this incident became a regret for my life.

My uncle's life was unmarried or unmarried, and he had no children or daughters. When I was a child, my parents went out to work, leaving my younger sister and I with my uncle and grandmother, so in our hearts, my uncle was a closer person than our parents, and my uncle also treated us as his own daughter. When I was a child, my family was miserable, as long as my uncle went out to farm or build a house for others, he would bring my sister, who was less than two years old at that time, and it can be said that my sister was raised by my uncle.

But,Uncle's old age was very difficult. Less than two years after my grandmother's death, my uncle's health suddenly became very poor, and he often couldn't sleep all night with leg pain. At first, my father said that he would take my uncle to our city so that it would be convenient to take care of him, but my uncle refused and insisted on living alone in his hometown.

My parents had to take turns going home to take care of him until he was paralyzed in bed before they could bring him to the city, but by then he couldn't walk or move.

As the saying goes, "there is no filial son in front of the bed", not to mention that my father is not the daughter of my uncle, in the five years of taking care of my uncle, my father has also suffered a lot, no matter where he goes, he will pull my uncle, afraid that he will have something at home, because the uncle is incontinent, these are all done by my father alone, and we can only help with some light work. After a long time, my father would sometimes lose his temper with my uncle, because my uncle couldn't move all year round, and his body became heavier and heavier. My dad would say

Eat a little less meat, it's too heavy for me to carry you! ”That day, the uncle didn't have any symptoms, and after he finished eating a full plate of dumplings, he told me that he hadn't eaten enough and wanted to eat another bowl. I said yes, and asked him if there was anything he wanted to eat, and I would bring it with me.

Uncle said he wanted to eat oranges. Because my parents happened to come to our house for dinner that day, my father said that there was no need to bother, and it would be the same tomorrow night.

I just didn't expect that there would never be a next time.

My biggest regret so far is that I didn't spend time with my family properly, and I always left my bad temper to them, and I didn't even talk to them properly.

The biggest regret is that I don't have a stable job and a reliable career, so I am thirty years old and I can't do anything.

My biggest regret is that I broke up with my first love at that time.

I only blame myself for being too young and doing things without thinking about the consequences.

I think my biggest regret is that I haven't been in a relationship yet, but I believe it's just because my love hasn't come yet.

I think my biggest regret is that I didn't get into the undergraduate or the university I wanted when I took the college entrance examination, so my current academic qualification is a junior college.

So far, my biggest regret is that I didn't study hard to be admitted to a key middle school in the third year of junior high school, so I am still an ordinary salesperson.