Strengths and weaknesses, each with its own strengths and weaknesses

I think the advantages and disadvantages are the characteristics that must exist in every thing, only comment on the disadvantages without considering the advantages, it may be that your friends do not notice its advantages, or it may be that they have noticed but do not want to admit it, so they avoid mentioning it, this kind of person always sees the shortcomings of others and ignores the advantages, and will inevitably be abandoned by others after a long time, because being with him can only be counted, rather than promoting each other and helping each other.

As for the method of change, it is necessary to analyze why this person has such a mentality, which may be that he lacks the recognition of others and the attention of others, so he also sees the shortcomings when he looks at others. There is also such a person around me, sometimes other people's feet are smelly or their clothes are dirty or something will say it directly, everyone else knows but does not say it, but he is the only one who says it, although there is a certain mistake in the smell of feet, but it is unacceptable for him to say it directly. I think his mentality is to say the shortcomings of others, and then compare them with their own strengths, and then feel that there is a feeling of being higher than others in his heart, in fact, this is a misunderstanding, everyone can not be perfect, seeing the shortcomings of others can be told to help him correct with a kind attitude, instead of counting down and belittling others, it can only be said that this person has a problem with his mentality.

I don't know the solution to this mentality, but giving him a little more care and communicating with him may be effective.

For the second question, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, there is a word that promotes strengths and avoids weaknesses, that is, to promote strengths and avoid weaknesses; With others, we should also talk more about our strengths, because everyone will feel uncomfortable when they hear others say their shortcomings, but if you really want to help others change a shortcoming, then you must communicate with him very kindly and sincerely, so that he can realize his own shortcomings and correct them, others can only play a role in promoting it, and change can only rely on themselves.

That's a little bit of my personal opinion. ~~

Briefly describe your strengths and weaknesses, for example, I love my motherland and the people. I have a cheerful and lively personality, love life, and I am often not ashamed to ask questions in my studies, and I have a strong desire for knowledgeSelf-motivated。I can consciously abide by the code of conduct for secondary school students, actively participate in various activities, respect teachers, get along with classmates, care about and love the group, be willing to help others, consciously exercise, and often participate in various extracurricular and extracurricular activities organized by the class and school.

Briefly describe your strengths and weaknessesI feel blessed to live in such an environment. Of course, I am also deeply aware of my own shortcomings, I don't pay much attention to some details, and occasionally get by. Playful, with goals but not enough effort.

Sometimes it takes only three minutes to do things with enthusiasm, and I believe that if I overcome these problems, I can do better.

I learned a lot in the three years of junior high school. I used sweat and hard work in exchange for better results. I will also go out into society with this fighting spirit and face my own future.

I hope that I can be successfully admitted to a good high school and continue to enjoy my academic career. In the future, we will be a person with ideals, perseverance, and endurance, and make our own efforts for the construction of socialist China.

Advantages: 1. I am a relatively practical young man who is very persistent in what I want to do.

2. Not afraid of hardship, tiredness, and dirty.

3. Like to collect and learn management knowledge.

Disadvantages: 1. Anxious, anxious, and in a hurry to do things.

2. Impetuous, not calm enough to do things.

3. Like to eat, drink and smoke, young people are not motivated to drink, and they are not responsible for their own bodies.

Weaknesses and strengths are two sides of the same coin. Weaknesses are played at the right time and space, which is a strength. Where a strong point is used incorrectly, it is a weak point.

Focus on your weaknesses, and your weaknesses will become more and more and weaker. Focus on your strengths, and your strengths will become more and more and stronger.

What you focus on, you are.

Give full play to your strengths, and your weaknesses will not have a chance to perform, and they will slowly disappear. If you try your best to make up for your weaknesses, you won't have a chance to play your strengths, and your strengths will become weaknesses over time.

The more you strive for perfection, the more you find yourself worthless. Don't strive for perfection, fully accept yourself, you are perfect. People are perfect because they accept, and they are defective because they resist.

Weaknesses are strengths. Those who know their strengths must know their weaknesses. I don't know my strengths because I don't know my weaknesses.

Weaknesses and strengths are the same thing, and when you look at them from different angles, they are different things.

What you think is a weak, may be a good in the eyes of others. What you think is a good may be a disadvantage in the eyes of others.

When we are young, we don't want to be ourselves, we desperately try to learn from others and fight against ourselves. In the end, he didn't become someone else, but lost himself. The result of making up for the shortcomings is that the disadvantages are still the shortcomings, and the advantages are not the advantages.

After middle age, we begin to wake up, we can only be ourselves, not others. We can only accept our shortcomings and play to our strengths.

If all the shortcomings are really removed, the advantages will no longer exist.

Give full play to the advantages and the disadvantages will disappear.

It's forgivable to confront yourself when you're young, but after middle age, you have to know yourself and be yourself seriously, and it's too stupid to confront again. If you don't be yourself, you won't have a chance.

Go your own way and leave someone else's path to someone else's way.

To find yourself is to find your own way, and your own way is the road to success. Those who find themselves will definitely succeed, and it is impossible to fail. If you can't find yourself, you won't succeed.

Successful people don't compete with others, and competitors won't succeed.

When we run into walls everywhere and the roads are impassable, we know how to reflect on ourselves and correct ourselves. Desperation awakens.

The ignorance of our youth also increases our knowledge and abilities, which are essential for the acquisition of wisdom.

Young people need to be active. If young people do nothing, society will be dead.

We all know that no one is perfect. Although each of us wants to strive for perfection, there is no such thing as a perfect person in real life.

What we can do is to infinitely amplify the advantages and make up for the shortcomings with all our might.

There is such a science experiment, and some students who are usually very stupid and looked down upon by teachers and classmates are what we often call pests in the class, they usually don't study well and only fight with others. Then the scientists gathered these students and asked each of them what they wanted to do the most, or what they were best at, and they told the scientists one by one, and then the scientists made different teaching plans according to the students' personal interests and hobbies, so that they could do what they liked most in the field they liked and were best at. As a result, after half a year, these students have not only made great progress in the things they like, but also made great progress in their studies.

In fact, scientists do not do anything special, but discover their strengths, let them find more confidence in the things they like, cultivate some habits, and then use these good habits for learning. Therefore, we should be good at discovering the strengths of others, and give full play to the strengths, and at the same time help others to make up for their shortcomings, so that we can cooperate with each other to achieve the effect of 1+1 2.

For example: 1. A blind person walks and accidentally falls into a mud puddle or hits a hard object and injures himself; A lame man walks with a cripple who always falls, is unsteady on his feet, and needs to hold on to walls and railings. If the blind man and the lame man can support each other, the blind man makes the crutches of the lame man, and the lame man makes the eyes of the blind man, not only will the two not fall or knock down, but they can also walk while chatting, laughing and laughing along the way, relaxed and happy.

2. There is a gentleman named Xilin, he has five sons, the eldest son is very servant, the second son is very smart, the third son has bad eyes, the fourth son has a waist problem and is a Luo pot, and the fifth son has a disabled leg. The eldest son was very servant, and Mr. Xilin called him a farmer; The second son was very smart, and Mr. Xilin told him to do business; The third son was blind, and Mr. Xilin asked him to do massage;

The fourth son is a Luo Yu fierce pot, and Mr. Xilin asked him to rub the straw rope; Because his back is bent, he doesn't feel tired after a day's work, and his work efficiency is very high; The fifth son only had one good leg, so Mr. Xilin called him spinning, and he put the spinning wheel on the table, and the person sat in that place, shaking it by hand, and the efficiency was surprisingly high.

As a result, a family similar to the club for the disabled, under the arrangement of Mr. Xilin, became free to eat and drink.

Things (or people) have their own strengths, weaknesses, and inspiration:

When dealing with problems in life, if you can solve the "shortcomings" that cause the problems first, you can greatly shorten the time to solve the problems. As the saying goes, "no one is perfect", and there are indeed many weaknesses in human nature, such as vices, low self-esteem, mistakes, worries, jealousy, and so on. These shortcomings are often the key to limiting capabilities.

At work, if you want to defeat competitors, you must understand the weaknesses of the other party and how to highlight your advantages; If children's grades are not good, scolding is not the solution, and helping them with homework is not a good way. <>