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That's why success is more difficult.
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Through my own practice, I have found that it is better for people to be pragmatic, otherwise your dignity will be swept away, others will look down on you, and your dreams will still be realized at this time.
It is a good thing to have dreams and goals, and it is easier to succeed, but if there are detours on the road of life, dreams will be far away from you, of course, it has something to do with your life plan and career plan.
My goal in my freshman year was to become a scientist and my sophomore goal was to become a film director, but I started to fail my sophomore year and retake the subjects of my sophomore year in my junior year, and my dream at that time was to graduate and get a degree certificate.
In the end, I didn't realize my dream of being a director and a scientist, and the main reason is that on the one hand, I can't just dream and have no methods. When many people arrive at university, they don't have the rules of their teachers, and they suddenly lose their motivation and are prone to failure. That's why many people say that universities don't go to famous brands, it's better to go to a garbage university, so you can endure humiliation, so many junk university students end up taking the graduate exam, and many people go to Tsinghua University and Peking University, because these people must enter a prestigious university from a garbage university for graduate school in order to develop their careers.
A tendon is sometimes a good thing.
Therefore, dreams are not easy to stick to, and you have to plan your life and career.
I lived with my current daughter-in-law in my sophomore year, and I started to face family troubles in my junior year, and then I didn't know what I wanted anymore. The dream is gone, the goal is gone.
In today's society, the family is almost the grave of dreams. At best, the family is an accessory to the successful.
I wish you a good walk in life.
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This is a very complex issue that depends on the individual's circumstances and choices. But generally speaking, if you really enjoy doing something or pursuing a certain goal, then when you encounter setbacks or failures, don't give up on your dreams easily, but stick to them. Here are some reasons:
Something you like is valuable in itself: If you really like something, then it has value in itself, and even if you don't think about success or failure, it can give you a sense of satisfaction from a self-actualizing perspective.
Consistent efforts can pay off: Despite setbacks or failures, if you keep trying, you may have unexpected rewards. For example, you may learn new things, make new friends, gain new opportunities, etc., which you would not have been able to achieve without setbacks.
Asserting yourself boosts self-confidence: If you are able to hold on to your dreams in the face of difficulties, you can gain self-confidence even if you end up failing, and you are more likely to face future challenges.
Going with the flow may make you regret it: If you choose to give up on your dreams because of a setback, it may make you regret it. This regret is a deep form of self-denial that may bring more uneasiness and distress in the future.
Of course, these are just some common reasons, and it's not that sticking to what you love is necessarily the right choice. When making decisions, you need to take into account your actual situation and goals, and you need to fully weigh the pros and cons to make the choice that best suits you.
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1. I will persevere, I will not fight for steamed buns, and I will stick to the end 2. As far as I am concerned, I will. Life is my own, not theirs, and if I don't like the path I follow, I'm going to have a miserable walk. I like it, I'm tired and crying and kneeling will finish this road, success counts me lucky, failure, I'm still young, fight this time I'm old and won't regret it when I think about it, why don't I try it.
It's a big deal because of the pain I like and then everything starts again, before the age of fifty, I think I have that hard work 3, if it is the work that I insist on, it doesn't matter who opposes it, how many setbacks can be persisted, the key is whether I insist enough, love can't be hidden! 4. The perception of contemporary social animals, if you follow the opinions of your parents, you will be unhappy, and if you blindly pursue your dreams, your life will be fluctuating and unsettled. It seems that only children talk about dreams before chaos, but now adults feel luxurious when they talk about dreams.
5. Let's look at the reality, just like my friend now wants to go out by himself, but his parents still want to take the public institution exam, there is an iron job bowl, what should I do if my family opposes my career, first of all, you have to calmly analyze the reasons for the opposition of my family. If the reason is correct, then you should listen to your family, otherwise you can communicate with your family members to understand that what you are doing is right and that they can help you. They are all relatives whose blood is thicker than water, and they all have a purpose for the good of their relatives, and they can communicate well about everything.
Ideas can be different, but choose well. As long as you truly love your family, don't be afraid to communicate with them, the more you don't communicate, the less your family understands your thoughts, and the more worried they are about you. Therefore, you should speak your thoughts calmly with your family, and listen carefully to what your family members have to say.
Words are happy locks, and there is nothing that cannot be solved when you say it. But first you have to respect them and let your family know that you love them and that your parents are doing it for their own good. Talk to your parents!
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Everyone has an unforgettable dream when they are young, but for most of us, these dreams are often difficult to achieve in the end, and they are always just the best memories in our hearts.
For me, I did have a dream when I was a child, my dream is that when I grow up, I can become a real football star, the reason why I have such an idea, mainly because I like to play football when I was a child and many children of the same age, in the process of playing football, we often have our own support team, support stars, and at that time, gradually understand and like the sport of football for my favorite stars, I also have a special fascination, So I really want to be a real football superstar when I grow up.
And the ideal is beautiful, the reality is skinny, even if I like to play football very much, but with my physical fitness, in terms of my skills, I can only become an amateur football lover, want to become a professional football player, it is obviously impossible, although when I grow up, for this dream has gradually forgotten, but whenever I think of this dream, I often have a trace of waves in my heart, and at the same time produce a kind of warmth, Because when I was young, playing football with my friends was so happy and beautiful, and I was able to get a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction, which I will never forget.
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1. I drew a red sun and gave it to Xiaocao, hoping that it would grow happily.
2. I draw a round sun and give it to people who are busy working in old things, hoping that the sky will be darker and darker.
3. I drew a green sun and gave it to summer, hoping that summer would be cold everywhere.
4. I draw a yellow sun and send it to autumn, hoping that the farmer will have a good harvest.
5. I drew a red sun and sent it to the disaster area, hoping that they would rebuild their homes.
6. I drew a green sun and gave it to the grass, I hope the grass can grow greener.
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I have my own dreams, my dream is to become an astronaut, but maybe because I have a little scar on my body, maybe I can't get sick, I have been afraid of dizziness since I was a child, but I can fulfill my other dream through another way.
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