I m scared! The man has to attend 23 wedding banquets during the National Day holiday, can the money

Most of them can be recovered, all of them are a little too difficult, after all, people are constantly expanding their contacts, and there will be old friends leaving at the same time as meeting new friends, which is human nature, so don't pay too much attention to the money that goes out, and take it back if you can take it back, and if you can't get it back, it will be regarded as paying for the original friendship.

1. The money of relatives and best friends can basically be recovered, but don't get too much hope for the money of ordinary friends and colleagues. In 2020, due to the epidemic, many people moved their weddings to "Eleven", especially at the moment, when it is still relatively warm and the newlyweds can still wear dresses, so this small long holiday is basically not prepared for rest, but seems to exist for the money, such as the guy on the hot search, who has to participate in 23 wedding banquets in just 8 days of vacationEven if it is only 200 yuan per game, this is half a month's salary and will soon go out

If he is a relative or a close friend, then there is no need to worry about the moneyBecause as long as you live in this life, your relationship will not be broken, and it is only a matter of time before the money returns to your pocketBut if you follow ordinary friends and colleagues, then don't have too much hope for this money, colleagues may leave their jobs at any time to change to a city for development, and ordinary friends are the same, so the distance is far away, and the money will naturally disappear.

Second, modern people are becoming more and more disgusted with money, mainly because it has become a burden for modern people, and it is no longer a good blessing. In the past, many people didn't feel much about getting married with money, but now this money has changed its taste, making modern people more and more annoyingBut if others follow themselves, they don't seem to be isolated, so they have no choice but to feel uncomfortable with their money.

There is also a situation of getting married, for example, this guy needs to attend 23 wedding banquets with so much gift money, even if he pays two months' salary at the end of September, but he can't stand up to following so many gifts, and it is not clear what his quality of life can be maintained after he goes to work in October, and the money is not voluntary but passiveIt makes sense that money, which measures how well you relate to others, is becoming more and more annoying.

Finally: I didn't think I could get back the money I went out with in those years, to be honest.

can take it back, this man will not follow without scruples, he must have his own little abacus.

Can't come back. Now the ** is very dynamic, so it is not necessarily that there will be no contact one day, and the money will be gone.

If you keep in touch, you can still get your money back, but it is very likely that with the interruption of contact, your money may be lost in the end.

I don't think I can get it all back, because some of them are colleagues, and the money can't be recovered if the colleague leaves. It's possible to move around now and not when he gets married.

Most of them can be recovered, and the Chinese are the most courteous and reciprocal. When there is a happy event, I like to hold a banquet. If you have a relationship, you will be invited to a banquet, and people with ordinary relationships will not be invited.

Yes. Generally, this kind of banquet is back and forth, going and returning, and will be returned when there is something happy for you.

People have been in China since ancient times. Wedding with the party, drinking happy wine, and being happy, is also a tradition of Chinese, but it is indeed a bit exaggerated to participate in 32 weddings in one holiday. As for whether the gift money can be recovered, I think it's quite difficult.

The woman received 21 wedding invitations before the National Day, and participated in 5 at most a day, in exchange for me, I will only choose to participate in the wedding with which I have a good relationship, and those who will not come will not refuse to go to bless all, after all, Zida's own money is not blown by the wind, and you need to think twice before doing things, after all, it is very hard to make money.

Nowadays, people like to hold weddings during the National Day holiday, and you must know that receiving 21 wedding invitations at once is a headache, and you will not be able to let go of the money in the face of it. But I'm relatively sensible, even if I receive 21 wedding invitations, I won't let myself choose all of them, after all, some people don't have the affection to participate in each other's weddings, and the other party may just make a gift money, there is no need to waste their money and energy.

I believe that most adults are under a lot of pressure, especially when facing life, and they can't afford it, so they need to think about it before spending it, and they can't know how to refuse. People's hearts are indeed a lot of expenses, especially when I received 21 wedding invitations on the National Day, in other words, I will definitely not participate in all of them, after all, the pressure is very high, otherwise I can only eat soil after the holiday, I don't want to fall into such a situation, I will definitely consider it carefully.

Nowadays, some young people will adopt a wide net model when they get married, even if they meet someone they are not familiar with, they will give each other an invitation, and an extra share of money will give them an extra income. This phenomenon is not a minority, so I will only choose people who have a good relationship with me to participate in marriage, and other people usually don't see each other, so why waste money on them. I believe that people with good relationships are worthy of their own participation, and for less important people, there is no need to participate, not only to make themselves feel very cold, but also to let themselves suffer losses, such an ending I can't stand it.

Life as an adult is not as easy as I imagined, and if I encounter such a situation, I will definitely not participate in all of them, otherwise it will hurt me a lot and it will not be worth it.

I don't want to be so hypocritical and forced to work in a helpless way, and I don't want to deal with myself and don't want to treat myself in the future. The people in the city don't pay so much attention to the stool, so let's take care of ourselves first.

I will buy some wedding gifts for each couple, and at the same time I will send the gift money, but I will not attend any of the weddings of the couple who are note to the couple, so that a bowl of water can be flattened.

I might see which of my more important friends' weddings and try to go there, and the rest that aren't important may not go again.

Choosing to get married on National Day is to celebrate with the country and is a symbol of happiness, in addition, the National Day is lukewarm, the temperature is suitable, and the National Day holiday is relatively long, which are the reasons why people like to get married on National Day.

National Day is the birthday of the country, and it is also a day to celebrate together, and it is a day that symbolizes happiness, so many people will choose this day to get married, which is also an important reason for everyone to get married on National Day. When people choose a wedding date, they not only want to hold a wedding, but also symbolize happiness, and the National Day is a particularly festive day, and every year in the future, the National Day is their own wedding anniversary, which also has a special significance, so that their marriage can grow together with the motherland.

The climate of the National Day is suitable and not hot or cold, which is also the main reason for everyone to get married on the National Day, because marriage is a major event in life, on this day the bride wants to wear a beautiful show, and the beautiful wedding dress is relatively thin, in the cold winter marriage will make people feel uncomfortable, and the National Day, it is the early autumn season, the temperature is not high or low, especially comfortable, whether it is wearing a beautiful wedding dress or a beautiful dress, it will make the bride feel more comfortable, can successfully complete the wedding, leave a good memory.

The holiday on the National Day is relatively long, which is also an important reason for everyone to get married on the National Day. When you get married, you will ask for marriage leave, but there are many things you need to prepare for marriage, and simple marriage leave will make the newlyweds feel that there is not enough time, and if it can be connected with the National Day holiday, they will have more time. In this way, they can enjoy the newlywed life more well, and have time to travel and spend their honeymoon after the wedding, so that they can adapt to the newlywed life as soon as possible.

Marriage is a major event in life, everyone wants to make your wedding lively when they get married, and they want relatives and friends to congratulate, so they will get married on the National Day, because the National Day is the most important festival of the year, and all units will have a holiday on this day, if you choose to get married on this day, it will give relatives and friends time to congratulate and witness their happiness. However, when you choose to get married on the National Day, you must book a hotel in advance and send invitations to friends in advance, otherwise you will let others take the lead.

When I was young, my parents tried a lot to prevent early love, but they didn't want to fall in love when they grew up, and they were urged by their parents to get married. Parents say that men should get married, and women should get married, and they should consider marriage when they reach a certain age. I still want to believe in love, I can't say that everyone's love is very sweet, from the campus to the wedding dress.

To meet the right person at the right time, two people holding the hand of the son, and accompanying each other for a lifetime is the best. Generally, after a successful marriage proposal, it is necessary to consider the preparation of the wedding, and it is necessary to consider the relatives and friends of both parties, the time and place of the marriage, and ......No, before the National Day holiday, I have already received two wedding invitations. Why does everyone like to get married on National Day?

One. The National Day holiday is longer.

I think there are two reasons why young couples like to get married on National Day. First, the National Day is a very formal holiday, and getting married at this time has special commemorative significance, and second, the National Day holiday is long enough, we can use it to prepare for the wedding, carefully prepare and arrange, do not need to be too panicked, and after the wedding, there is enough time to rest. Just use the remaining vacation to readjust your mood, and after the holiday, you have to work hard again.

Two. Friends and family are at home on National Day.

If there is no witness of relatives and friends at the wedding scene, then this relationship must be unhappy, because usually everyone is busy with work, and there is very little time to get together, and even some relatives and friends are in the field, it is more convenient to come back, just take advantage of the National Day holiday to hold a wedding, relatives and friends can come back, witness and share this sweet moment together. Before getting married, I went out to have a banquet, but there were too many times, and I just happened to take advantage of the wedding and everyone was there to get the money back! <>

Three. The weather for the National Day wedding is also very good.

I think there is another very important reason why everyone gets married on the National Day, that is, the National Day is in a time when it is neither hot nor cold. Getting married on the National Day, the weather is cool, the bride can wear a beautiful and stupid dress, and the groom's suit can also be worn to feel handsome. I hope that all couples will only go to the Civil Affairs Bureau once in their lives.

I usually don't have time to work, and I have a certain holiday on National Day to be able to get married and entertain. Therefore, many people will choose to get married on the National Day, so that more relatives and friends can participate in their weddings.

In fact, this is a better day, everyone wants to get married on this more festive day, and it is also a holiday, so everyone has more time to argue.

First of all, the National Day is easier to remember, and then most people have time to participate, so many people will choose the National Day to get married.

Not a single one, no one is married at this time, and the relationship is generally made by people who find excuses and can't put it off.

01. The men's National Day holiday will participate in 23 wedding banquets, and the wedding banquet will be 8 days away. Many friends want a long vacation when they look forward to the stars and the moon, and they even plan to go to ** play. But Mr. Lei in Bijie was too difficult, and finally came to an 8-day long vacation, and he didn't even have a chance to rest, because he received 23 invitations, just No. 1You need to participate in 8 games.

Don't talk about giving gifts, how to participate is a problem, there are a total of 6 people in the family, all of them come in handy,I also drank to doubt life。This ** is a big long holiday,Obviously it is an 8-day tour of the wedding banquet.

If the relationship is usually good, then I have to go anyway, but obviously they are not in the range of my friendsWhy should I spend a month's salary as a gift? Anyway, I didn't plan to invite them when I got married, so I just unified the excuse and traveled with my familyNot available.

03, netizens complained that they were not celebrating the holidays. Mr. Lei's incident was reported, which resonated with the majority of netizens, and everyone complained that they finally had a holiday, but relatives and friends got married, and it would cost 1 to 2 months' salary to give gift moneyI really can't afford to hurt。However, some netizens remain optimistic, just as saving moneySooner or later, the money will be recovered, I have to say that the mentality is really good.

04, finally. Mr. Lei's sincerity is not easy, he is not a festival at all, he simply calls for money to be calculated. Although the gift money is not much, it can't stand the large amountIt's so much that it's doubtful about life.

I'm just two games, both of which are my good friends, but one has a red envelope, and the other doesn't, because I have explained in advance that I don't want to leave a red envelope for doing good deeds in the future, so as not to be able to come back in the future when the economic conditions are not good