I m a mom and daughter always don t tell the truth, what should I do

Alas, to be honest, it's a headache!

After reading the general situation of the things you described above, I also have a general understanding. The younger brother solemnly declares that the following is purely a "personal opinion", and I hope it can help you. If it helps, the little brother is very happy, please forgive me for saying something wrong!

1.Love is very beautiful, but please stay awake at all times, and don't be short-circuited by love (do something stupid)! After all, things will not go smoothly as we want, first of all, we must put our mindset right (that is, prepare for the worst)! Mindset is the most important thing!!

2.You also said that there is no problem in your family, and the problem is on the man's side (I'm talking nonsense!). First of all, the little brother wants to criticize this man!

It's a good thing to fall in love as a man and listen to the opinions of your parents and elders, but listening to opinions and blindly obeying are completely different things! If this man repays you with this extreme change of attitude just because of some of his mother's words, I think you would better leave this man! Although it is said that loyalty and filial piety cannot be both, but if as a man does not even have such a little assertiveness, this person is really not worthy of your love!

As you said above, he loves you very, very much, and is very, very good to you. If some of his mother's words will change this relationship, I don't need to say that you yourself should feel how pale your own words are (don't say that there are any hardships (referring to the man), they are all excuses in this kind of thing, and it has been said that loyalty and filial piety cannot be both, it depends on how the individual chooses).As a woman, the younger brother thinks it's better to find a good !! who really loves himself

Judging from what you have said above, the little brother dares to speculate that you should be a reasonable, assertive, and kind-hearted person. As for the personality, the little brother doesn't dare to speculate and can't guess, if such a person, the eldest brother, says that he doesn't like it, then I'm really speechless.

3.If you really care about this feeling, don't let go too much, and take it easy in your heart, so that you can be good for yourself! "Hope for the best, prepare for the worst" is something that cannot be forced (but it does not mean that you will give up without working hard).

Twisted melons are not sweet! This statement is not false at all, if you try to do his mother's job and still can't do it, I still advise you to give up! If you insist on combining, it is always you who will be sad in life after the final union! For him, but also for himself!

4。It's time to talk about hard work! Since you like this relationship so much, you have to fight for it with sincerity!

I don't quite agree with what was said upstairs! This matter does not mean that it is enough to deal with his mother, and if his attitude changes, it is already meaningless to deal with his mother. So it still depends on the mentality of this man, and of course, at the same time, it is necessary to strengthen the offensive against his mother!

Only when you get both things done, you can be happy!

5.The above is basically nonsense! But I still hope that you can fulfill this wish as you wish!

The younger brother finally reiterates one point: no matter what, "mentality" is the most important!

Daughters who are reluctant to talk to their mothers need to be patient, let go of their authority and communicate with their children.

1. Be patient. When communicating with their children, many parents are accustomed to looking at their children from their own position and perspective, and lack patience and effective listening to the questions raised by their children. Parents should be a patient listener and give guidance after the child has finished speaking, rather than interrupting the child and imposing their own ideas.

2. Let go of your authority. Put away the "parents are authority" philosophy. Although children will regard their parents as their own knowledge from an early age, they are willing to look for answers from their fathers and mothers.

But parents should not be agitated or try to create a perfect image, and they must know how to put down the frame of authority and give their children appropriate responses. When your child asks a question that you don't know, work with your child to find the answer, instead of prevaricating and fooling your child.

My daughter is 11 years old, and she did something wrong, and she scolded her mother, and I talked about her, but her mother said I shouldn't have said her.

When the child scolds his mother when he is more than ten years old, it means that there is a problem with family education, is the whole family not civilized enough, or is there a problem with mutual respect and reciprocal communication between family members, or is it unconditionally conniving at all the children's behavior? In this case, you should think more about the matter of Zen shouting skin, the root of the child's problem is seeping into the bend**, saying that she blames her for not being able to change anything, it is better for you to think about how to change and improve.

Communicate more, see what she is interested in, you have to go into her inner world, be patient.

Twenty-one years old is already an adult, and it is no longer correct to use the word obedience. Because it's not a child. Now the consideration should be based on the standards of adults. There are many specific items.

Also, you have to tell me what you are discussing to know that it is not your mother who is going to confiscate the money she earns, right? Don't say that you are twenty-one years old, even if you are a child, you can't take away the money to make a New Year's money. The tighter the parents' control over money, the easier it is to cultivate the Moonlight Clan.

Sometimes, parents say that their children have any reason, in fact, you might as well think about it, it is actually the result of the parents' planting.

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