Zhao Liying s wedding is far away, is the wedding really a necessary process for marriage?

I think it varies from person to person. They may not have chosen a traditional wedding, but a different way.

I still remember that there was a discussion in "Wonderful Story", "Is a wedding really necessary?" "Cumbersome pick-up process", "blocking the door", "making groomsmen and bridesmaids", "deliberate sensationalism at the ceremony", "awkward conversations with unfamiliar people at the dinner table"...All of them make people feel tired and irritable.

So isn't there a need for a wedding? Of course not! In that issue of "Wonderful Sayings", Huang Lei said:

If a man proposes to his daughter and asks not to have a wedding, then as a father, he will tell his daughter: Don't marry that man.

Marriage is a big event, and a wedding is a ceremony. Haruki Murakami said: Ritual is a very important thing.

The sense of ritual is to make a certain day different from other days, and to make a certain moment different from other moments. The wedding is a ceremony at the beginning of the marriage of two people, it is a grand confession, but also a promise about the second half of life, this moment has nothing to do with firewood, rice, oil and salt, only the purest happiness.

Writer Twelve once wrote such a passage in the text: Only after such a noise can we see the solemnity in each other's hearts, no matter how noisy it is outside, at that moment. In the excitement mixed with complexity, exaggeration, strangeness, and sadness, you are the most calmIt's never been clearer to whom you have entrusted it, and who has really overlapped with your life in the presence of everyone.

The form of the wedding is not fixed, we can choose to stay as far away as possible from those "temple fair" forms of weddings. For other people's weddings, we always sincerely bless them with a sincere attitudeBut if it's our turn, if we're tired of the same wedding form, we might as well make our wedding more personal and personal. Ditch the traditional check-in book and try a more interesting check-in method.

For a girl, I think it's a necessary process, but if you really love each other, you can postpone it.

I think yes, girls want to have a romantic wedding when they get married.

Personally, I think this is a girl's life, and it definitely needs to be held.

Everyone's concept is different, as long as you really love each other, I personally think that the wedding ceremony can be held or not.